i've known this guy since i was 4 years old and we've been bestfriend like 4ever.well 2weeks ago me and him were hanging out and he read my txt messages.he read a txt message 2 my friend about him. i said that i liked him so much and that i've liked him 4ever.so that nite when he walked me home he kissed me goodnite.well that was my 1st kiss.so i called him and asked him if we were goin out and he said he would think about it.i called him 3days later and he said he had a gf.i asked him so we're goin out and he said "no, i 4got about u. srry.i asked out a girl named alicen."so now all he talks about is alicen, alicen, and alicen.he told me that they were the perfect couple.she told me that she wants 2kiss him but she's scared that she might want to make out with him but she doesn't want to make out with him @ school. she wants to @ her house or his house.so u think he's trying to make me jealous or something?wat do u think he's trying to do?wat should i do?i'm so confused.help me ASAP!!
2006-11-18 11:55:53 · 11 answers · asked by rock chic3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's nervous. Bet ya ten dollars he's thinking of u right now, even if he's with alison or whoever. I've been in that same situation. I was a jerk and started going out with some girl i didn't even like b/c i was insecure. He doesn't want to ruin ur friend relationship, but he likes you, or my name's not Yoda.
2006-11-18 12:04:16 · answer #1 · answered by daniel g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman has as much right to choose her spouse as a man has. However, the "choice" should be based on Islamic principles. It has been said that a man (and woman too) may want to marry a person for beauty, wealth, status but the best choice is based on piety. Marriage, in Islam, is a multi dimensional thing. It is emotional involvement as well as a very practical decision. So it is necessary to adopt a pragmatic approach towards marriage in addition to feelings. When one is "in love", one might not be very pragmatic. So, it is best to involve others (in your case, your parents) to have an unbiased, balanced and impartial opinion. Also, it is best to preserve your dignity before an unrelated person until you are really sure this will mature into something permanent i.e. marriage. So it is best to ask about the other person's opinion via a third party by your parents. You can talk about your feelings to your heart's content once you tie the knot inshallah. Spare them for later. Also, for common knowledge of everyone, women CAN propose to men in Islam. However, no emotional, romantic scenes are encouraged. But yes, they can send a proposal of marriage (which is also the case for men). Expression of feelings can wait till marriage.
2016-05-22 01:54:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, its hard some times to read out guys, lord only knows what hes doing but just let it go for a while and whatever you do dont chase him. just dont ever bring up what happened again and see where that leads if hes playing games you will soon know. stay strong you seem to be pretty young and there is time to find mr right. guys will come and guys will go for a while before you really find the one you want to spend your life with.
2006-11-18 12:20:09 · answer #3 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really doubt he has some motive behind this....he's just a jerk! I don't think he's trying to make you jealous, he just doesn't think about his actions.
What you should do is - move on and let him have his so called "perfect" relationship. In no time you'll find a great guy who would never dream of doing what he did to you :)
2006-11-18 12:01:17 · answer #4 · answered by cutiewithabooooty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys pffft hate em no offence 2 any1 but i mean y did god create men like them women r much smarter;)
2006-11-18 11:58:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that 2 timin idiot give him the silent treatment when asks you why tell him in a nice FRIM voice to **** the **** off
2006-11-18 12:00:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you read too much into one good nite kiss. That is all it was...leave him alone.
2006-11-18 11:59:54 · answer #7 · answered by Therapist King 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard one. forget about him as being your b.f or dating him. just enjoy him as your friend. evenually they will be over each other then he'll probally need a good friend, that should be you.
2006-11-18 11:59:59 · answer #8 · answered by Candy!!!!!!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he just wants to go out w/ allisen.
god don't get your panties all in a ruffle
2006-11-18 11:59:15 · answer #9 · answered by Major Tom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too young, too young, too young. Go play with your dolls.
2006-11-18 11:59:14 · answer #10 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋