Family & Relationships - 16 November 2006

i accidently threw up on my friend when i was funneling a beer. now hes all mad and wont talk to me how can i get him to stop being mad!?

2006-11-16 06:44:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-16 06:43:59 · 6 answers · asked by desmond a 1 in Singles & Dating

now i have your attention please can you tell me what part Isaac Newton played in discovering the spectrum??Websites would be great to.... also hi im new does anyone sweet, n fit want to give me the low down.

2006-11-16 06:43:52 · 8 answers · asked by devil in disguise 1 in Singles & Dating

Who out there will be spending the holidays alone and what plans do you have. I am working myself (job never seems to quit) and this will be the first holiday alone in almost 20 years. I got some ideas on what I am going to do, what about you??

2006-11-16 06:43:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 06:43:18 · 1 answers · asked by Jessica H 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I found out quite suddenly after four years of marriage that every day after I was sleeping my husband would go upstairs and watch dirty movies on the computer. For some reason it has just completely broken my heart. I feel like he has cheated on me, but I know he hasn't. We have never had sex that often but now that he has stopped watching he wants sex a lot more. This infuriates me even more. I have known this man for so long and if I hadn't caught him in his indescretions he would have continued to deny me to pleasure himself. I am hurt and I don't know why. Please don't be a smart a$$ either because I can't handle that right now. I need a real answer to why porn hurts!!

2006-11-16 06:43:09 · 37 answers · asked by PanicGirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Well I use to have sex every day with a guy 4 years older than me and we weren't going out but the first time was so good we kepted on doing it and now I think I'm pregnant and don't know if he will be here for me??!! help!! I still want to do it still but I think it would do something to the baby if I'm pregnant. so sould I or not or what to do!!!

2006-11-16 06:42:56 · 12 answers · asked by mandy 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 06:41:53 · 24 answers · asked by lilacstar 1 in Weddings

i told him that i couldnt do that, he said he doesnt want to lose me that he just needs time to figure what he wants is this bad.

2006-11-16 06:41:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My husband & I started visiting his daughter when she was 2 mo. old,long story..we visited her daily for 1 yr. but then didnt see her for 9 mo.we really missed her and decided we wanted joint custody of her & we got it,The first 4 visits @ our house went great, Then she started acting scared of us and now 9 months later she bawls when we pick her up BUT by the time we get to our car she is not crying and telling us she loves us. it takes her a couple of min. to really warm up to us. her mothers house is very dif. from ours, they cuss in front of her, & her mother is preg.& smokes in the house. shes completly potty trained here & but not at all there? she tells us she crys for us, & her mommy says no she cant have us. when we pick her up we feel horrible bc she crys and doesnt want to come with us We really feel like they tell her bad things about us especially her dad bc she sometimes wants nothing to do with him & it really makes him feel awful, shes almost 3 is it just her age???

2006-11-16 06:41:44 · 14 answers · asked by sally 2 in Family

My fiancee is extremely jealous and insecure. He assumes if I speak to another guy that I must be having sex with him. I don't know why he would think that. I have never cheated. He wants to be possessive of me and doesn't want me to work, go to school or have any male friends. I recently went back to school because I realize that one income these days is simply not good enough, and I would like to contribute (need education to get a well paying job). Although he speaks frequently with what he calls his female friends. He has been talking to his ex as well as his ex's best friend, which I do not approve of. The relationship is eroding. We seem to no longer communicate rationally, we only give each other attitude and fight. His lifestyle has changed recently and he is doing things that I simply do not approve of. I love him very much. He want a childs now, but how can I with all of this going on. I think we are both too young emotionally to be parents at this time.

2006-11-16 06:41:05 · 11 answers · asked by whymewhynow 5 in Singles & Dating

Who out there will be spending the holidays alone and what plans do you have. I am working myself (job never seems to quit) and this will be the first holiday alone in almost 20 years. I got some ideas on what I am going to do, what about you??

2006-11-16 06:40:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has a problem with porn, which isn't normally an issue which would affect our children right now, however I am going to be returning to work and leaving him home with them on a regular basis. My concern is that he will spend his time online veiwing porn while I am gone and not pay attention to our kids, I am also worried they may stumble across him doing it and see it themselves. The are all under the age of 7. I know if I do lock up the computer it will cause a HUGE arguement and I will be accused of being controlling. I feel like I need to look out for my children though. What would you do in this situation?

2006-11-16 06:40:34 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am married 19 yrs with a 17 and 13 yo. first marriage been married since i was 19. we own a house now that we have for sale it is not going well. we own some property 14acrs and a trailer. i am not sure yet about the divorce it depends on my h if he decides to choose me or his drinking. if it goes that way i want the property and trailer but it isnt set up yet no water no elect no sewer ect. and i dont have money it takes everything we make.. i would be willing to let him have the house and keep it or sale what ever i dont want it. my question is if the seperation takes place where do i stay? till the divorce and if one person leaves the home how do you split the bills up? i really just dont know where to turn to this is all new to me and i am totally lost... any help would be apprieciated. one more thing do i need to talk to a lawyer before i make him choose or wait til after?

2006-11-16 06:40:23 · 6 answers · asked by crazyme 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Who are interested in guys that aren't too great of looking but has great personality, awesome sense of humor, sweet and romantic characteristic and above all else very considerate of others especially treats girls like a princess all the time. Most of time, i find girls interested in me but then later i realized they aren't who they say they are.....They would always pretend to like me because they like how i treat them. I know deep down, they aren't attracted to me physically but they enjoy being around me or just talking. I don't get why girls always put physical appearances as top priority. Is there actually any girls out there that really really and i mean really dont' mind physical appearances at all???

2006-11-16 06:39:31 · 9 answers · asked by jack l 1 in Singles & Dating

j/w how much people are spending these days....

2006-11-16 06:39:31 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-11-16 06:39:20 · 5 answers · asked by mike 1 in Friends

Nipple?

My bf used to see it evrytime..and anytime....i had hard time pushing him away...but he had to have a LOOK at it.

What is so attractive about the nipple??

2006-11-16 06:38:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do u think that it is right for one of ur friends to date ur ex and then when they break up u start dating ur friend?

2006-11-16 06:38:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

From a childhood experience, I base my self worth on if I'm loved or not. Because of this I'm always chasing guys, which leads to me getting hurt.

But I'm always telling myself I'm a whore, that I should concentrate on school and shun guys because what they've done to me. I don't know if I should keep to myself, focus on school and hope that guys will come to me or I should flirt, have fun and stick with the crowd. I'm really confused on what I should do.

2006-11-16 06:38:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 06:38:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a married guy who has always been and will always be true to my wife. My wife tells me I am good looking and she says her friends think so but I have never had women treat me like I was, so I always imagined that my wife was just being nice to me because she loves me.
Yesterday at lunch a woman at another table made it clear she was interested in me (making excuses to walk past the table and smile, getting up from her table and paying for her meal even though she hasn't finished eating yet so she could stand next to me, read my name and stuff off my work ID badge, kept getting in front of me trying to get me to look at her). My coworkers laughed about it and I admit is was a HUGE ego boost.
Last night I went to the grocery store with my now puffed up ego. I must have had six girls in there giving me the eye. That NEVER happens to me. Is it possible that confidence was all I ever needed? I am not going to misbehave now, but really - does it mean that much to you ladies?????

2006-11-16 06:37:56 · 9 answers · asked by fucose_man 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently took a trip to russia. those russian men got it made. in russia, there are about 4 times as many women as there are men. Women will do anything and put up with anything because the competition to get a man is so fierce. I got proposed to by 4 women because those russian women are obbsessed with us american men. I was thinking about moving to russia and just playing the field for the rest of my life. what do you think???

2006-11-16 06:37:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My g/f and I just recently split up. The reason for it was because she has had a tough few months. Her mother passed away and her dad and brother are being shipped off over seas to serve our country. She told me it is tough for her and that she doesnt want to drag me me down with her. I respect her wishes. She told me she still loves me so much and im still head over heels for this girl. We were together for over a year and she was everything i wanted + more. I know it's tough for her and i want to give her time to cope with the situation. But will we ever be together again? Thinking were not gives me a sick feeling to my stomach and i dont want to imagine it. Please help!

2006-11-16 06:36:24 · 19 answers · asked by trp 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 06:36:07 · 16 answers · asked by Maria C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am trying to win the heart of the girl I love, but I cannot seem to do so despite repeated efforts and dropping of hints.

I've been her friend for two years and am trying to win my way to her heart as I have fallen madly in love with her but I cannot tell how she feels about it.

What can I do to win her over and find out if she likes me? Please help me!

Thank you!

2006-11-16 06:35:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to be his friend he has alot of friends at school both boys and girls but i figure that if im his friend he will get to know me better. I cry because he dont notice me and when ever i look at him my heart starts beating faster but I dont wanna like him any more because he never notices me even when i walk past him. So how can I forget about him? im going crazy over him.

2006-11-16 06:35:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I am 12 years old, I love to do my own thing and have people leave me alone. But my step-dad is so mean, I hate him. i want him to go to hell. He told my I am only a visiter at our house... wait im sorry...HIS house. He has gave me a 10 min time limit at the table to eat, and I he yells at me about eating sweets when he ate 10 cans of tuna with mayo, and mustard in it, and 21 cookies in 1 day. He ate all MY halloween candy in like 1 week, and he calls me a S-L-U-T!!! I go to a christian school, I Go to church, I belive in God, and I know how to dress, and he calls me a s-l-u-t!!! He treats me like a 5 yr old and says I act like it all the time, it drives me crazy. He never listens to me and he tells me to ask for help then when I do he screams at me. he's a liar and even my mom says so, and 2 weeks ago he called me a liar, cheater, AND stealer, then couldn't come up with a lie that I said, a thing I stole, or anything or anyone I cheated on (I can't even date yet, so I can't cheat)

2006-11-16 06:35:09 · 21 answers · asked by MRS. EFRON ♥ zac 3 in Family

My own story: had a 6 year relationship & he felt the need to play the field and fool around even though we were together and I had his baby. It killed any trust I had for him and ultimately ended our relationship. As a result, I now have an "honesty" policy in my relationships, and have been richly rewarded!

Tell me about your bad experience & how you learned honesty is the best policy!

2006-11-16 06:33:51 · 3 answers · asked by spottedtan5 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been fighting lately. She finds everything to nag about. When I make an effort she has to find something wrong with it. I am fed up with it and about to walk out the door. I do not think there is a man out there that can please her.

2006-11-16 06:33:32 · 12 answers · asked by kobisky 2 in Marriage & Divorce