Please help! Today my long time lover and boyfriend and I were making love, like we both enjoy sooo much. We have been together for 6 years. Until recently I always held back on telling him how passionately and deeply I loved him. Well About 3 months ago I started letting him know. Both in and out of bed! Well today while we were Makig love I told him that my heart and soul would always belong to him. As I said before i have said this and other words of love to him and he has told me in words as well as letters and his actions that he felt the same way. TODAY Itold him this and he just said "I know, I always have that's why I make sure I never take advantage." And also a bit later on I told him the attachments I put on his e-mail sound a little too friends only type stuff, and I should send him more romantic ones.
To show how passionately and romantically I love him and am in love with him. Before today he always returned the same feelings and how thankful he was. I am devastatedHELP
2006-11-18 12:40:36 · 6 answers · asked by ♥misunderstood♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let's back up one step.
I suspect that there is a good reason you have recently begun "telling him how passionately and deeply you love him". You feel insecure about his love, and are hoping he will affirm his devotion to you.
You should feel insecure! After all you've given your heart and body to him for six years yet he hasn't shown you a committed kind of love - by asking you to marry him. You just keep giving yourself and giving yourself hoping to keep him, hoping to coax him into loving you more, hoping that his devotion to you is equal to your (desperate) feelings for love-security.
Forget wanting his words of affirmation. Words are cheap - used car salesmen and politicians use lots of nice words.
Get a commitment or tell him to get lost.
Then you will know.
2006-11-18 12:56:59 · answer #1 · answered by theophilusgds 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not selfish to be yourself. Since I don't know this guy personally, it's hard to tell you what you should do. Honesty is the best policy, but there must be a good reason why you're reluctant to tell him that I don't know about, since I haven't met him. I suggest asking your friends and other people around you for advice, since they can see the situation and may have better insight on the possible reactions the guy might have. If you do not have friends who know about your situation, start by letting your closest friend(s) know. Once the people who you trust know, then it should be easier for you to tell the guy, and you will have a support system to help you, whatever the outcome.
2016-05-22 02:01:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your question? I don't think you love him. You sound too obessed with him. Your name says "lonely girl" which can only mean you can't get enough of him and he's beginning to feel like he's got too much of you.
2006-11-18 12:45:45 · answer #3 · answered by tofu 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You are making too much out of nothing...
2006-11-18 12:45:12 · answer #4 · answered by Thomas 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Don`t see any reason for your over reaction.
2006-11-18 12:44:01 · answer #5 · answered by Therapist King 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think you tell him too much.
2006-11-18 13:28:04 · answer #6 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋