At the local weight lifting/exercise gym i hopped into the gang shower after the workout and there was this guy in there..it looked like he had genital warts and herpes and some kind of rash on his butt. Also, this big mole on his back and he wasn't circumcised and I'm not used to seeing that. I couldn't help but keep staring at him. He looked at me with this weird face but I just kept staring. I was thinking...man this looks really bad....then he gave me this mean grin and then I told him to lighten up and that I was just playing with him and I grabbed his crotch and then did one of those towel snaps at him just laughing and trying to loosen him up..(something guys do when they are kidding around)...unfortunately he didn't think it was funny..He complained to the manager and I was kicked out of the gym. Was this really inappropriate or was the guy being to sensitive?
2006-11-18 12:34:06 · 23 answers · asked by Lucky L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The towel thing was OK, but grabbing another guys balls? No. No, no way. Thats just nasty! He prob. thinks your gay now though, lol.
Naughty, Naughty!
2006-11-18 12:38:45 · answer #1 · answered by browncow 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's probably extremely sensitive about the appearance of his genitals which is why he complained, using your crotch grabbing as an excuse. You gave yourself away when you stared at his ugly crotch. Next time you'll be more discrete with your staring.
2006-11-18 12:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it was very inappropriate. If this man looked as though he had warts, herpes, and a rash why on earth would you touch it at all? You are lucky the man did not dot your eyes.Not only was it inappropriate and rude; it was pretty disgusting. I hope you washed your hands before you did anything else like touch your face or eat.
2006-11-18 12:42:30 · answer #3 · answered by quietgirla 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well... yeah. Honestly, if you had warts, mole, etc., and were sensitive about your body, you would probably be pissed off if someone was staring at you, would you not? Then to grab his crotch? How would you feel if someone you had never met before and had just been staring at you grabbed your crotch? Not cool.
2006-11-18 12:37:00 · answer #4 · answered by richie.tenenbaum 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude, if a man grabbed my crotch, he wud never grab anything again with that hand, u cant just grab blokes crotches, its 99% likely to get u in the ****, and worse, get a black eye.
2006-11-18 12:37:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to be the bearer of bad news,
though I'm not a guy,
that was rude and insensitive, the guy probably had problems that he was sensitive about and was embarrassed. Ask yourself, would you like someone to do that to you...?
2006-11-18 12:36:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not only is that sexual harrassment, it was also really inconsiderate. I would have probably pressed assault charges on you.
Do guys really do that when they are kidding around? that's the first time I've heard that... is this prison you're talking about?
2006-11-18 12:37:34 · answer #7 · answered by I carry your heart with me... 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok...one guy grabbing another's crotch is acceptable in ONLY one instance...A FIGHT!! NEVER, at any other time...ever.
2006-11-18 12:36:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
why would youwant to touch it if it looked like it had warts and stuff? Ewwwww.
Your gay and dont want to admit it! You shouldn't have touched him.. and t hegym was right ti kick you out!
2006-11-18 12:40:39 · answer #9 · answered by grapelady911 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Inappropriate. Would you want a guy staring at you then grab ya?
2006-11-18 12:36:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋