but... i dont now how. does it really just come naturally or what? and btw im 13 1/2
2006-11-18 11:44:12 · 8 answers · asked by paris&&niclole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
RIGHT BAK @CHA sista loool i am 12 1/2
2006-11-18 11:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so u mean - you can control your wish to be with somebody
BUT you do not have control over your bodies desire to have sex.
control yourself --- a normal human has roughly 80-90 yrs of life - out of which 40 years where you can have more than enough sex(20-60).
to be a successful personality - you must concentrate on your studies , right now.
there is a right time for everything and things when done at right time are done perfect. like reaping field or fruits - say mangoes - if picked off the tree before its ripe - its just sour and u cant eat it - same principle applies to life.
you seem to be smart - dont you think , you must study hard at the moment - so that atleast you yourself can respect yourself when you are 25 or so.
2006-11-18 19:55:41 · answer #2 · answered by i don know y 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
paris: First; you have to give yourself time and be patient with yourself. Secondly; focus on your personality - this is where it's at in any relationship. Now; I want to ask you a question. Why would you want to "put out" with just any guy, to have just "any" guy ? What are you going to do when he gets sick of you after all the sex ? To move on to the next guy will make you into the "town pump" and that is exactly what you will be known by everyone for. Anyone can get a boyfriend - but a quality guy ... that's the trick to it all. If you read all the postings here, on this site, you can see the many relationship problems girls have with guys, who dump them after their guys have their fill of sex and grow tired of them. You don't want to be one of them - do you ? !!! Life is more than sex and guys it is also, to be interesting, fun at times, adventurous, and doing something good for others (promotes strong mental health). THINK about it "paris".
2006-11-18 20:00:11 · answer #3 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you probably don't want to hear this, but you are too young. Don't be a fast chick, no one likes that. Wait til you are older, sorry but its true.
2006-11-18 19:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by Bubby'sGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does come naturally. Just remember to be soft.
2006-11-18 19:48:58 · answer #5 · answered by jazzmetalbassist 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you know Lauren? She's an older version of you.
2006-11-18 19:47:02 · answer #6 · answered by acuity007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It comes with practice.
2006-11-18 19:47:38 · answer #7 · answered by Pillsbury D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thanks Wayland. Tongue f*ck hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiim away!
2006-11-18 19:48:40 · answer #8 · answered by xlauren25 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋