i mean like i really thought i would never ever here from this perso on a civil let alone a personal level at all. trippy.
2006-11-19 20:36:00 · 4 answers · asked by midnightsteve5150 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i understand the confusion perfectly... (went through it myself)
but remember - once your paths separated and you have a new life, stick to what you have, and forget what you MIGHT have had IF you and this girl were together.
if you are married, it is not worthy to destroy your marriage for some 20 years old fantasy (because holding up or trying to revive the past IS a fantasy).
you might have feelings towards her - actually towards that girl you knew 20 years ago - not the woman that she is today. YOU HAVE CHANGED, SHE HAVE CHANGED...
be careful! keep you heart safe!
take care
2006-11-19 20:42:50 · answer #1 · answered by Radio Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what you don't say is the situation you are in now. If you are still free and single, then why not follow it up and see if it works out. Maybe she had always regretted ending it.
However, if you are married then stay well clear. You have made a choice and despite still having feelings you obviously have made a commitment to them. Dont keep it a secret, discuss it with your partner the way you have to us. Good luck.
2006-11-20 04:40:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are free, then give it a go. But it also depends on how it ended in the past. If it was a bad ending then I suggest you just let it go, if the relationship ended on a good note, then give it a go, you might find out you were meant to be with each other
2006-11-20 04:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happened to me 12 years ago. I divorced my wife and married her. We are still together and doing fine.
2006-11-20 14:49:13 · answer #4 · answered by big_mustache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋