he used 2 sleep with and they were friends - she used 2 b a bit on the side and hoped he would leave his main girlfriend for her- but he claims he never wanted her in that way. she used to ring all the time untill he changed his no and he told all the friends not to give it to her. Whenever i go to the pub with thim she goes on extra but trys to draw his attention . on saturday when we went into the pub i was sitting on one side and he was with a few friends playing dominoes .she walks in and sits on his lap -she saw me then jumped up - i was madddddddddd but i controlled it. She then bought him and others a drink. I dont think she should be doing dis weather i am there or not - but we have been arguingt he is saying that he didnt see when she came in and if he wanted he could have, but he doesnt.i am trying 2 show him that she has no respect and dat he could have refused the drink to show her that he didnt like what she did- i am not saying he cant talk to her but draw de line! help
2006-11-19 20:35:12 · 16 answers · asked by michelle07984 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's changed his number. Told his friends not to give it to her. Not gone after her. What more can the poor guy do to show you he is not interested in her. You are very insecure at the moment and need to start trusting him more before your jealousy pushes him away from you and towards someone else, possibly her?
2006-11-19 22:16:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
Draw the line! Have you tried talking to her? It sounds harsh but talking to her could shed some light on his behaviour - it's possible that he's still leading her on and she's taking it all in. If this guy cares about you there is absolutely no reason for him to be acting like this, either in front of you or when you aren't there. I know guys can't refuse free beer but warn him that if he doesn't decide to miss out on the free drink he'll miss out on you instead.
2006-11-19 20:45:22 · answer #2 · answered by mishmash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you expect from him? And could he realize your expectations?
Sometimes it's just nice to think about it, to tell him what you expect on this case (but remember, you should consider whether it's possible for him to do so), not only about your feeling.
As far as I see, he's already trying to avoid her by has his phone number changed. But maybe it would be better if you ask him:
1. talk to her -- in front of you -- that you are his gf and you two doesn't like her act 'nasty' (whatever!)
2. don't go to the pub anymore.
Or whatever you think would make you feel better. Telling him "I don't like what you did" or keep thinking "why didn't he does this and this and this" wouldn't help at all. Tell him what you want (once again, make it possible to do).
Good luck!
2006-11-19 20:43:13 · answer #3 · answered by Jo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that you don't want her all over your man! If she continues after that then tell her where to go! If he's already taken steps to avoid her then what else can he do? You must have the patience of a saint cos if any girl sat on my man's lap I would have gone ape! If your man ain't helping the situation either, maybe you should leave him! If he can't tell the girl to keep away from him then he's not really worth it is he?
2006-11-19 21:43:10 · answer #4 · answered by Jo_Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is piggy in the middle,he did not go looking for her she came looking for him,I'm not saying he is a saint but it was not his fault was it ,it seems to me the girl is just out to make you jealous and it worked ,you could do one of two things just ignore her doing things like this ,or change the pub you go to .
2006-11-19 20:44:42 · answer #5 · answered by Carol B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though he has got fed up with her, & doesn't fancy her any more, but it's still flattering to know that someone fancies you, and he's not going to refuse a drink...
So, he's not interested in her. You are his girlfriend now. He arrives and leaves with you, and she knows that, and she's jealous. Trust him! Don't descend to her level. You've got nothing to prove, just hold your head up.
2006-11-19 21:32:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your bf would still be the one to draw the line. that is if he wants to. she will never leave him alone definitely. especially if she can get away with simple things like sitting on his lap.
2006-11-19 20:39:39 · answer #7 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol, its your own silly fault for going out with a moron, the fella above was right, get on the jeremy kyle show, he might send you to boot camp where you may learn to spell! (Dat = That) Bet you know how to spell Rockports.
2006-11-19 21:06:50 · answer #8 · answered by Summerbreeze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what trashy estate do you like in. i suggest you keep your story for the jeremy kyle show. make sure your love bites are covered with panstick it does'nt look good on camera. ps:matalan are having a sale on addidas tracksuits.
2006-11-19 20:48:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you said he was an ex whore.
then he's not a whore no more.
if he's not doing anything, forget her. stop worrying about the skanks. if you can't stop worrying about them, give him a reason to not be with them.
you feed a hungry dog, he's not going to go around looking for food.
2006-11-19 20:38:53 · answer #10 · answered by Joey Joe, yo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is loving the attention otherwise he would pull her up about it!!! why was he letting her sit on his lap??? that sounds suspicious to me - i would have a go at my boyfriend if he let another girl sit on his lap - especially one that i knew he had slept with
2006-11-19 21:42:08 · answer #11 · answered by Lady Claire - Hates Bigotry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋