I am trying to win the heart of the girl I love, but I cannot seem to do so despite repeated efforts and dropping of hints.
I've been her friend for two years and am trying to win my way to her heart as I have fallen madly in love with her but I cannot tell how she feels about it.
What can I do to win her over and find out if she likes me? Please help me!
Thank you!
2006-11-16 06:35:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Right. Thanks to those who gave helpful and useful answers, I greatly appreciate it.
2006-11-16 06:58:46 · update #1
Take her to dinner or some place quiet...tell her there is something very important that you need to discuss with her and you would like her to be honest with you about it. Then all you can do is tell her your feelings and take a chance to see if she feels the same. Good Luck!
2006-11-16 06:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This with the 'friends' thing, it really sucks cause always in the end someone of the two falls in love. Always. And it's so difficult.
I know it's hard but the best way is to tell her the truth, everything else you try to do will be senseless cause she will consider this as a part of your friendship. And that way you'll never know if you had a chance. So you have just to take the risk and be honest.
2006-11-16 06:48:36 · answer #2 · answered by milena_cub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, stop trying ot win her over since it doesn't seem like you are competing directly for her.
Tell her how you feel. DON'T TELL HER YOU LOVE HER! Love scares some people. Let her know that she means the world to you and you would like to take your friendship to the next level. The worse thing she can say is"No." A no today may not be that way tomorrow.
2006-11-16 06:42:46 · answer #3 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try winning her over rather than asking her feelings. There is a high probability that she'll say that she thinks of you as a friend while she really thinks of you as more. If she comes to you when you tell her YOUR feelings then ask her out.
2006-11-16 06:40:25 · answer #4 · answered by Abyssion 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go out and have a drink with her and ask her if she likes you. people usually tell the truth when a little bit tipsy. if she says no you can always just say you had to much to drink. good luck xx
2006-11-16 07:01:21 · answer #5 · answered by debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and be honest with your feelings - nothing is more attractive to a woman (ok me) than a man who will tell you how he feels rather than hide behind a brick wall - i wish my bloke was as open with his feelings as you are - good luck x
2006-11-16 06:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by voluptuous 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure both of you have had a couple of drinks (but not too much, take care!) and just bite the bullet and tell her!
2006-11-16 06:43:00 · answer #7 · answered by JentaMenta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just tell her . you never know till you try .And who knows she may feel the same way. heres an idea sent her roses and a card telling her how you feel .good luck!
2006-11-16 07:02:47 · answer #8 · answered by vcky_wldr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please...
What's the matter with you,boys???!
Stop being coward and talk to her!
She maybe likes U and you can't see that!
Tell her how you feel,otherwise you ll lose her!!!
2006-11-16 06:39:57 · answer #9 · answered by Eevi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bieng in love is onething and being loved is another.My advice, be bold and go to her and express your feeling.She cannot kill you for being in love with her.
2006-11-16 06:50:11 · answer #10 · answered by desmond a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋