We are both engage to other people, but we keep contacting eachother for that crazy sexual tension. It's bad...and threatening to our others. How do you stop something so addicting? By the way, we were a couple for 2 years but broke up 9 years ago.
2006-11-18 11:48:07 · 8 answers · asked by Jane 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yeah, it's called co-dependency.
They have therapy for that.
2006-11-18 11:50:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible for people to be addicted to one another, and like any addiction you should take those steps. I don't knwow hat they are but admiting you ahve a problem is one, which you have acknowlde. But now Im curious as to why u too broke up because you obviously still have a little spark from the time u ahd together.
I personally think you should really see where you two are with eachther before both of u persue anything futher with the ones your with. Just imgine what would happen if they found out. Theyd be really hurt especially knowing its with an ex.
2006-11-18 20:10:26 · answer #2 · answered by Aisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and like some addictions, they aren't all good for you.
"Chemistry" is a very powerful thing (although it doesn't always stand the "test of time"). But, sometimes it's impossible to ignore. My question is "why" are you engaged to someone else when you clearly have feelings for your "ex"?
If you were a couple for two years, why did you break up? Maybe you need to try to "remember". It's possible to have great "chemistry" with someone and, "nothing else". When the "chemistry" burns out, there needs to be something left!
I think both of you need to end your "engagements" until you are able to revolve whatever it is that is going on between the two of you. Going forward and getting "married" would be a complete "disaster" with feelings like those for other people. It's not fair to anyone (expecially your current partners).
Good luck.
2006-11-18 19:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by Mugsy's Place 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being addicted to someone is also called co-dependency..If your ex is your current lover and u are both engaged, then maybe u deserve to be in an unhealthy co-dependent relationship. Cut your poor fiance's loose!
2006-11-18 19:51:33 · answer #4 · answered by Peanut 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, if there is love between the 2 of you then it will be hard to stop something so addicting.
but if u love the person you got engaged to, you would do anything and try your best to stop and start living your life with that person
2006-11-18 19:51:47 · answer #5 · answered by Lina7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey don't fight the fire you are ment to be together. But don't hurt the other person or let that person Know when you get that feeling you want sexual healing
2006-11-18 19:52:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why aren't you back together? I guess both must be very very strong!!
2006-11-18 19:51:24 · answer #7 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's often called "codependency".
2006-11-18 19:51:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋