Why dont women appreciated having a good man?

Question

i here women all the time say how they want a good man but when they have one they treat him like dirt. They cheat on him and dont respect him and most important they dont appreciate him. And is it true that u women dont realize how good of a man u had until he is gone and u run into all these dawg *** men, who dont respect u and cheats on u with different women. Anybody had any experience with this situation. i want to here women opionion on this. WHY DO U WOMEN NOT APPRECIATE US GOOD MEN

Answer 1

good guys are boring.....

Answer 2

> Edward Bruning wrote:
> > Women are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of
> > the tree. Most men don't want to reach for the good ones because they
> > are afraid of falling and getting hurt.
> > Instead, they sometimes take the apples from the ground that aren't
> > as good, but are easy. The apples at the top think something is wrong
> > with them,when in reality, they're amazing. They just have to wait
> > for the right man to come along, the one who is brave enough to climb
> > all the way to the top of the tree.

Answer 3

AND VICE VERSE. Men have been cheating on and dogging good, dedicated women, out forever and now they are getting a taste of their own medicine and they know what it's like. If you are a decent man you will find a decent woman. If you go by how a woman looks and not by what she has to offer as a person then you're getting what you're after.

Answer 4

Because you good men are usually good only in the beginning. . .then you start to show your true colors such as taking your woman for granted. Its good if a woman can recognize this trait in a guy then she can understand and may nurture the relationship. But if a woman is starts demanding for more time and affection, and would insist on her ways, then she'll start complaining that she's being taken for granted. I understand that men are from mars and women are from venus and it is very rare to find a man who does not take his woman for granted, that his woman should cater to all his needs and whims. A woman has to be so much in love to accept this human nature of a man.

Answer 5

The question should be flipped why doesnt a good man like a GOOD women. If a women is doing all that you described then it sounds like you got the wrong kind of girl. I appreciate a good man. I havent seen it yet

Answer 6

Some women just can not apperate the good men. Thoes woman are not ready for a good man. Or your definatition of a good man is different than a womans. I know that I have a good man and I married him too.

Answer 7

You are dating the wrong type of women...there are good women out there that appreciate a good man

Answer 8

low self esteem is all I can say and I've always until now let the good guy pass away.... It's insecurities on a woman's part to not feel she deserves the very best, so she'll go after a man that will treat her very bad... It's that simple...

Answer 9

I think you are dating the wrong women, perhaps just immature ones, a lot of women do appreciate a good man.

Answer 10

Im sure youve heard the sayin good girls like bad boys. I dont know why but girls tend to respect them more. Good guys, I guess they just seem.. whimpy when truth is their not. Good guyd loose some male credabily (if that makes sense). I can't really answer as to why girls are like that but, i guess thats just how we are.

Answer 11

You have to act like a bad ***. That's all most women know.