i was supposed to do my first move to mke things right between my boardmates because i wasn't approaching them for less than two weeks now for the reason that am so depressed and i want to be alone...but then i was informed that they were telling things against me...and i got shocked and hurt because never did i say anything against them ...i even believed they were nice....i even felt sorry for not being the same old me,and triting dem not as the way i used to be...being talkativ,nice,swit,caring,and ol dat....but den am just going through some changes....now how should i treat them now?seems to me they're not real
2006-11-19 20:51:12 · 6 answers · asked by krung2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
IT HAPPENS SOMETIMES MAN...SOMETIMES U GIVE UR FRIENDS FROM THE SOUL N ALWAYS TREAT THEM AS A GREAT PART OF UR LIFE BUT THE SAME DOESNT GO WITH THEM AS WELL...IT IS THE WORK OF THOSE PEOPLE TO UNDERSTAND WHAT U FEEL,,IF U HAD BAD TIME THEN THEY SHOULD UNDERSTAND..N U KNOW IT WELL THAT U WERE TRUE TO URSELF N WANTED TO APOLOGISE TOO..BUT IF THEY DONT DESERVE IT THEN WHY SHOULD U....BUT 1 MORE THING ,dont believe in what u have been told..office politics happen sometime so u cant trust any body on back gossip...may b someone else is takin d advantage..i will suggest u to b as faithful 2 urself as u can..n try 2 b as u were untill n unless u get to know something urself....about ur friends...may b it is a misunderstanding...they have said somethin as a joke n some1 told u that as a serious thing...all in all try 2 b d usual u dont lose urself 4 some 1 else...friends r neccesary so is friendship...take care,dont b stressed, think about it once n keep ursel cool..b true n usual u,,,,,,,take a very good care n keep smiling
2006-11-19 21:50:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know that it is hard, when others talk behind your back. It's just because they don't understand why your acting that way. They are afraid that maybe you don't enjoy their company. They must have been confused. Tell them that you have been having a rough time and you just needed some time to think by yourself. Maybe they can even help you with your problems. Friends should always stick together. Don't worry. If you talk to them, I'm sure that they would understand. The phases that your experiencing shouldn't bother you so much. Move forward. Good luck!
2006-11-19 21:03:49 · answer #2 · answered by Cathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think like nothing happened. Have nice day.
2006-11-19 20:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They probably don't understand a word you are saying!
2006-11-19 20:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some new friends.
2006-11-19 21:29:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be friendly, gentle and explain to them, be patient
2006-11-19 20:57:07 · answer #6 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋