I and my husband like our swinging lifestyle. But then why do others not into it judge us?
2006-11-19 20:36:14 · 14 answers · asked by rekha c 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
because they don't understand the lifestyle u've chosen. this country is too moralistic and is too deeply rooted in the guilty religious beliefs. email or im me and we can discuss further. i'd be interested in hearing more about ur lifestyle.
2006-11-20 00:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's the lifestyle you want, you got it. Personally I think it's wrong, but anyway my opinoin is only for me. There is only one way people would judge you and that's if they have the information that you were involved in swinging. If you don't want others to judge you, SHUT up about it.
2006-11-20 06:48:20 · answer #2 · answered by deerlady2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless your advertising it, whose judging you? From what I've read here and in the media in general, it seems the only ones whom it is still ok to judge are the people who choose to stick to their morals.
I don't judge anyone, but it's not a lifestyle I think is healthy for anyone. Induldging in sex with random people when you are married, aside from being morally wrong, is taking focus away from your marriage, which is not easy under normal circumstances.
It just seems to me whenever people don't want to deny themselves anything they call it a lifestyle choice and do it anyway. I think it's irresponsible.
2006-11-20 06:00:07 · answer #3 · answered by LilRedHrdGrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because getting sexual thrills outside of marriage can threaten a marriage and if you don't want to stay with your husband...why did you get married in the first place. The whole concept of monogamous relationship between a married couple and raising well balanced children is lost in the concept of swinging...its just public sex and would you want your children to do that one day, end up getting pregnant or HIV just because they wanted the Lifestyle like their parents? Get a grip on reality and on your sexual urges.
2006-11-20 04:56:06 · answer #4 · answered by DrSH 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Human beings are prejudice and sometimes we have to accept that. The lifestyle you choose is your own so to hell with people who judge you. As long as you're happy and contented with it, what people say doesn't really matter.
2006-11-20 05:27:01 · answer #5 · answered by lanisoderberg69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! My husband and I wonder this same thing all the time! We hate the judgemental attitude and I know it would be a better world if people werent so stuck up about it and and lived realisticly .I think most are just uneducated about it and maybe jealous that they cannot have such an open -connecting and strong realtionship to survive this and therefore are afraid to accept.They only wish...
2006-11-20 04:42:27 · answer #6 · answered by Sxoxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you telling people so you can be judged? They are judging you because it is different from their lifestyle.
2006-11-20 06:22:38 · answer #7 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it is out of the norm, therefore people find it strange and feel like they have the right to judge. It happens with everything in this world. Ignore them and keep doing what makes you happy.
2006-11-20 04:39:01 · answer #8 · answered by Cali Dude 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because it's out of the norm. Stop talking about it and keep it private, and no one will know any different.
2006-11-20 06:50:21 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose it could be because some people are so afraid to try new things, but that's only my opinion.
2006-11-20 04:40:00 · answer #10 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋