Last night my husband went out and got drunk. He and his friends went to Hooters and spent a lot of money. After he came home, he passed out. While he was out, I removed his clothes and pinned a diaper on him. When he woke up this morning he was furious. Dont you think if he acts like a baby he should be treated like one?
2006-11-18 11:49:14 · 26 answers · asked by Ladywithwrench 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
LOL......G1. I like that! Your funny. What else have you done???? You did the right thing now give him a bottle to shut him up LOL
2006-11-18 12:39:02 · answer #1 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he does it all the time then I can see it but if it was a one shot deal then you should have talked to him about it and say that you do not find this kind of behavior acceptable. Say I can understand you wanting to have a night out with the guys sometimes but not coming home drunk off your ***. If he does it all the time next time put a diaper on him and cordon off a section of the living room with some small fencing and say this is your crib for the weekend. Unless you stay in your crib all weekend I will pack up and leave you for good. ON Monday let him out and tell him you have had enough of his drinking and that it has to stop. If not you are gone.
2014-02-19 06:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by ROBERT J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yes
way to go lol!
...and do it next time too!!
how would he feel if it was YOU that went out and came home in the state he was in?
What do passed out people do when they need to go to the toilet?
he should be apologising for behaving worse than some adolescent who's never handled responsibility before.
Behaving like that is a blatant show of disrespect for you. What does that say to other people about you to have a man that goes round behaving like that?
Who's going to be looking after him if he loses his liver? that much drink really damages it and the older he gets the more risk there is; and a liver isn't called 'liver' for nothing. & that's not the only aspect of his health that drink will affect. there's too much else that could have been done with that money and he was just down right irresponsible. he was angry because you struck too close to the truth and if you can't communicate with him on this who will? if he's the one getting angry at you for illustrating that then how are you supposed to behave to him for the myriads of faults he has comitted after pulling that stunt?
what kind of friends does he have that would let him do that?
you must have a say in whether your husband comes back home not being able to remember things about last night, being vulnerable on the street and making a spectacle of himself, not to mention getting rid of his health.
i say, that if he does it again, the least you should do is put it back on him.
2006-11-18 11:52:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Jennifer,
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I know what you did was in retaliation to his drinking, but I will tell you something that you might need to know.
Putting a diaper on a man is one of the most humiliating things you could do. You can scream and get angry or damage one of his favourite films or cd's - but it reduces a man to humiliation if you dress him as a baby.
It deeply wounds their male pride and because they are egotist by nature. It is like by putting the diaper on him, is like cutting his manhood off. I am being deadly serious! Humiliation is one of the worst possible things you can do to anyone and makes you just as immature for not dealing with this problem in the way you should be.
People often get drunk to cut off from their emotions and usually because their is painful stuff going on underneath and this is how many people deal with how they feel by drinking. He is in fact, running away from something he cannot or does not talk openly to you about and because men are often taught to bottle things up.
If I were you, I would start doing some talking with him as soon as he is calm in his mood and really apologize for what you had done. Being drunk and spending money isn't acting like a baby - it is often a real cry for help because something that makes him do this is because he cannot open up and talk to you about what is going on with him.
You could have dealt with this in a more mature and appropriate way and by walking out of the room or by having a good talk to him the next morning about how this is affecting your relationship - he would respect you far more for this and be more willing to open up to you.
But now you have pushed him far away and humilated him in a way he will never forgive nor forget unless you work hard at gaining back his trust in you and talking to him about why you had done what you did.
Learn from this and don't ever degrade a man again like this - revenge does not solve anything - talking does and if you are not happy then get out.
2006-11-18 13:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by Shikira-trudi 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That was funny, but degrading. Do you think if he percieves you acting like a baby one day he should pin a diaper on you in your sleep? There has got to be a better way to solve the issue. Be smart use your head not your anger.
2006-11-18 12:17:06 · answer #5 · answered by MeToo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it may have been on the verge of being wrong, but I personally think it hilarious....if he can go out and get so drunk that he passes out to the point that you can pin a DIAPER on him in his sleep then I think he may need to cut back just a bit. He had it coming...good luck.
2006-11-18 12:18:25 · answer #6 · answered by Jackie 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hahahahaha. That is funny. However, he just went out to Hooters and got drunk. Seems like it was just a night with the guys. At least it wasn't a strip club. Maybe you should have a girls' night out!
2006-11-18 11:58:20 · answer #7 · answered by kkolnows 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
that was a little childish, but ill admit that was funny. if you are angry about him going to hooters find out why. get you some sexy lingerie and garter belts, you need to figure out what he needs so you can keep him at home with you or make sure he has something to come home too. you have the most powerful muscle in the world between your legs girl you better use it!!!!
2006-11-18 12:01:37 · answer #8 · answered by yellabanana77 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever happened to "love and respecting" your partner? What you did was "degrading" to him, no wonder he's mad.
Does he go out and party all the time? I don't know what your relationship is like and you didn't give that info. If he's a "party boy", then he's the one with the problem and he shouldn't be "married". If this was an "infrequent" event, I think it's more "your" problem.
Good luck.
2006-11-18 11:58:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You say your husband went out, spent some money and came home drunk and then you pinned a diaper on him as he slept. If I could think of something that you need to have pinned on you, it would have to be STUPID.
2006-11-18 11:57:50 · answer #10 · answered by sauceyrose2001 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Ok now that I have stopped laughing. I love the idea, and if your spouse is going to act like a baby they should be treated like one.
2006-11-18 11:51:24 · answer #11 · answered by HopeDasher 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋