Hey people I need a lil help I am having problems with my man. We Have been together almost 2 years we live together. He works and I stay home. Lately he has been acting so weird. I take him to and from work since he don't drive. Anyways he never wants to go to my moms with me and he never wants to spend time with me all he wants to do is play games and download games. I feel like I am a maid to him I do all the house cleaning and all the laundry and all the driving and he works Am I just making a big deal out of nothing? also I think he may be cheating on me. He never tells me he loves me anymore he mumbles and sometimes he mumbles other words that sound like it trying to fool me I asked him if he was afraid his lil friends at work would here him and he instantly said I don't have no friend. like I was accusing him of cheating and I wasn't. When we go out which is rare he won't hold my hand or nothing he says he hates public displays of affection. Am I jumping to conclusions ?
2006-11-18 12:38:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also I mean he never was affectionate in the beging I mean he was a lil more than he is now but not alot differnt. He just Acts so differnt now.
2006-11-18 12:52:34 · update #1
I don't think so. We women were born with something called women's intuition. Listen to it. If there is enough going on for you to even question your relationship, then there is a problem. He may not be cheating on you, but he may no longer want to be in the situation. The best thing to do is to ask point blank whether he wants to be with you. But make sure you prepare yourself, you might hear an answer that you don't want to. Good Luck
2006-11-18 12:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by mshappiest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he used to do everything he isn't doing now then I would say you are not jumping to conclusions. as far as him cheating, you will never know unless you sit down and talk to him.
On another note, would he have time to cheat on you? If you drive him to and from work and he doesn’t go or do anything else then really when would he have the time? But I do think something is wrong if he is acting different than he used to.
Honey if you are living with him you need to talk with him and soon. The sooner you do it the less agonizing it will be and the better you will feel (if you are over reacting). Make sure you tell him how it makes you feel when he doesn't do those things any more. If you don't like the answers you get then you need to flat out ask him if he is cheating. If he gets immediately gets mad instead of trying to make you fell better about the situation then there is defiantly something wrong but again you wont know for sure unless you talk to him.
2006-11-18 20:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by purpleshopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First its sounds like HE is a problem. Do not be a maid to him. Take charge and make him do some work. If he is cheating on you, do not forgive him. You can do so much better. Good luck. ROCK ON!!
2006-11-18 20:43:32 · answer #3 · answered by celloman2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but if you aren't married...personally...I WOULD LEAVE..IT IS NO LIFE FOR YOU REALLY!!! HE SOUNDS DEPRESSED...BUT DO NOT SUGGEST THAT, CUZ HE COULD GET ANGRY....plus he is the only one to go for help anyway...he never shows you or tells you he loves you and never wants to go to your mom's...SOMETHING is definately wrong...DON'T WASTE YOUR LIFE....YOU ARE SIMILAR TO A MAID LIKE YOU SAID...SORRY!!! LIFE IS WAY TOO SHORT THOUGH!!! my husband, which was a good man died at age 25...so don't wait...get out!!while you can...NO KIDS...THAT IS GREAT!!! GET OUT!!!
2006-11-18 20:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO you are definetely NOT jumping to conclusions he is fooling around on you some how and you need to find out whats going on before it gets to far
2006-11-18 20:41:03 · answer #5 · answered by Aly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a big loser. I wouldn't want to live that life. It sounds terrible. You do what you want, but me.......huh,,,,,,,he'd be gone...
where is the love???
2006-11-18 21:14:54 · answer #6 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is hard, but I havent had too much experience with that subject...Good luck with whatever you do.
2006-11-18 20:41:12 · answer #7 · answered by The girl next door 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes the taste of hard throbbing flesh. He is a total fag. Kill him and yourself.
2006-11-18 20:42:56 · answer #8 · answered by Jerk my flergan! 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
dump this player
2006-11-18 20:40:47 · answer #9 · answered by melissa d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to talk to him
2006-11-19 01:57:10 · answer #10 · answered by ayesha_style13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋