I hate drama, but have a hard time not getting involved.?

Question

The girls at my lunch table were all nice exept one. I got a bad vibe from her, and one day I got a bad vibe from all of them but two. One I talked to and the other I didn't know what to think so I just let her go. One day the nice girl turned to me and said "pssst, Ali, don't eat the potatoes. I'll explain later. Shh don't say anything." Turns out they put chewed gum in my potatoes without me knowing, and April (the girl who helped me out) was the only one who had the brains to stand up and help me out. She and I both knew that that was pretty LOW, and bitchy. And thats what I said: whoever's idea that was was a *****. Well April left the table because they got mad at her for helping me, but I had nowhere to go, so since they didn't know I knew yet, I thought I'd just play it cool until I found a new lunch table. Well, they found out what I had said about them, and they think it was directed to ALL of them, when it was really towards anyone who DID it, so I can't sit there.

So that leads me to my problem. I have ideas on where I'm going to sit, and I have a long time to decide because I'm sick and then Thanksgiving.

I have a friend who is in my lunch, but (and I can't imagine why) she sits with this girl who used to be my friend back in my old school a few years ago. Lets just say I told her we were done being friends because I was sick of the drama. We were on and off "bffs" and that wasn't right. She didn't take it too well and when I finally went to the new school I'm at, because she came to the school earlier than I did, she still tries to get my attention. I don't give any to her because I don't care. It's a waste of my time. The girl I want to sit with is not like this other girl at all! She's totally awesome and she's a leader. The other girl is a follower beyond belief, which is another reason I didn't want to be friends. I put this girl in my past, and I'm willing to sit at my friend's table and suck it up, (I didn't ask her yet).

So my question is: how do I sit at this table? When I'm there, I'll have escaped the drama from those other girls, but I don't want to start with this one...AGAIN!


Sorry this was so long I jsut wanted everyone to understand the facts.

By the way.....I never DID call them my friends. THEY'RE LOSERS! I just didn't have anywhere to sit cause all my friends tables were full until now. So you're right, f u c k those girls, but I already knew that and it doesn't help solve my problem.

Answer 1

**** all of them. Its about how many of them? 3? All of them are gonna look at u differently now because they think u called all of them bitches, and trying to talk to the one who helped u isnt gonna work. So I guess u'll just have to take it as a lost of friends, but its ok, its plenty of other people u can be friends with out there.