the story begins like this- i liked her, i'm not sure if i still do or not. i think she was intrested in me! but her friends and friends of mine too couldn't help themselves see us together. the saw the girl with me in the train talking with her. i didn't knew her very much alot about her but those friends of her and mine told the whole school that she dumped me and told her that i said to the whole school the i dumped her. from then she is like angry that doesn't even wants to talk with me. i said sorry to her but nothing changed. i really got annoyed with her attitude. i also said to my freinds i don't give any **** anymore. but i think i like her. in this situation, what would be the most good thing to do. should i talk to her again? pls don't make silly comments! it's serious.
2006-11-19 20:57:14 · 13 answers · asked by ron 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest and talk, at least you won't have the grudge later on even if doesn't workout.
2006-11-19 21:08:46 · answer #1 · answered by GS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ron, You should not have said sorry in the first instance, as its not your fault.
Next, if possible, try to isolate yourself from your crazy friends. There's nothing wrong in being alone, than in a bad company.
Be positive and truthful in your expressions and attitude. Live your life cheerfully.
This will give her a entire new perspective of you.
When you get a chance, tell her that, you aer sincere to her, and she should believe in you. Don't use so many words. Make it simple, and give her some time to think.
Don't fight with your friends, or with anyone else for this.
You got to underplay, and act cool now.
I have given explanation with the information you have given. Ping me if more suggestions required. This can be handled. Don't worry.
2006-11-20 05:10:59 · answer #2 · answered by Ramses-the son of light 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is sad how good freinds can B sometimes pain in the back side. If she is still angry with U, there is no point in trying to talk to her direct. U have to go to the root cause of the problem. It is the freinds on both sides who did the damage. Find a way to make any of them to admit to her the mischief played by them. If she is still cross with you, then start looking in other directions
2006-11-20 05:05:03 · answer #3 · answered by Sailor Boy 1268 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go in front of her with a lot of anger on ur face n say the truth to her about waht happened n dont expect any ans just leave her then n there...
she is bound to think n feel guilty abt the way she behaved with u n will apologize soon
gud luck.
2006-11-20 05:07:57 · answer #4 · answered by imtheone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Praise her in front of others. and if any of her/your so-called friend criticises her don't listen. She will get the news sooner or later and two of u will be together again. Also don't talk about her unnecessarily.
2006-11-20 07:08:00 · answer #5 · answered by arooon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard to understand what you are asking... read your own question and you'll see what I mean. From what I uderstand you screwed up and got her mad... but you're not even sure if you DO like her. My advice is to find someone else that you ARE sure about and start fresh.
2006-11-20 05:04:22 · answer #6 · answered by rayne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a doctor, but I'd say get a shot of penicillin. It ought to clear up after that.
2006-11-20 05:13:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and clear all ur misunderstandings,it might be very difficult at first,if u r true,then u'll surely succeed to get her back.
2006-11-20 05:09:28 · answer #8 · answered by a_g_lchaya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two tier answer:
(1) don't you have homework to do ?
(2) shouldn't you take "relationships" at tht age as they should be taken... NOT SERIOUSLY ?
ADVICE: --"relationships" at that age distract from what REALLY matters....Your studies.
2006-11-20 06:15:15 · answer #9 · answered by RED-CHROME 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by the help of a third person, (whos word she will care)tell all the things to her and keep good relationship.OK!
2006-11-20 05:10:04 · answer #10 · answered by mrkannan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋