My g/f and I just recently split up. The reason for it was because she has had a tough few months. Her mother passed away and her dad and brother are being shipped off over seas to serve our country. She told me it is tough for her and that she doesnt want to drag me me down with her. I respect her wishes. She told me she still loves me so much and im still head over heels for this girl. We were together for over a year and she was everything i wanted + more. I know it's tough for her and i want to give her time to cope with the situation. But will we ever be together again? Thinking were not gives me a sick feeling to my stomach and i dont want to imagine it. Please help!
2006-11-16 06:36:24 · 19 answers · asked by trp 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sometimes,...when we are going through those kinds of things..we alienate ourselves...but I think you should make it really clear that you WANT to be there for her all the way, not just when it is sunny...tell her, for better or worse, in richness or poorness,...sick or healthy..you want to be there for her...she really probably wants to hear that from you...if she absolutely wants her space,..then you keep that cell phone on at all times and let her know it is..good luck..
2006-11-16 06:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you but I hate to say I doubt it. If I were in the same situation I'd probably be more opt to cling to the people I cared the most about. Her putting distance between you doesn't sound right, UNLESS she is now afraid of losing all those closest to her and her defense mechanism is to eliminate those people from her life to avoid hurt (impossible by the way).
Either way, I would keep in touch but not too much. If she wants space give it to her. Maybe occassionally try to offer help by the way of recommending counselors, books or articles that can help her deal with this tough time.
As for you, STAY BUSY!!! Try to keep your mind as busy as possible so you don't spend too much time thinking about the situation. Good Luck!
2006-11-16 06:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by niknac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her that you aren't there just for the good times, but the tough times too. Call her at least every other day and check on her. Ask her if you can walk her dog, pick her up anything from the store (yes, even tampons), cook dinner, whatever. And don't lose hope. She's probably just be depressed right now, thinking that everyone she cares about will abandon her. Show her you're not like that.
2006-11-16 06:41:57 · answer #3 · answered by I_didn't_do_it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will tell. If you guys really love each other I believe you will be together again. I would be their for her when she needs you. I think she just needs this time to herself. I think she really loves you too because she was concerned about you and what this situation can do to the relationship. So just give her some time and I am pretty sure you two will be back together...and stronger than ever. I hope it works out for you!
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2016-10-15 15:31:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to life your life and make the best out of it. I think you might want to keep in touch with her though. Losing her mother and feeling abandoned by her family could make her say/do things that she might not really mean. Sometimes emotions make us want to push people away, because we are too afraid they will do exactly that. So we tell them to go away, rather than what we really need-- which is for them to promise they will never leave.
2006-11-16 06:42:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For cryin' out loud! Be a man! It's time to sack up and deal with the fact that she split up with you and the other stuff was the excuse she needed.
Will you be together again? Magic 8 Ball says "Maybe".
2006-11-16 06:42:10 · answer #7 · answered by OU812 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was me, I would want to be around you even more.Makes me wonder if she may have other reasons.When I am having hard times , I want someone to talk to and comfort me.May be just me though.Let her know that you don't mind being there for her.Maybe give her a couple of weeks and let her realize that she needs some support.Good luck.
2006-11-16 06:42:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't pressure her and give her the space she wants, but always keep in contact with her, if its just to see how she doing, she needs to be looked after even though she asked for the time alone, watch out for her, some people think about leaving the world when they think all things fail
2006-11-16 06:41:06 · answer #9 · answered by davionmw 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fight punch and kick to get your girl back if you do all three and nothing than it wasnt ment to be but if both of you have these feelings and dont do something your going to regret for the rest of your life and will always ask your self what IF
2006-11-16 06:41:16 · answer #10 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋