A married woman with marital problems finds someone on the net to listen to her problems and now they are talking on the phone, but refuses to meet the man. Is she cheating? Why do you think she will not meet him, even though they are close on the net and phone?
2006-11-21 03:36:14 · 20 answers · asked by HM 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Are you the guy? If so, she talks to you because she needs that to fill a void! Actually meeting the person you chat or talk with is a huge step...she's probably scared!
2006-11-21 03:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no particular single or best reason for cheating. I think it has more to do with the natural insatiability of man. Man's needs and wants are insatiable. No two women are the same, so after you explore one, there is that longing to discover what the next one may feel like. There are many married men who do not cheat. Some have been able to inculcate a certain degree of discipline which helps them keep to their wives. Some others may be lacking in boldness to carry out such a covert activity because that is what it is. For others, the right opportunity has not arrived yet.
2016-05-22 07:21:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty simple. She mentally is drawing a line between harmlessly chatting/talking with someone she connects with and meeting that person in person.
It isn't a natural continuation though it seems like one. To meet in person, to her, clearly is crossing the line and "cheating" on her spouse.
The male she's chatting with and talking to, should be able to respect her and give her the space and time. The female shouldn't feel guilty or even forced into any kind of an obligation to meet until she's fully convinced that this is the right thing to do.
I don't want to be judgemental in saying what is right or wrong here. I for one have met another married woman that I met online. However, that doesn't make it right.
2006-11-21 03:45:05 · answer #3 · answered by houstonian352000 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I went through this myself. I just wanted a friend of the opposite sex to talk with. I wanted someone to make me feel better. I also wanted an honest opinion on how the opposite sex thought or could be thinking. I wanted nothing more . I do not think this will go any further than just friends. However, as time goes on and they continue to be friends if at a given time she asks her husband if he would mind meeting her friend with her, I would allow it. I say this because friends are just that friends. It would have to be agreed that both together with meeting new friend otherwise I would not go for it.
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2006-11-21 03:44:53 · answer #4 · answered by italliansweety67 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's an idiot for confiding in a complete stranger, it is cheating but she is not stupid enough to actually meet the guy.
Best thing to do is work things out with her husband and stop the chatting altogether.
2006-11-21 07:31:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
done this myself! i was not cheating on my husband did not even talk about sex, i just wanted someone to listen and so did he. if your the husband maybe you should think about why she is having to have a need met from someone other than you and fix the problem while you still can!
2006-11-21 03:39:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She really doesn't know that person,she only knows him by the net and phone.She should be skeptical of words on a computer and a nice voice on the phone.Yes she is right for not meeting him.
2006-11-21 13:31:35 · answer #7 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, she's not. She just needs an outlet for her problems and prefers to talk to someone who is not involved and who doesn't know anyone in her circle of friends or family. That way, nothing will get back to her husband.
2006-11-21 03:38:39 · answer #8 · answered by tipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because she is married... Have you think about that? It's not because she is having marital problems that she is going to cheat on her husband.
Dumb ***
2006-11-21 03:38:46 · answer #9 · answered by Zolex1981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is cheating to talk to a member of the opposite sex online. The business about finding someone to listen to her problems is baloney. If she needs advice, she should go to a marriage counselor or a therapist. She is looking for someone to talk to other than her husband. She's a cheater.
2006-11-21 03:39:54 · answer #10 · answered by notyou311 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋