Good day people. I am meeting this girl for the first time holidays coming cause we both have school work to do and we decided after exams etc we can meet. I am planning to take her to the coffee shop and maybe to a nice resturant but as is first meeting, i will kno then and there if i am intrested in her or not. The question is whether i am intrested to go to the next step or not intrested and be jus good friends, i wud like to know if i shud pay for her or a 50/50 thing. Cause if we do get together, i dont want her get the feeling i will be paying for her ALL the time. Comments and recommendations i am open. Thanks.
2006-11-21 03:42:13 · 13 answers · asked by The Honourable 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You pay the tab man. You are a man and you are supposed to take care of your lady. I f she want to contribute let her do so. But be ready to take care of everything at all times
2006-11-21 03:45:08 · answer #1 · answered by Zolex1981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First meetings to me should be paid by both people. The first actual Date you two go on if you go on one you should pay.
2006-11-21 11:44:48 · answer #2 · answered by movu101779 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly pay for the first date. If you do ever become a pair then you can discuss better how to handle financial decisions.
2006-11-21 11:47:41 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,you should pay.
That's the gentlemanly thing to do.After you get to know each other then you can have the I'm paying ,no, I'm paying fight.But a girl you just met,definitely.
Men today have lost their chivalry.
2006-11-21 11:46:35 · answer #4 · answered by Vtmtnman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay for her the first time. It will make a good impression.
2006-11-21 11:44:08 · answer #5 · answered by New Rule Tomorrow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you not realize that in today's enlightened times most women would feel affronted by you paying.... this is what there grandmothers burnt there bras about for goodness sake!!!!!
2006-11-21 11:48:03 · answer #6 · answered by Birdy is my real name 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you asked her to meet you, then good manners dictate you pick up the check...even if she offers to pay her half.
2006-11-21 11:49:41 · answer #7 · answered by life made better thru chemistry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you asked her to go with you then yes you pay.
2006-11-21 11:45:05 · answer #8 · answered by sar sar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usualy girls expect u to pay for them the first time but I think u should do this: talk to her and see if u like her or not. if u did...then pay for her if u didn't just excuse urself for bathroom or smth and runaway. then she has to pay herself!!!
2006-11-21 11:46:42 · answer #9 · answered by Afra 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
God ur such a loser, PAY for her stupid..Y would u make a women pay for her dinner when u invited her? diablo
2006-11-21 11:45:31 · answer #10 · answered by Wendy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋