ive been seeing this guy casually. we only meet up if we are out in town on the same nite. we live in different towns. hes texts me when hes out and i do the same. we only meet up by chance which can sometimes be weeks.we are not dating. he used to text me when i was in my previous relationship too.
i have only kissed this guy recently, despite him wanting to take things a little further. he always compliments me, buys me drinks and wants to be around me when we are together.
he asked if i was enjoying the single life and i said yes.
i was in his town this weekend so i text him to see if he was out. he wasnt. we started to flirt with eachother thro our text messages. he told me to let him know in advance when i was coming to his town next time.
i told him that i fancy him and asked him when he was going to ask me out on a date?he said he thinks hes around next saturday.thats how it was left.
does he really like?
2006-11-19 20:36:07 · 20 answers · asked by Special Little Girl xxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he knows about my previous relationship. he knew my ex but they were not friends. i was with my ex for 6 years and engaged.my ex has since moved away.
2006-11-19 20:38:25 · update #1
He will probably text you later on this week and ask you out at weekend for a date.
2006-11-19 22:11:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Casual is the word, and Im afraid unless he is married and hasn't told you then he is being really careful. He sounds pretty cagey to me which would indicate that he's hiding something.
Play caution to the wind and back off a little. Let him do the running, thats the only way you will know for sure of he really likes you, oh ans stop the text messages.
If he really likes you he will show you to your face how he feels.
2006-11-20 04:39:56 · answer #2 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this guy is just playing safe maybe because you have admitted that you enjoy a single life.However, dont put your attention too much on him, wait and see if he will make the move.... if he really has the interest to win your heart.
i guess it was you who likes him the most and not the other way around...in the end the choice is still yours, "follow your heart desires...." just be ready for whatever consequences there may be. good luck!
2006-11-20 05:43:07 · answer #3 · answered by NOSREME 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like there is another lover on his mind or he is playing hard to get. You may be a back up for a different girl or he just wants to be friends and he doesn't want to hurt you. Ask him? It is just a date. People make too much out of dating. Sometimes when you put too much pressure on your date they act differently than they normally would.
2006-11-20 04:43:47 · answer #4 · answered by snowstalker06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it - but he's either trying to play it cool or he's not actually as interested as it seems. Poke around a bit, find out if he's single, what his exes are like and why they broke up, just in case it's bad news!
2006-11-20 04:40:07 · answer #5 · answered by mishmash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you gave a confusing message with your answer about "the single life." Go back to that topic when you can, refer to his question, ask Him what he thinks about it. Sounds to me like he's looking for a wife, is not sure where You stand.
2006-11-20 04:41:40 · answer #6 · answered by shirleykins 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he did really like you then he would have made it more clear when you first met up. some guys give the wrong signals though. you never know just see what happens, dont get dissapointed if he doesnt want a relationship.
2006-11-20 04:39:23 · answer #7 · answered by Crazy_person 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my personal opinion is that hes just playing you around
however i have known my opinion to be wrong
if i were in ur shoes id forget him and find anouther guy.
i think it is suspicious that he wants to know in advance. ie has he got a secret affair you dont know about and is married or something along those lines.
2006-11-20 04:39:32 · answer #8 · answered by louise h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has probably been waiting to see if you are really interested in him before he goes ahead and makes a fool out of him self by asking you out, when you are next out tell him you are really into him and see what his reaction is, if he freaks out or you think he isn't in to you then you have saved yourself allot of stress and phone credit!!
2006-11-20 04:41:37 · answer #9 · answered by lauren r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like it, just keep in check with him but dont message him everytime you think about him sometimes that will get on guys nerves.
2006-11-20 04:40:23 · answer #10 · answered by Andrew E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋