Family & Relationships - 18 November 2006

I was on a night out with my G/F and we both got really really drunk. At the end of the night (3.30am) on our way home we were both feeling a little horny. We stopped in a shop door way and proceeded to have intercourse. After a few minutes we heard a car coming and made ourselfs look decent, the car stopped beside us it was the police, we had been caught on the local CCTV because we originally started at the traffic lights. We were given a warning and we headed straight home. But today the police arrived at the door to have a word with us about it and took all our details, I feel really stupid now and wish I hadnt done it. What would you think if it were you???

2006-11-18 12:15:17 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Heres the story:

Okay me and Komal were Best friends since last year in 5th grade and now we are in 6th grade.. Last year she said she talked to Zac Efron on the phone because one of her friends knew him but she lied and said she did and so she said her friend didn't know Zac but Komal said she talked to Zac on the Phone so there is a HUGE lie.... right there... and she can be so nice.. we can be such dorks chillin and stuff and being cool but I hate when she has her preppy side.. I hate when she leaves me out.. like when she is taling to raman,ericka,nikki,or alexix or whoever.. I know we were great friends but I told her before to quit and 1 million times she did after I told her to quit acting like that.. i want her to stop.. She would be my best friend if she would just quit being like that and leaving me out... Today I spent the night well last night and when we woke up this morning her and raman got on the computer and thye sat in the chair together leaving me behind but there is raman just chatting with komal for like an hour and me just sitting well actualy standing behind them with nothign to do for about an hour..... then raman is like whats wrong and she kept asking me that and I am like.. ok... I am bored.. KOmal gets all like ughh... thats nice to know*preppy noise* whateevr.... or somethign like that and it just hurts my feeling because I want her to stop and I miss the old her. Right now while I am typing this I am crying and I miss her and I know she is in my heart in the lead somehow and I still miss every time we had laughs and all the times she made me smile I know I will all ways miss her someone how and I wish she could just say sorry and mean ti this time and neevr act liek this again!! This is sadder then any of my families deaths............................. I MEAN IT!!!!!!!!!!!!! I lvoe her like a sis.... I wish she would be back to normal! I hope this gets passed on to Komal because I miss Komal! I did this because I want her to know how I feel but I told raman today that I was bored because Komal asked I mean raman did and then komal got all mad... and now komal is like your self fish and on myspace when i told her how i felt she is like go jump off a cliff... this realyhurts my feeligns and I dont see how she is crying!! those were the rudest words! now her cousin taran and srry taran if you read this but she is like getting all amde and she is like dont say false thigns about my cousin adn these arent false.. these are true...

2006-11-18 12:14:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-18 12:14:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok my friends say that i am really blond/stupid and its getting kind of scary to me. At first i was just joking around like blond moments, but then it got worse and now it seems like watever i do is a blond moment, and now im starting to think i am stupid. like for example ill be washing my hands and wondering my they are so slimy but its really the soap and i dont realize it for a good minute or two. help me out please.

2006-11-18 12:14:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i here women all the time say how they want a good man but when they have one they treat him like dirt. They cheat on him and dont respect him and most important they dont appreciate him. And is it true that u women dont realize how good of a man u had until he is gone and u run into all these dawg *** men, who dont respect u and cheats on u with different women. Anybody had any experience with this situation. i want to here women opionion on this. WHY DO U WOMEN NOT APPRECIATE US GOOD MEN

2006-11-18 12:13:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend likes this guy. BUT he cheats on her and talks about her behind her back. they broke up once and left my friend in tears but now they are back together. when they broke up, he called my friend fat and ugly. im just so so so so so so so so so so so so so scared for my friend, she is my best friend, please help me. im scared he will hurt her again!

2006-11-18 12:13:43 · 9 answers · asked by bailey4mail 2 in Friends

i mean he is always talking to my mom and my mom acts like im not evfen in the room and she is al kissy kissy with him.its so annoying.i not only want her to pay attention to me for once i want to get rid of this freak.

2006-11-18 12:13:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

The girls at my lunch table were all nice exept one. I got a bad vibe from her, and one day I got a bad vibe from all of them but two. One I talked to and the other I didn't know what to think so I just let her go. One day the nice girl turned to me and said "pssst, Ali, don't eat the potatoes. I'll explain later. Shh don't say anything." Turns out they put chewed gum in my potatoes without me knowing, and April (the girl who helped me out) was the only one who had the brains to stand up and help me out. She and I both knew that that was pretty LOW, and bitchy. And thats what I said: whoever's idea that was was a *****. Well April left the table because they got mad at her for helping me, but I had nowhere to go, so since they didn't know I knew yet, I thought I'd just play it cool until I found a new lunch table. Well, they found out what I had said about them, and they think it was directed to ALL of them, when it was really towards anyone who DID it, so I can't sit there.

2006-11-18 12:12:33 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have a 2 and a half year old and recently had another, who is 13wks old, my partner works but is pretty busy with recreational sports when not working. im always stressing out yelling and cursing at him because i dont feel the support.im getting fed up and am worried i am going to make the wrong decision of breaking up, and becoming a solo mum of two.why is relationships like this?

2006-11-18 12:12:05 · 7 answers · asked by missmama 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know parents can be biased on race and social class. But if you take a normal couple do you think your mom or sister for example really know who are best for you. and can they tell who is good and not good for you. cause sometimes in love we can be blind.

2006-11-18 12:11:41 · 6 answers · asked by jay-z8900 2 in Friends

Nothing to do and share some interests.

2006-11-18 12:11:30 · 5 answers · asked by mack_klly 1 in Singles & Dating

when last seen, he had been selling cars, blk,300 lbs., 6' tall..

2006-11-18 12:09:53 · 1 answers · asked by wormdrive2002 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so i have gone out with a lot of guys and stufff but i have only had about one or two really serious relationships. the last guy i was serious with was pretty cool but we broke up for a certain reason..i broke up with him. we were going out for about 2 years and we really liked eachothter but some stuff happend. he was one of my good friends at first and it evolved into a relationship after the part we both moved on but everyone always told me that he cant stop talking about me. the other day he started e-mailing me and he keeps calling me and wants to talk and he always says hes worried about me and wants to make sure im doing good...he acts really sweet and always says that he broke up with his gf and that hes available. he constantly says this! hes starting to make me mad because everytime im out on a date he calls me. why is he doing this?

2006-11-18 12:08:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been friends with this guy for almost 8 yrs now. We have always been attracted to each other but just a physical attraction. Anyway when he had this one girlfriend we made out and fooled around a little bit. Then he broke up with her, and started dating someone else, again we did stuff but it went even further I had sex with him. For me it was a one time kind of thing specially because he has a girlfriend and I shouldnt have done anything with him in the first place. Now he always asks when are going to hang out again, but we never do, I choose not to.

2006-11-18 12:08:39 · 4 answers · asked by Monica 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-18 12:08:36 · 11 answers · asked by sarah-jane r 1 in Family

I was wondering, how can I get a pen pal? I am sort of thinking that I want to write to an actual classroom in an elementary school from another country. Does anyone know how I can do that?

2006-11-18 12:08:35 · 4 answers · asked by Taylor B 1 in Friends

I recently met and talked with the person who's a math tutor at the college. My adviser introduced me to him, and told him that I need some help with math (which is true). I know my adviser was matching me up with this guy, because he's single and I'm also single. I'm 5 yrs. older than him, but I guess that doesn't matter.

He seems a good guy with good qualities, but I wasn't very sure if being physically attracted to him was important or something that I need to consider. Perhaps, I'm judging him too quickly, since we just talked this afternoon after he helped with my math homework.

He might be a new friend, but, I think he's interested. He seems smart, gentleman, and polite...

2006-11-18 12:08:20 · 5 answers · asked by mshealerless 3 in Singles & Dating

one of my best friends is mad at me because she thinks i dont spend enough time with her. last night we were at another friends birthday party and she just ignored me the whole time. i was first on her top eight on myspace but now now im # four. im after someone who is not even really friends with her. i really want to move her down on my top eight or leave her a comment but i dont want to sink to that level. what do u think?

2006-11-18 12:08:16 · 9 answers · asked by Tally-wa 1 in Friends

I'm 15 years old ,about 5'4 or 5'5 164 pounds. I'm a virgin and never had a girlfreind,a couple hot girls liked me a while ago but it never really worked out.Any advice?

2006-11-18 12:07:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

her name is madi

2006-11-18 12:07:48 · 10 answers · asked by brett 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-18 12:07:43 · 7 answers · asked by Mathewos A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-18 12:07:21 · 18 answers · asked by fallin64 1 in Marriage & Divorce

because me and my girlfriend had broken up and at first i was all sad and depressed. And i was even begging her to take me back and she said she just want to be friends and then we might get back together. But now i dont call her anymore and i really dont want to be friends with her but just recently she left messages on my voicemail asking me how im doing, but i never call her back. Im i wrong for this or should i just try and continue to be friends.Because i know she gets pissed off that i dont call her or show no interest in getting back with her anymore. Because she played too many games with me and i know im a good man and she will find out how bad men can really treat her.

2006-11-18 12:07:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-18 12:06:15 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I saw dis ugly girl at the mall and she tried to talk 2 me and ii told her no cuz she wuz ugly and she talking bout some dats iight becuz ii can go get otha boyz dats in dis mall......so she tried 2 talk 2 another boy and he told her the same thing and she got mad......LMAO ii was laughin!!

2006-11-18 12:06:12 · 20 answers · asked by Lil taz 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

-Pretending to be Santa-

Soo little boy/girl,
what do you want for
Christmas/Hanukkah/Kwanzaa
this year??

2006-11-18 12:05:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I met a guy who gave me a CD of his music to listen to. I listened to it once and it was terrible, but now we're going out on a date. What should I do if he asks what I thought of his music? Lie?? Or tell him it wasn't my cup of tea?

2006-11-18 12:04:45 · 5 answers · asked by wondering 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-18 12:04:44 · 12 answers · asked by mamamitch 2 in Weddings

When ever I try to say hello to her she doesn't realy look my way or notices me? Should I just give up or should I not lose hope?

2006-11-18 12:03:55 · 9 answers · asked by [quarantine] 3 in Singles & Dating

Why would a man always ask figurative questions like:

Would you marry me? Do you want to have my baby? Do you love me?/How do you REALLY feel about me? Would you cheat on me if I were you husband? Do you want more children?

The baby questions were constant during sex. The other questions would pop up at anytime. I've distanced myself from him several times because, I've asked him about the questions and the things he's said later on, and he didn't seem to want to talk about it. Although I was never very responsive when he asked such questions (as I didn't understand where he was going with his line of questioning), I would think a couple of weeks later he would still be able to say what was on his mind.
In the beginning, I asked him about it and he said he thinks about those things but he's not ready for anything super serious. I told him to hold off on that talk then, but he didn't. I didn't want to mislead him, I didn't want to be misled, so I took a break.

Why all the questions?

2006-11-18 12:03:12 · 3 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Singles & Dating