why can't it be viewed in a positive light?
so then the monks and priests, the nuns and those that cant have sex, are losers then?
whats wrong with society today that sex is favoured above even a healthy relationship, that now a dude's machismo is measured by how many women he's banged, even if it's an escort? so much so that i have no choice now. u hear me?! i have no choice now!
i have to go to an escort, or im going to be a loser virgin forever!
2006-11-18 12:36:09 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your not a loser for being a virgin. Machoism is over rated and normally held in high regards by idiots, morons, and ignorate people who just accept machoism as the one truth in life. At most no sex can cause sexual frustration or even over whelming curiousity about how sex feels like. I lost my virginity to a prositute not because I wanted to be a man. But because my curiousity was driving me nuts. I am also bit of a odd ball so I suggest to wait for a girl you like before losiing it. It would probly feel better then my experience. My experience only lead to my thinking whether meaning ful sex feels better then hollow sex. If you dont want to be a virgin forever start dating. If your having trouble with that read books on the subject. Hopefully you will have better luck then me. Well good luck
2006-11-18 21:17:02 · answer #1 · answered by JoeDraco 4 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Don't go to an escort. Your being silly. I mean, of course your going to want to have sex but if you think that being a virgin is a valiant quality about your self that who gives a rats tail about society. Society needs a thump in the head any way.
2006-11-18 12:42:11 · answer #2 · answered by flesh_of_daisy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't make you a loser. I regret everyday my decision to give up my virginity. I was pressured into thinking I was a loser. To me if you are still a virgin at the age of 28 then you are a role model that everyone should look up to.
2006-11-18 12:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by Casandra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not a loser and you should be proud to still have that intact... If I could do it all over again I would be a virgin too... Keep that and who cares what people have to say about that, sex often times ruins things between people anyway and you should wait until you meet the right girl... At least you have values...
2006-11-18 12:42:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not a loser it is something that I think more people should try! You don't have to go to an escort, personally I think at 28 you shouldn't be worried about what others are saying anyhow
2006-11-18 12:39:20 · answer #5 · answered by micheleh29 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
First off, you are not a loser. Second off, it's none of anyone's business if you are a virgin or not. I was a virgin until I was 29 years old. It will happen when the time is right - trust me. I was there. Just relax and be yourself. The act of losing your virginity is over-rated. Sex needs to be between two people who have a relationship.... not because someone needs to lose their virginity. Take your time, be patient and stop worrying about it.
2006-11-18 12:39:32 · answer #6 · answered by QueenChristine 4 · 9⤊ 0⤋
You sir, are no loser. You should be proud of the fact that you have chosen to wait. Perhaps it's because you have yet to met the one woman that will make your heart skip a beat. In this day and age, reserving yourself is a good idea with so many diseases being spread around, and did you know that with every one you sleep with, their secertions remain in your system for up to ten years!
2006-11-18 12:41:59 · answer #7 · answered by Mommy Dearest 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your not a loser- the person you end up giving it up to will probably enjoy that fact....your just hanging with some cynical people.I wouldn't mind being with a virgin...but I wouldn't want a guy who hooks up with escorts. P S no one can make you do anything you dont want to do(unless theres a gun involved...but thats extenuating circumstances
2006-11-18 12:39:46 · answer #8 · answered by cassiepiehoney 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, you're not a loser. You're the real macho one for not falling into the niche that society expects you to be in. Don't give in now. Stay the way you feel comfortable. Bless you for just wanting to be yourself.
2006-11-18 12:58:09 · answer #9 · answered by bellegurl17 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is a societal difference between a person who chooses the monk life and a person like you and me. Somewhere along the line, there should have been someone you wanted to be intimate with.
So, society thinks that after a certain age, you should no longer be a virgin
2006-11-18 12:41:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋