Family & Relationships - 18 November 2006

Last week my best friend asked me if I wanted to go out with her to have a drink (tonight) so we have been planning this...i was under the impression it was just me and her...and was excited because every time we see each other one of us always has our kid....I had made arrangements and so had she and then she tells me that some girl from her job is coming with us...someone I don't know...so I cancelled...what would you have done?

2006-11-18 12:42:46 · 9 answers · asked by atchisons2006 2 in Friends

I need a new screename and i was wondering if you guys had any ideas. It has to be dark, gothic, emo, something to do with depression or blood or something like that thx in advance

2006-11-18 12:42:20 · 9 answers · asked by heavy_metal_freak113 2 in Friends

2006-11-18 12:42:03 · 8 answers · asked by KC 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like someone in my class. He might like me but he also mite not. I see him sometimes looking at me in class. I thought about asking him out but wasn't sure if he already had a girlfriend or not.

2006-11-18 12:41:42 · 3 answers · asked by blitzyflitzy294 3 in Friends

Does he like me or am I imagining it?
Okay so there is this guy who is now single for like a week now and well on Monday we went to dariy queen with the school a few kids got to go and so we sat together on the van u know someone to talk to. We talked well then we got there and the whole time he would hold doors open and let me go first with every thing. So I sat down with my food and then he came and sat by me we talked then our principal gave us little tokens so we could get dessert and he asked me if I wanted dessert and I said yes and he actually went and got it for me I was so surpised then we talked and had a great time. I think he was staring at me yesturday at lunch so maybe he likes me. My friend talked to him about me and a couple of other girls who like him he said no way in hell would he go out with them. Then she asked about me and he changed the subject quick so what do I do do u think he likes me or what

2006-11-18 12:41:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

should i invite my bf to my b-day party?if so what should i do at my party?any suggestoins or advise or comments?

2006-11-18 12:40:54 · 13 answers · asked by dez wez 1 in Singles & Dating

Please help! Today my long time lover and boyfriend and I were making love, like we both enjoy sooo much. We have been together for 6 years. Until recently I always held back on telling him how passionately and deeply I loved him. Well About 3 months ago I started letting him know. Both in and out of bed! Well today while we were Makig love I told him that my heart and soul would always belong to him. As I said before i have said this and other words of love to him and he has told me in words as well as letters and his actions that he felt the same way. TODAY Itold him this and he just said "I know, I always have that's why I make sure I never take advantage." And also a bit later on I told him the attachments I put on his e-mail sound a little too friends only type stuff, and I should send him more romantic ones.
To show how passionately and romantically I love him and am in love with him. Before today he always returned the same feelings and how thankful he was. I am devastatedHELP

2006-11-18 12:40:36 · 6 answers · asked by ♥misunderstood♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

My 21 year old sister has recently begun dating a man who has some serious psychological problems. He tried to kill himself in front of his now exgirlfriend a year ago. He is now using his suicide attempt and the fact that he still thinks about killing himself to manipulate my sister. She feels so sorry for him that she can not see this. She was a very family oriented and caring independent thinker until she began seeing this guy. Now all of a sudden he makes all of her decisions for her. She was scheduled for her first Pap and he told her to cancel the appointment, she did not need it. The same day our Uncle had a serious accident. She was asked to go to the hospital to be with my Grandma and cousin. He told her that there was no reason for her to be at the hospital and to stay home. She has also confided in me that he is very jealous, she was going out with coworkers one night and he wanted her to stay home cause some were men. How do we make her see the light she will not listen?

2006-11-18 12:39:58 · 3 answers · asked by raynelley 3 in Family

is this an original poem by an author? does anyone recognise it? another girl tells me she received the same poem from her boyfriend written by him but i received the same one.....

i love your gentle smile, i love your tender touch and i love your kisses so very very much. i love the way you flirt with me, the way you laugh and tease, i love the way you always find the nicest way to please. i love the way you cheer me up when you find me with a frown and always raise my spirits when life has got me down.i love you for your patience and your true sincerity but most of all i love you for the way that you love me.

it is real important that i find out if this poem is a known poem or if my boyfriend sent it to someone else too.

2006-11-18 12:39:44 · 2 answers · asked by mymanomer 1 in Singles & Dating

do again. What should I do i think shes interested.

2006-11-18 12:39:30 · 5 answers · asked by Tim 4 in Singles & Dating

he dont drive. he dont smoke neither. he is single also.
he dont have family left except for those too far away too mention.
he also doesnt have a life, but he works a lot. the job is why he's in new york. without the job, the 65k is gone and so is new york.
so...is bob doing well in life? or is he way way way far behind his compatriots. im not talking about the athletes, or stars or billionaires to compare too. im just talking about the normal people out there. is bob doing well in comparison and why would we need to compare bob in the first place? why cant bob just be happy with himself and not worry bout the joneses and what other people think of him? why?

2006-11-18 12:39:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

When getting a divorce in Florida will I have to pay for my husband credit card debts equally, even if I'm not a cosigner in his?

2006-11-18 12:38:39 · 13 answers · asked by Malvina Fortuna 1 in Marriage & Divorce

BOYZ PLZ ANSWER
***DONT ANSWER IT IF YOUR NOT GOING TO ANSWER IT RIGHT***

2006-11-18 12:38:29 · 6 answers · asked by detroit_lady313 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey people I need a lil help I am having problems with my man. We Have been together almost 2 years we live together. He works and I stay home. Lately he has been acting so weird. I take him to and from work since he don't drive. Anyways he never wants to go to my moms with me and he never wants to spend time with me all he wants to do is play games and download games. I feel like I am a maid to him I do all the house cleaning and all the laundry and all the driving and he works Am I just making a big deal out of nothing? also I think he may be cheating on me. He never tells me he loves me anymore he mumbles and sometimes he mumbles other words that sound like it trying to fool me I asked him if he was afraid his lil friends at work would here him and he instantly said I don't have no friend. like I was accusing him of cheating and I wasn't. When we go out which is rare he won't hold my hand or nothing he says he hates public displays of affection. Am I jumping to conclusions ?

2006-11-18 12:38:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend ben together for 3 weeks and we spent the night 2 gether and we had sex 5 times but he told me bofore we did it he was a sex addict im no so how do i tell him to slow up help me please............

2006-11-18 12:38:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

HELP ME PLZ I ALWAYS CRY WHEN I DONT DANCE I AM in cause that helps

2006-11-18 12:38:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this girl at school that i really like. We get together a least once aweek to study, so i no she at least likes me as a friend. I was thinking of asking her out, but i'm pretty sure shes seeing someone. What is something we can do together, aside form studying, that will let me spend more time with her (and hpoefully show her more of my personallity) without going on an actual date?

2006-11-18 12:38:03 · 1 answers · asked by One_Man_Show 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-18 12:36:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-18 12:36:38 · 4 answers · asked by Olivia V 1 in Singles & Dating

why can't it be viewed in a positive light?
so then the monks and priests, the nuns and those that cant have sex, are losers then?
whats wrong with society today that sex is favoured above even a healthy relationship, that now a dude's machismo is measured by how many women he's banged, even if it's an escort? so much so that i have no choice now. u hear me?! i have no choice now!
i have to go to an escort, or im going to be a loser virgin forever!

2006-11-18 12:36:09 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok my boyfriend lives like an hour away but we keep in touch a lot. and lately hes been ignoring my IM's and i know hes online cuz it says he is also hes ignoring my calls . and i don't know whats wrong? im scared hes with another girl. What do you think is happening?

2006-11-18 12:35:51 · 4 answers · asked by nikki<3 2 in Singles & Dating

i believe in the guy making the 1 st move but i am tried of waiting... i dont really have anyone in mind but what do you think i should do
i had a friend tell me that i should make the 1st move and start hinting...
my friend was a guy that told my that... how would you hint with out giving to much out?

2006-11-18 12:35:21 · 1 answers · asked by Kool 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband has pushed me over the edge. There is so much detail I cannot include here because of lack of space, but I'll try to do my best. We've been married for almost 4 years. We have two beautiful boys, ages 1 and 3. My husband has a HUGE anger problem, and over reacts to everything, then says he's sorry afterward, because he knows he's going to lose me if he doesn't do something.

Tonight I went to a meeting and was 10 minutes late getting home (he had to go back to work) and he brought the kids to me, and put them on the ground in the parking lot (the 3 year old with no shoes, and the 1 year old in just a diaper and t-shirt). Keep in mind it's Idaho in Mid November! To top that one off, he brought them to me not even buckled in the car let alone in car seats (and was driving like a maniac, they were all over in the back seat).

After this happened, I called him to ask what was going on, and he told me "go to hell, and F*** off." and hung up on me.....

2006-11-18 12:35:09 · 21 answers · asked by Mrs. Lucky 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-18 12:35:02 · 22 answers · asked by H0TTCHiCK 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you look forward to?

What is your strongest memory?

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2006-11-18 12:34:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

At the local weight lifting/exercise gym i hopped into the gang shower after the workout and there was this guy in there..it looked like he had genital warts and herpes and some kind of rash on his butt. Also, this big mole on his back and he wasn't circumcised and I'm not used to seeing that. I couldn't help but keep staring at him. He looked at me with this weird face but I just kept staring. I was thinking...man this looks really bad....then he gave me this mean grin and then I told him to lighten up and that I was just playing with him and I grabbed his crotch and then did one of those towel snaps at him just laughing and trying to loosen him up..(something guys do when they are kidding around)...unfortunately he didn't think it was funny..He complained to the manager and I was kicked out of the gym. Was this really inappropriate or was the guy being to sensitive?

2006-11-18 12:34:06 · 23 answers · asked by Lucky L 1 in Singles & Dating

i've known this guy since i was 4 years old and we've been bestfriend like 4ever.well 2weeks ago me and him were hanging out and he read my txt messages.he read a txt message 2 my friend about him. i said that i liked him so much and that i've liked him 4ever.so that nite when he walked me home he kissed me goodnite.well that was my 1st kiss.so i called him and asked him if we were goin out and he said he would think about it.i called him 3days later and he said he had a gf.i asked him so we're goin out and he said "no, i 4got about u. srry.i asked out a girl named alicen."so now all he talks about is alicen, alicen, and alicen.he told me that they were the perfect couple.she told me that she wants 2kiss him but she's scared that she might want to make out with him but she doesn't want to make out with him @ school. she wants to @ her house or his house.so u think he's trying to make me jealous or something?wat do u think he's trying to do?wat should i do?i'm so confused.help me ASAP!!

2006-11-18 12:34:04 · 3 answers · asked by rock chic3 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi I am confident I made the right decision but here is my deal:

A guy I once dated found me online recently. I'm moving back to my hometown in a month or two when he also lives near.

I thought he wanted to get to know me as a person but I changed my mind when we chatted tonight.
The IMs got very sexy and he ended up sending me a picture of his 'private area'
I was kinda shocked but laughed it off in my mind. Then he asked for me to send pictures of my bare breats.
I kept hesitating and finlly he said he would never ever speak to me again and was dead serious if i didnt take a pic and send them right away. Well I thought he was being funny, but then he said 'nice knowing you, last chane to send them"
That turned me off, because as much as I used to like him and stuff, I think its wrong to demand that of me and then say he'd never speak to me again if I didnt.
I dont care how lonely he is and how much he wants me.
Was I right to refuse and maybe lose him ? Now Im glum !

2006-11-18 12:33:57 · 21 answers · asked by merryme 1 in Singles & Dating

2 15yr olds.... My crush came new to my school and he asked me to show him around so idid.... we ended flirting and getting to know each other a lil bit... i gave him my number one day and he started calling me often,, we ended up having phone sex like the 2nd time he called me and i asked him if he liked me and he said i havent really thought about it but yeah i do like u.... we went to a baseball game together...then all of a sudden he stopped calling me and didnt even say hi to me in homeroom.. which is the only class iam in with him... so like 4 weeks passed and he says hi to me and i said oh such a long time u havent talked.. and he said that hes like that... then after school we walked home together cause he lives 2 streets away from me... and we started flirting ...... then he wanted me to walk him to his house and i said yeah as long as u walk me to mine and he said sure... so after he dropped his stuff at his house he went and walked me home and he said theres 2 choice go to my house or your house and i said his house ... but then he was like... my mom is home.. so i said k lets go to my house... so we went online and he said what else u wanna do and i said kiss.. so he kissed my cheek and then he french kissed me while he did that we grabed each other .. then he wanted to take my pants off and i didnt let him,, he asked why and i said b/c i dont know u that well and also b/c i dont know if your going to ignore me like before.. he stayed quiet.... but we still french kissed.... like 7 times in total.. he was like iam so glad i dont have football practice anymore..... then he had to leave ... ..
i heard he has a gf in north carolina and i asked him before this occured and he said its his ex.. but her myspace shows that shes infatuated with him.. and his says hes single.. and before he left my house i said call me and 4 days has passed and he hasnt called me.......and before he told me he doesnt talk to girls on the phone........
so do u think he just wanted to play... or does he really like me??
iam confused.........

2006-11-18 12:31:39 · 18 answers · asked by jenna c 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I've been going to school with this girl for 2 years and we're really good friends and I got the feeling she used to like me, but I never really liked her till a few weeks ago, and I'm not sure if she likes me anymore. We chill all the time at school, the only thing is that there are 2 other guy's im pretty sure like her to now, both of which are total ***holes, but she of course doesnt know that. So im sort of stuck in a pickle, I dont want to rush to ask her out if she doesn't like me because I don't want to make the friendship awkward, but I really don't want to wait because I don't want to lose her to one of the other two guys.



Please dont respond saying "Grow some balls and ask her out", I know that and I plan to, I guess what I'm looking for is some creative/sweet way to ask her out or show her how i feel.

2006-11-18 12:30:42 · 15 answers · asked by Stunna S 1 in Singles & Dating