Do u agree with this???

Question

Ok, I am 12 years old, I love to do my own thing and have people leave me alone. But my step-dad is so mean, I hate him. i want him to go to hell. He told my I am only a visiter at our house... wait im sorry...HIS house. He has gave me a 10 min time limit at the table to eat, and I he yells at me about eating sweets when he ate 10 cans of tuna with mayo, and mustard in it, and 21 cookies in 1 day. He ate all MY halloween candy in like 1 week, and he calls me a S-L-U-T!!! I go to a christian school, I Go to church, I belive in God, and I know how to dress, and he calls me a s-l-u-t!!! He treats me like a 5 yr old and says I act like it all the time, it drives me crazy. He never listens to me and he tells me to ask for help then when I do he screams at me. he's a liar and even my mom says so, and 2 weeks ago he called me a liar, cheater, AND stealer, then couldn't come up with a lie that I said, a thing I stole, or anything or anyone I cheated on (I can't even date yet, so I can't cheat)

He has TRIED to kick me out of the house. I hate him and he has made a fist and was ready to hit me but I grabbed the phone and dialed 9-1 I threatened to press the other 1 if he moved any closer to me then I ran off. I can't do anything about it b/c he has even admitted that NOTHING is mine.

HELP!!! What should I do b/c I can't talk to any1 about it. What would u do??? do u agree with this???

my mom does c this, but she gets yelled at by my step-dad 2. And I would love to live with my step-dad, xcept, he smokes, and my step-mom is the same way:(( And our school is too small to have a counsler, and I don't fit in with my family. and all my friends go to different schools than me:((

Me and my mom plan to leave him, but who knowes when that'll be??? He keeps stealing all our money:(

Answer 1

omg!!!!!! where is your mom in all of this?? why doesnt she stand up for you!! c mon you are her daughter!! is he abusive towards her?? because if he is she should find the courage to leave him and make a better life!!! but yeah i say you tell someone close about the situation like your dad!! your step dad sounds like an *** and you shouldnt stand for it!! he has no right to even scream at you for doin something you didnt do!!

Answer 2

There is someone that can help you! First, ask God for the strength to get you through each day! Second, talk to your pastor or a teacher that you trust. You are just a kid and he cant throw you out of the house. He has to evict you like a ten ate. Another thing is that your mom is not helping by letting him talk to you that way. Borrow a video camera that can be hidden and tape some of the crap he does to you and show it to your mom when you are alone. Where is your dad? You will get through this and if it gets worse then don't be afraid to call 911, they are there to protect you. Good luck kiddo!

Answer 3

Does your mom know about this? If not, maybe you could discuss this with her. Don't make it a kind of blame game. Instead just confide your fears in her. If that proves to be unhelpfull, then there are a number of organizations that can help you. I do understand that being 12 years and all, you want your freedom and want to do your own thing. But arguing and fighting over things could aggrevate the situation even more. This step-dad of yours seems to really have some issues and needs to get them sorted. In the worst case, if nothing else helps, tell some of your relatives who could be helpful and could intervene. But remember, if your relatives talk to your step dad and he flies off the handle, it could make things worse. So, choose someone who knows how to handle the situation with tact. And who can board you if things become really serious. Hope things get better for you

Answer 4

this is definitely wrong - if your life is as disruptive as it sounds and your mom isn't doing anything about it, YOU have to do something. you said you go to church. talk with your priest. he will help you find shelter away from your family for the time being. then you and your mom have to seek help together - are there any relatives, grandparents, aunts, uncles - who could take you in until times get better? another outlet is to talk to your guidance counselor at school. you have to talk to someone with authority otherwise you will never get the help you need. you are being verbally abused and someone, other then the people here on line, has to help you. please seek help - at church or school - but open up to a real person. you'll feel better by just trying this. i hope you find the help and the peace you need and deserve.

Answer 5

You should tell your mother that her husband is not good for your self-esteem and that he is abusive to you. If you mother doesn't do anything about it tell your school teacher, counselor, or DCS that is the department of childrean and family services.

Seek help now and don't let him abuse you one more second. It sad that he is working on you in the worst way. More than you may understand at your age. He is abusing you and demeaning you. He needs to be held accountable for his actions. Anyone that calls a child a slut is sick in the head and deserves to be arrested for child abuse.

Tell you mother and then if she doesn't do anything tell your school. And, don't you think you are any of those bad things he calls you, you are a beautiful human being. Don't let anyone take that away from you ever. Take care dear.

Answer 6

OMG I'm sorry you're dealing with this. It disgusts me. I'm sorry to say this but your mom needs to get a handle on this. I realize she's not in the best place herself but YOU are HER responsibilty. She should protect you. This is verbal ABUSE and she could lose you because of it. She needs to step up and tell this guy to step off. There is no excuse for this. I would never allow my boyfriend to treat my son like this. She shouldn't put up with it. There are places that could help her if she would only look into it.

Answer 7

1-800-4ACHILD national child abuse hotline. They will send someone to investigate within 48 hours. It's a 24 hour service. You'll get a recording at first, but stay on the line and a real person will come to the phone.

Answer 8

you said that you go to church, right? Then why not ask them them for help, or you can also talk to your school counselors, am sure they can help you, and your mom is probly afraid of him, so you are the only one that can do something about all this, i know you're only 12 and it might be difficult, but you can do it, so take the first step in and stop all this.. because if you don't, it'll get worst and worst. Best of Luck...........

Answer 9

Absolutley not!!!! The way your step dad treats you and your mother is very disrespectful, you need to tell one of your friends parents about this, maybe they can help you guys get out of there. You really need to tell someone about this if he is wanting to hit you. You have to tell someone even if it is a counsler at the police station. You should really talk to your Mom too, about how you guys can get out of there.

Answer 10

next time you are out, get to a payphone and call 1-800-4ACHILD. They will connect you with your local Child Protective Services and hopefully they will get you out of there. A foster home would be much better for you than that situation. Having lived it, I know that verbal abuse is often worse than physical. Bruises heal. Words stay with you forever.