Family & Relationships - 18 November 2006

my boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for almost a year, and I love him with all of my heart. we live together, and are planning our entire lives around each other. He has always had wandering eyes. As someone who bodybuilds, he assures me that this is natural, because a good portion of his life is spent measuring, sizing, and critiquing body parts. He assures me that its not for any other reason. He also has lately started telling me how sexy, on a scale of one to ten, he finds other women. He stresses that 'window shopping' is not a big deal, that every man does it, and that it doesnt mean he loves me any less. But I know that I never check out the other sex. I NEVER look at any other men and think about ANYONE else in that way. And I find it hurtful that he does... Is this something that is normal for guys? Ones in committed relationships? What does this say, in 'guy' speak... ? Any advice would be GREATLY appreciated. Is what I feel right? That this is not okay? Thanks...

2006-11-18 12:01:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and this girl have been ok friends for a long time...but i have always liked her...so i asked her out, and she only wants to be friends...i know i have to move on, but i can't get her out of my mind, and i don't like anyone like i like her...HELP!!!!

2006-11-18 12:01:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

they insist either is a boyfriend or girlfriend, and are sure not f*** buddies, so what are they ? Just friends?

2006-11-18 12:00:11 · 20 answers · asked by wonderingallthetime 2 in Singles & Dating

I need to know.I am going out with a man that is 10 years younger than me,which is new to me,as I have always gone out with men who are older.
Do younger men really want to be with older women? By the way I`m 36,he`s 26.Can this kind of relationship last?

2006-11-18 12:00:05 · 7 answers · asked by sunflower2052002 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-18 11:59:35 · 55 answers · asked by charles b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK long story-you guys helped me out before and i need your help now. So I go into the restaurant where this hot guy works he isnt there too bad lol but his mom is in there and i ask her where he is and she says HES AT HOME PUKING SICK HE CALLED IN TODAY.. i told her i thought he was cute... so not 15 mins. later HE COMES IN all smiles we flirt a lil' and as i pay my bill i hand him my number on a napkin and told him "try not to call after 11" he said OK w/ a big smile "earlier-before I did that i overheardhim tell his mom I BET I"LL BE FEELIN BETTER REAL SOON" and she asked why did you even come in and he said "I NEED TO MAKE SOME MONEY B/C IM SURE I"LL BE GOING OUT REAL SOON!!" and he looked at me... so idk why he hasnt called yet like i said that happened yesterday and so far NOTHINg is it b/c guys have this unwritten rule to call girls the first night or what? HELP lol

2006-11-18 11:58:40 · 10 answers · asked by Brookers 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-18 11:56:04 · 40 answers · asked by GirlyWorld 1 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever left or thought of leaving your boyfriend for another guy? What were the reasons and what were the results of this? Were you happy or did it not work out?

2006-11-18 11:55:59 · 8 answers · asked by b-rad 3 in Singles & Dating

i've known this guy since i was 4 years old and we've been bestfriend like 4ever.well 2weeks ago me and him were hanging out and he read my txt messages.he read a txt message 2 my friend about him. i said that i liked him so much and that i've liked him 4ever.so that nite when he walked me home he kissed me goodnite.well that was my 1st kiss.so i called him and asked him if we were goin out and he said he would think about it.i called him 3days later and he said he had a gf.i asked him so we're goin out and he said "no, i 4got about u. srry.i asked out a girl named alicen."so now all he talks about is alicen, alicen, and alicen.he told me that they were the perfect couple.she told me that she wants 2kiss him but she's scared that she might want to make out with him but she doesn't want to make out with him @ school. she wants to @ her house or his house.so u think he's trying to make me jealous or something?wat do u think he's trying to do?wat should i do?i'm so confused.help me ASAP!!

2006-11-18 11:55:53 · 11 answers · asked by rock chic3 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-18 11:54:39 · 40 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating

I have a huge dilemma. I am getting married in September and I have a younger sister. We are not very close and never really have been. She lives an hour and 1/2 from me. Should I ask her to be in my wedding? I told her the reasons for not asking her and she I think understands. I just feel really bad. I told her she could be my personal attendant and she told me that she doesn't want to be the one to do my dirty work. She also doesn't want to be my b****. So what should I do? Have her in it anyway even though I am going to worry constantly if she is fitting in and having a good time. She has a lot on her plate and she wouldn't be able to just come at my bidding at a drop of a dime. I think she will have a bad attitude about the whole thing, so I don't want that to spoil the day either. Help me please!!!!!

2006-11-18 11:54:28 · 16 answers · asked by Peek A Boo 2 in Weddings

Im just thinking whats the age average for a couple eg 2,4,6

2006-11-18 11:52:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

:)

2006-11-18 11:52:23 · 14 answers · asked by young one 3 in Singles & Dating

This girl i really like, who also showed signs she like me has all of a sudden slowed down the communication line, andshe not always wanting to do things as much..the past few weeks have been really good, weve been to heaps of movies, heaps of lunches, few coffees and dinners also,been out aswell a bit. Were always sharing laughs, and she likes touching alot, sometimes sitting on my own seat and so forth. The past few days are hurting for me,as shes not talking to me as much now (being the weekend thats ok), What should i do from her on in, i dont think she likes me texting or talking on msn as well, she kinda promptly leaves saying she needs to go........What exactly has happened, i dont think ive done anything to hurt her?....maybe shes annoyed with me that i havent made the move yet. The last time i saw her, she really liked to get aggressive with me, like punching me....whats all this mean, so confused....im going to give her some space though,.....how much should i give her?

2006-11-18 11:51:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex boyfriend and I had been going out since Febuary of 2005. We told each other that we loved each other in April 2006. Everything was perfect. Then, after about a week into school this year, he started acting different. He was more distant, and when I tried to hold his hand he pulled away. I was hurt, but I didn't show it. Instead, I backed off, hoping that he would tell me when he was ready. September 21st, he took me aside and I knew instantly what was going to happen. He told me that he wanted to break up, but that we should be friends (he "really really didn't want to hurt me"). Now he half ignores me, and only has eyes for another girl, who doesn't like him back. He is also hugging our female friends constantly, which freaks them out a bit. When I talk to him, he tells our friends that I'm "Trying to get him back". He uninvited my to his birthday party, saying that it was "all guys", but my friends told me he invited them. Others notice his change. What happened?

2006-11-18 11:51:18 · 22 answers · asked by Paper 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-18 11:50:06 · 7 answers · asked by lord_andys_new_id 1 in Singles & Dating

okay im nineteen, last year i realised i enjoyed the company of women and started seeing my friend anna, but i had been friends with steve since school and we had started getting more intimate with each other. i admit i did two time them for a while but they found out and after alot of arguements they agreed that they would both keep seeing me. but now they have started to tell me to choose after almost a year of being fine with it. I know im being greedy but i like them both as friends and lovers. but niether seems to be okay with me being physical with the other. he thinks its wrong and she would'nt touch a penis to save her life. any idaes on how to get them to open up because i dont think i should have to choose?

2006-11-18 11:49:51 · 16 answers · asked by safer_in_shadow 1 in Singles & Dating

i believe in the guy making the 1 st move but i am tried of waiting... i dont really have anyone in mind but what do you think i should do
i had a friend tell me that i should make the 1st move and start hinting...
my friend was a guy that told my that... how would you hint with out giving to much out?

2006-11-18 11:49:36 · 4 answers · asked by Kool 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been involved in a FWB situation for the past 3 months. We get along in and out of bed - in fact, we were really cool before we started having sex. Sex seemed like an added bonus. Though I'm fine with our situation, he recently decided that we shouldn't have sex anymore. Tonight I told him that I think he's trying to play me because he changed the nature of our relationship. I said to him, "If we don't have sex then what am I getting out of this? Why should I remain friends with you?" He says, "You should be happy that I don't look at you as a sex object but you're not. And it's clear that you see me as just a sex object. So you're telling me that it's just sex? Then forget it! We don't have to be friends if that's all that I meant to you." Then he hung up the phone on me. At first, I thought that he was being overly dramatic but then I thought about it. I think I might have hurt his feelings. What is your opinion on this situation? What should I do? Why'd I act like that?

2006-11-18 11:49:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last night my husband went out and got drunk. He and his friends went to Hooters and spent a lot of money. After he came home, he passed out. While he was out, I removed his clothes and pinned a diaper on him. When he woke up this morning he was furious. Dont you think if he acts like a baby he should be treated like one?

2006-11-18 11:49:14 · 26 answers · asked by Ladywithwrench 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We are both engage to other people, but we keep contacting eachother for that crazy sexual tension. It's bad...and threatening to our others. How do you stop something so addicting? By the way, we were a couple for 2 years but broke up 9 years ago.

2006-11-18 11:48:07 · 8 answers · asked by Jane 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

apart from religion, or though your opinion matters,
are there any vIrgins out there?? male or female ?

2006-11-18 11:47:24 · 36 answers · asked by landgirl60 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have not talked to his parents in over two years because of a few things they said and had done. Our sister-in-law left her phone over at our house the other day and when she came to get it, my brother-in-law asked her what kind of pictures she had on her phone, which immediately led her to believe that my husband and I looked at their phone, which we did not. I believe these pictures to be pornography of themselves - otherwise, something that he nor I would look at. We have tried talking to them and nothing works. They had 3 of our video games and returned 2, claiming that their son had gotten a hold of one (my bro in law loves the game that they claim was destroyed) and they also have a DVD box set. They are saying they do not want to talk to us, which is fine with me, because I don't take too well to being accused of something I did not do. How would you have handled this situation, and what is the best way to get what is ours? Any advice would be appreciated. TY!!

2006-11-18 11:46:28 · 7 answers · asked by firerescueduck 1 in Family

most women complain about their man not giving them any but mine is just a horny toad. He cant hold me touch me or kiss me without wanting to jump my bone. i have to tell him give it a rest but what else can i do to make him back off alittle. he is driving me nuts...

2006-11-18 11:45:49 · 29 answers · asked by tink19812003 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my and my bf have been together for 2 yrs, he is the type of person that is really easy going..funny way funny..and honest caring loveable,, but he has a problem. he is really jealous. and wont really let me to talk to any guys without starting an argument. with him im not allowed to talk to guys. it should only be him. even if im talkiing to someone that i have no feelings for. i dont think that is fair, since when he talks to girls, i dont mind. i guess im completly opposite from him, in that possiton im not jealous at all., he believes that any extra time that i have on my hands. should be spent with him. and no one else. and thats not right since i have friends too that i would like to hang out with once in awhile. now hes asking me to go back to him beacause he has changed.. i dont know what to do..im so so confused!!

2006-11-18 11:45:44 · 10 answers · asked by Andreia E 1 in Singles & Dating

but... i dont now how. does it really just come naturally or what? and btw im 13 1/2

2006-11-18 11:44:12 · 8 answers · asked by paris&&niclole 1 in Singles & Dating

My bst freind is very provacative. She is always wearing hoochie clothes and all she cares about are her looks. Me I'm more laid back and not all crazy about what I wear. i dont like to show much skin. why do guys always want to talk to her and not me. dont get me wrong i love her and shes beautiful but im not too ugly myself. are all guys the same? is that all they want.

2006-11-18 11:43:44 · 22 answers · asked by dAwN 1 in Singles & Dating

i made my best friend popular & all the boys think shes hot when i made who she really is .noboady really liked her in my class. everybody thought she was wierd. all the boys said she made everybody popular in my class. what should i do .

2006-11-18 11:43:05 · 7 answers · asked by yasminlovesya 1 in Friends

Well thankyou for all your previous remarks. I can not explain what is going on at the moment with so many weird things happening!. I know that these things happen once, twice maybe three times, but to many times in the last 2 weeks seems to make me think something strange.
Since these things started, I am getting paranoid about the coincidences, I am having which all relate to her.
1 Work search finds her?
2 Booklet advertising her business appears
3 Divorce papers turn up out of the blue
4 See her old friend from 27 years ago
5 See her old car (vintage classic by the way)
And as of yesterday?
6 I am an estate agent and was called to value a house for sale ( OUR OLD HOUSE)
7 see article about her fathers death in old paper? (from 1997)
8 My nephew, who lives about 12 miles from where she lives now, has a new apprentice working for him, HER SON!!!

THIS MUST BE SOME FORM OF MESSAGE!
More advice before I do something stupid and ruin more lives
Thanks in advance
Paul

2006-11-18 11:42:37 · 19 answers · asked by paul c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Its so confussing sm1 plz telll me

2006-11-18 11:42:22 · 8 answers · asked by G_Krazyface 1 in Singles & Dating