Family & Relationships - 19 November 2006

2006-11-19 21:14:21 · 39 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

we are married for quite a long time. now we r bored with the same fashin of sex. how to add a extra bit of spice, so that my hubby starts having a new feeling? any suggestion, or weblink to some educative site or some free ebook? pls help.

2006-11-19 21:13:48 · 14 answers · asked by smita 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend doesnt say he loves me all the time it makes me really insecure, he say he loves me every now and then, well quite alot but my previous boyfriend was so sopy and text me every minute of the day saying he loves me with flowers and chocolates and teddys and present, so i have gone from one extreme from the other. i make it quite clear to my present boyfriend that i love him and i do but i feel insecure, i have spoke to him about this and he assured me he does love me, but when we first started dating he used to tell me he missed me, and a few months ago he told me i didnt miss u before but i really do miss u now, so what is to stop him saying i didnt really love u then but i do love u now. i dont no wat i am saying makes any sense but men can i have your opinion please. thanks

2006-11-19 21:13:33 · 8 answers · asked by heleney 2 in Singles & Dating

im a junior and i do to a stupid boarding school. i havent really kissed many girls and im 16. right now im not lookin for a relationship but jus to atleast make out with a girl. their are a few girls that im thinkin of maybe foolin around with.

is it weird to ask a girl if she wants to make out?
how should i ask her or get to makeout with her?
theirs this girl that use to flirt with me, im afraid if i screw up she might tell her friends n it might get out n im in a boarding school?

2006-11-19 21:12:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

any tips

2006-11-19 21:10:17 · 22 answers · asked by wetnslippy 3 in Singles & Dating

i want to stay in the uk so as to continue with my studies. that is the reason as to why i need a partner who can invite me.
iam a ugandan national, 24 years old. So far, i have a bachelor in business administration with a variety of computer skills.

2006-11-19 21:06:58 · 2 answers · asked by meckpat1980 1 in Friends

he was talking about his ex wife...she was dressed up to go out (he was over there to pick up the kids)...when i inquired about how he felt about it...he said she'd never dressed like that for him before...he said it was good that she was dressed up (cuz maybe it means she's over him and is moving on...but in woman world, it sometimes means that she is trying to make him jealous and to get him to come crawling back when he sees what he is missing...) and that it bothered him slightly that she had never dressed that way for him...i dunno how to take it... he said he's not in love with her anymore and that he isn't turned on by her anymore beciase he found someone who he cherishes and loves...me. how should i be reacting to this?

2006-11-19 21:02:47 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

When you have to "Pee". Do you just "Go", or do you find a toilet?

2006-11-19 21:01:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

the story begins like this- i liked her, i'm not sure if i still do or not. i think she was intrested in me! but her friends and friends of mine too couldn't help themselves see us together. the saw the girl with me in the train talking with her. i didn't knew her very much alot about her but those friends of her and mine told the whole school that she dumped me and told her that i said to the whole school the i dumped her. from then she is like angry that doesn't even wants to talk with me. i said sorry to her but nothing changed. i really got annoyed with her attitude. i also said to my freinds i don't give any **** anymore. but i think i like her. in this situation, what would be the most good thing to do. should i talk to her again? pls don't make silly comments! it's serious.

2006-11-19 20:57:14 · 13 answers · asked by ron 1 in Singles & Dating

Have you seen how people who have long relationships before they marry eventually get bored withe each other? Well I imagine when you get married at some point you become bored with your partner.

Those who are married please mention how long it took you to get bored with your hubby/wife and what you did about it. Does sex become routine?

2006-11-19 20:53:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just saw the my 24 year old boyfriend (I am 22, just for reference) left a comment on some girl's Myspace, referring to her as "hot". Now, he BRIEFLY dated this girl, just before he and I began seeing each other.

I know he loves me, and I know he finds me more attractive than her, but I am curious as to why this ridiculousness is even necessary.

We had a long talk about several of our relationship issues Saturday night, and we both felt happy about resolving the majority of them (this did not come up, as I have never felt it is an issue). However, Sunday at noon, he's telling some girl on Myspace she's "hot".

I simply do not find this appropriate- especially since he RARELY will leave comments on mine, and is always telling me he was "too busy at work" to write me back on emails and the like.

What do we think here, everyone?

2006-11-19 20:51:15 · 14 answers · asked by GeorgiaDawgsGirl 1 in Singles & Dating

i was supposed to do my first move to mke things right between my boardmates because i wasn't approaching them for less than two weeks now for the reason that am so depressed and i want to be alone...but then i was informed that they were telling things against me...and i got shocked and hurt because never did i say anything against them ...i even believed they were nice....i even felt sorry for not being the same old me,and triting dem not as the way i used to be...being talkativ,nice,swit,caring,and ol dat....but den am just going through some changes....now how should i treat them now?seems to me they're not real

2006-11-19 20:51:12 · 6 answers · asked by krung2 2 in Friends

Hey people, this girl i like all of a sudden has limited contact with me, i think i just got played, and she was on rebound. The girl broke up with ex about 3 weeks now, and we had been really close before, but after the break up we got even closer. Weve been to heaps of lunches together, couple of movies, and dinner coffee after work too.She really likes to touch me, and even hit me recenlty, sit on same seat etc....this was all for like the last 3weeks. Now all of a suddeen, she limits convo with me, and she seems to not wnna talk as much. I have given her space, and limit convo with her, but dont know whats on her mind?maybe shes annoyed i didnt make the move?....what should i do?, have i just been the rebound all this time? if so, why did i use to go lunches and so forth even before they broke up?, i dont understand, but i really like this girl,but too scared to hear she doesnt like me back!.....

2006-11-19 20:50:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 20:46:46 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have 2 children and I dont feel any romance with her. Is that normal and real?

2006-11-19 20:45:33 · 20 answers · asked by itsme 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

As we all know that there are some folks that just hate fat people. But I know that there are people out there that actually would rather be with us then most girls. Are dudes scared that they will get burned by their friends cause he is dating a big gal or he would much rather be with a skinny girl that could treat him wrong. Us big gals have great personalities, great hearts, loves with our whole hearts, and some of us are actually freaky under the sheets. So my question is should a big gal be as happy with someone that loves her or be alone for the rest of her life.

2006-11-19 20:44:57 · 19 answers · asked by Autumn L 2 in Singles & Dating

What should I tell her to propose.Mind it I love her very much & I don't wanna marry her now.I am a true lover.

2006-11-19 20:43:49 · 25 answers · asked by Messi 1 in Singles & Dating

My first loves name was Joe!

2006-11-19 20:39:22 · 30 answers · asked by kissinyou07 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 20:39:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I'm seeing this girl. We have great converstaions. We have fun together. She even took the time to learn football because I'm such a fan. We have pretty good sex, and quite a bit in common. I'm not intensly attracted to her but she's easy on the eyes. We aren't officaly dating although I know thats what she wants. We hang out almost daily. My work sends me around the country a lot. I open new stores for a growing company. I helped open a store in Boise, and there was a girl there I can't get outta my head. She was sweet and cute as hell. I found out shes joining the new store team as well which means eventually we'll end up working together. I think something might happen. Now, like i said me and this other girl aren't offical, but we have everything but the title it seems. Do I break it off entirly with this girl, do I just say nothing if i hook up with the Bosie girl, or do I wait and see if I hook up at all, or do I make it offcial with this other girl. I don't cheat!

2006-11-19 20:39:13 · 18 answers · asked by espactor 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend 27 months and he is definately the one. I love him so much, we have been living together for 18 months.
His family live in Spain and he was meant to be moving across there to live there but he fell in love with me and decided to stay because he didnt want to leave me.
His family are now wanting to move to Australia and planning to move across there in about 18 months time... and my boyfriend wants to go, but said he will only go if i go.
He is so close with his family, honestly, i have never seen any family closer... his dad is like his best friend.
I feel so guilty because i dont want to go. I would be leaving my friend and family behind and i couldnt handle not seeing them.

SHould i break up with him? thats the only way he will go without me. I couldnt face him resenting me for him not going in years to come.

2006-11-19 20:38:00 · 24 answers · asked by XPINKX 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I and my husband like our swinging lifestyle. But then why do others not into it judge us?

2006-11-19 20:36:14 · 14 answers · asked by rekha c 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ive been seeing this guy casually. we only meet up if we are out in town on the same nite. we live in different towns. hes texts me when hes out and i do the same. we only meet up by chance which can sometimes be weeks.we are not dating. he used to text me when i was in my previous relationship too.

i have only kissed this guy recently, despite him wanting to take things a little further. he always compliments me, buys me drinks and wants to be around me when we are together.

he asked if i was enjoying the single life and i said yes.

i was in his town this weekend so i text him to see if he was out. he wasnt. we started to flirt with eachother thro our text messages. he told me to let him know in advance when i was coming to his town next time.

i told him that i fancy him and asked him when he was going to ask me out on a date?he said he thinks hes around next saturday.thats how it was left.

does he really like?

2006-11-19 20:36:07 · 20 answers · asked by Special Little Girl xxx 1 in Singles & Dating

i mean like i really thought i would never ever here from this perso on a civil let alone a personal level at all. trippy.

2006-11-19 20:36:00 · 4 answers · asked by midnightsteve5150 2 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago, we were together for two years, he was verbally abusive and had to go. How long should I wait to start dating again?

2006-11-19 20:35:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he used 2 sleep with and they were friends - she used 2 b a bit on the side and hoped he would leave his main girlfriend for her- but he claims he never wanted her in that way. she used to ring all the time untill he changed his no and he told all the friends not to give it to her. Whenever i go to the pub with thim she goes on extra but trys to draw his attention . on saturday when we went into the pub i was sitting on one side and he was with a few friends playing dominoes .she walks in and sits on his lap -she saw me then jumped up - i was madddddddddd but i controlled it. She then bought him and others a drink. I dont think she should be doing dis weather i am there or not - but we have been arguingt he is saying that he didnt see when she came in and if he wanted he could have, but he doesnt.i am trying 2 show him that she has no respect and dat he could have refused the drink to show her that he didnt like what she did- i am not saying he cant talk to her but draw de line! help

2006-11-19 20:35:12 · 16 answers · asked by michelle07984 1 in Singles & Dating

I just asked a guy whom I like to join me for a group outing that I am invited by a good friend. I only know one friend from the group and he knows none. I thought it is a good chance to get to know him more in an unthreatening setting. Most importantly, I want to know whether the feeling is mutual.

He said he will tell me later. And I can't help second guess that perhaps I have all the while misunderstood his friendliness.

( I mean, wouldn't a guy show enthusiasm if the girl he interested in ask him out?)

Is it a subtle way to say he is not interested? (So I should get mentally prepared!) Or he really need to check his calendar?
Or what?

2006-11-19 20:34:59 · 6 answers · asked by MaryAnn J 1 in Singles & Dating

Great? Good? Ok? Alright? Bad?

2006-11-19 20:34:57 · 4 answers · asked by kissinyou07 2 in Singles & Dating

there was one good friend of mine. she proposed before our marriages. i rejected. we are still contact with each other but our partners doesn't know. she has a kid and i don't. can anyone suggest how do i know that she still likes me or not without asking her anything. i mean through any website or anything which she answers but will be known to me also??? please help...

2006-11-19 20:33:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my dearest friend is having a chat friend (girl) who is an indian keralite who is staying in kuwait .... she is coming to kerala to meet him ... she has told my friend to book a room at any hotel ... she is telling that she needs to meet him alone ... my friend is in a confusion what to do? .. he asked me ... i told my suggestion that it is not fair to take her to a lodge .... particularly in a place like kerala .... it will be good to meet at some park or beach ... but that girl is really forcing my friend to arrange a room ( dont know what she really want ).... so my friend told me to help him to arrange this .... what shall i do ? .. I tried to make him understand ... but in vein ... if i didnt cooperate with him ... i will be loosing this great friend of me... Please help?

2006-11-19 20:33:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating