ok so i have gone out with a lot of guys and stufff but i have only had about one or two really serious relationships. the last guy i was serious with was pretty cool but we broke up for a certain reason..i broke up with him. we were going out for about 2 years and we really liked eachothter but some stuff happend. he was one of my good friends at first and it evolved into a relationship after the part we both moved on but everyone always told me that he cant stop talking about me. the other day he started e-mailing me and he keeps calling me and wants to talk and he always says hes worried about me and wants to make sure im doing good...he acts really sweet and always says that he broke up with his gf and that hes available. he constantly says this! hes starting to make me mad because everytime im out on a date he calls me. why is he doing this?
2006-11-18 12:08:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bottom line... He screwed up and now he knows it!!! However, you owe it to the world to teach him this lesson. It may be very hard for you to do because he is coming on strong and all but be up front with yourself you broke up with him for a reason. It was a good enough reason to break up with him and that is all that is needed.
He is overstepping his boundaries as a friend by continually calling you. He needs to stop this and it is up to you to be the teacher again. You need to tell him that you are out on a date and this is a bad time for him to call. No details are necessary, no kissing and telling! AT ALL! When he calls you back the next day (which he will) tell him that you are ok being friends but that is it. He needs to grow up and you are just the woman to help him make his next relationship better. And if he screws that one up too, then we can only hope that woman is as smart as you are and make him learn some lessons too.
Best of luck and enjoy your life WITHOUT HIM!
2006-11-21 14:05:58 · answer #1 · answered by ferretcoach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is pretty obvious that he is interested in you still. Sometimes it takes breaking up to figure out that the person you are with might be the person you'd want to spend the rest of your life with.
A word of caution though, give it some time before you get back together. When I broke up with my gf, I thought that I still had feelings for her, but it was really just the difficulty of having a gap in my regular routine. Make sure he has enough time to get over this gap before you decide to try again or not.
2006-11-18 12:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by b-rad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive found that mles have a tendancy to play girls all the time.when they want somthing they intend on getting it, he's doing this because he's just like all typical bloody men.they give you all these hints and **** then when you do get hooked they turn around and play on ya. they all do, they all the same. for real...
2006-11-18 12:21:06 · answer #3 · answered by missmama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. . . if you dont want him to persist, be frank to him that you cant be together again. Its another story, when you still welcome and entertain his advances again. The reason why he's doing this, only he knows. My guess is that either he's bored or he really likes you and regretted having ended your relationship.
2006-11-18 12:15:16 · answer #4 · answered by ramona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has some attchment issues. He feels that you belong to him. He doesn't realize what he is doing is wrong, be forward about it.
2006-11-18 12:16:22 · answer #5 · answered by Wolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probally because he really likes you and wants you because he thinks you're "the one" or "y'all were meant to be."
2006-11-18 12:15:03 · answer #6 · answered by smallfrie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when you love somebody its hard to let go
2006-11-18 12:16:20 · answer #7 · answered by john 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's obvious he wants u for himself so he 's doing all that so u will get fed him and give another chance
2006-11-18 12:13:08 · answer #8 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes doing that so that you will see him and that he dosent want you to get another bf
2006-11-18 12:13:26 · answer #9 · answered by kutter b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just looking for a booty call.
2006-11-18 12:15:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋