My bst freind is very provacative. She is always wearing hoochie clothes and all she cares about are her looks. Me I'm more laid back and not all crazy about what I wear. i dont like to show much skin. why do guys always want to talk to her and not me. dont get me wrong i love her and shes beautiful but im not too ugly myself. are all guys the same? is that all they want.
2006-11-18 11:43:44 · 22 answers · asked by dAwN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well.. the guys who are going after sexy clothes are going after her just for sex. once their thrist for sex is done with that girl they break up because their whole relationship was based on sexual attraction.
do you want that???????????????????????????
if you are wise then , no
2006-11-18 13:17:25 · answer #1 · answered by i don know y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what my mother used to always tell me that if you dress like that most guys assume that your real easy to get with and wanna fall all over you because you leave nothing to the imagination. But most guys who really want women with self respect and carry themselves like ladies will soon wanna run into the young lady that's more conservative because their curious about what kind of young lady is under all those clothes. So no all guys are not like that and they all aren't out to see what they can get but at the same time if you dress hoochie what can you expect and with young girls sometimes it can make them appear alot older which is not good thing for all these perverts out here.
2006-11-18 11:55:30 · answer #2 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the context of the meeting.
If you randomly meet someone in a public place of course you go for looks its not like we can see your personality. But if we are talking relationships and actually knowing the girl, guys like personality, you don't have to be a supermodel(as long as your not repulsively ugly) you might actually meet someone better than your friend who gets all the attention.
2006-11-18 12:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by Insomniac 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's safe to assume, yes. but you're also around the wrong guys it sounds like. i mean, this is a generalization, but the popular preppy guys tend to go for looks more than the "rejects." go for a rocker kid, or a smart kid, or somethin like htt. the preppy guys only have their own image in mind, and an attractive female is an accessory just like a nice car. it makes them look better. they'll grow up some day and then they'd prolly pick u. when it comes to sex and social appearence, looks are important. but immature guys dont realize tht in a relationship, u usually end up on the fone more than on the bed, so personality is more important.
2006-11-18 11:47:36 · answer #4 · answered by HW-7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are the beginning of the attraction. Women are guilty also of this. Without the first attraction, and without the want of sexual contact, there can be no relationship. If I am not attracted to you, I will not attempt to make contact with you, and everyone is the same, except blind people. And even they know if they like the feel of you or not.
2006-11-18 11:47:54 · answer #5 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really, some of us like to discover inner beuty and wonder whats inside the wrapped-present , instead of having the present all opened up and kill the emotion. I think everybody likes eye candies but if you wait a little you'll find a heart-tresure seeker and you won't need to show off much. sometimes we get tire of beuty all the time and wanna see some real women.
2006-11-18 12:01:54 · answer #6 · answered by Abner R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all guys are not the same. but we seem to be programmed by nature to notice looks first. we instinctively look for someone that looks healthy, in a way as to bear us healthy children. usually that is below the surface, but not too far. i don't think you should imitate her dressing style, however. instead work to accentuate your own positives in ways your comfortable with.. if your the least bit attractive, guys will notice. maybe not the ones you want, but someone will.
2006-11-18 11:49:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because if the your are really looking for a hetesexual male, then that is what we are attractive. It is in our pre-ancestor genes, face girl, if you want the next Bratt Pitt, show off your goods. Good Luck!
2006-11-18 11:53:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys will always chase the more flamboyant girl in the scant clothes. Not all guys are the same, but when it comes to girls being attractive, we almost always are.
2006-11-18 11:47:29 · answer #9 · answered by jazzmetalbassist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid so. Where have you been? Are you new in town? New to high school scene? I'm not much of a trendy dresser myself, but I know what guys like.
2006-11-18 11:49:01 · answer #10 · answered by Amber skie (22/f/ca) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys are just looking for those girls to get laid. but its better not to wear that crap. for guys it goes both ways looks and personality. for some guys 1 matters more than others
2006-11-18 11:48:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋