Family & Relationships - 16 November 2006

My b/f and I met thru my former boyfriend. He hired us to clear some brush off his property and let us stay on the property during the week. Evry day. I mean like five six times a day he would come down to have a coffee and he would always call me by the name my ex used "Pookie" I hated it.
I would get such crap from my ex when he would leave. I even got accused of sneaking out to meet with my then boss.
I WAS NOT!
I got together with my now b/f the after my ex was arrested for beating me AGAIN! (ok it was the next night) But my new b/f initiated the relationship. Now I am not sure if his feelings are real or he was just trying to make me feel better.

2006-11-16 07:47:54 · 6 answers · asked by kiti4u 4 in Singles & Dating

How do you truly know when youa re "boyfriend and girlfriend" rather then just friends with benefits . . . ?

2006-11-16 07:47:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i live in lago vista texas and i need to meet new people... most of you wont and oh well... even if you dont know anyone still leave an answer

2006-11-16 07:46:45 · 1 answers · asked by kirugia 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 07:46:20 · 18 answers · asked by Curious Georgetta 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

lately I've been busy all day with hundreds of things to do, and today I've done nothing useful but work,will I recover? do you fell like that?

2006-11-16 07:45:53 · 1 answers · asked by south e 2 in Friends

anyone know any good jokes to cheer me up?

2006-11-16 07:45:50 · 13 answers · asked by graham f 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok heres the situation. i have been friends with a couple for about 8 yrs or so. though we are not close and do not talk much we have still kept in touch where necassary. when she was pregnant she invited me to her baby shower. i went and bought over$100 worth of items for their baby. i dont recall a thank you. then recently i was invited to her bridal shower which i attended and gave a gift. now her wedding is here. do i give another gift? i have three children and am also married and never recieved anything from them. i never had a wedding or showers so there was never an "oppurtunity' to give a gift. please help.

2006-11-16 07:45:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

is ok to do it in rear.....? what do u think of it and why do men prefer it?

2006-11-16 07:44:56 · 26 answers · asked by manders359 1 in Singles & Dating

We have brains too you know!

2006-11-16 07:44:40 · 25 answers · asked by Little Minx 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 07:43:50 · 18 answers · asked by tουΖουrs 3 in Singles & Dating

What will you do as a wife if your husband's adult five kids from ex-wife is always asking money, and put their loan address with their father home address not their home address of course I'm staying at this house I felt disrespect. I'm already fed up from my husband because of his adult kids ages 29 to 33 years old. They are already working and have a good pay job 27 to 31 dollars per hour more than my husband's salary but financially irresponsible. But because my husband loves his kids so much he give and give like a santa claus. They even ask my husband to finance their schooling. They are no longer minor and able to finance their own schooling if they know how to save their own money. When they visit their father at home, I saw how they dress, their car they don't rent and pay bills because they're living with their mother. But when they need money that's the time they only know their father and ask for money. And here comes the Santa Claus, he gives free money.

2006-11-16 07:43:42 · 11 answers · asked by pinaysapinas2004 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My Mom has been married three times. I have watched her my entire life put up with inmature men. They were all great people and raised me as thier own. My Mom is in so much pain and I do not how to make her feel good. She cries and tells me how hurt she is. My Mom is my lifeline! She means more to me than anything else in my life. How can I help her!? What can a daughter do to make their mother feel happier! She is having problems with bills due to her husband going on his hunting trips and her starting her own bussiness. I am only 23 so my financial situation is not ant better. I just wish I knew how to make her smile again and love her life!

2006-11-16 07:43:33 · 11 answers · asked by Rebel Chick 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for 6 years on and off, but every time me and my wife argue she brings up the past, and it makes me feel bad. I feel she is pushing me away. Second part of the story I am in love with my best friends ex Girl friend she is also in love with me........Should I leave my wife for her. My wife is not a bad person she has never cheated and she is a good mom to my daughter, but I just dont love her like I used to.

2006-11-16 07:43:17 · 25 answers · asked by Christopher A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-16 07:42:45 · 43 answers · asked by mysticeyes792006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay i got into a fite with this girl over my bf me and him have been dating for like a year and like 2 weeks and i really do love him.....we were apart for like 2 months cuz his mom didnt like me....and the girl that i got into a fite still likes him after all of this time nad she is moving to our school.....and she e-mailed me asking if i wouldnt start any **** with her and that she wanted todrop all of the drama! but her friends are still telling me that she still loves him but she has been dating this guy for like 5 months now and i kinda wanna be this girls frined again and stop all of the **** but my bf is telling me that its a really bad idea! and dont get me worng i still hate this girl but i dont know if she is over him!! cuz he once her that he loved her than told her that he didnt know what true love was till me and him started to date!! os can anyone help me please!

2006-11-16 07:42:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is suffocating me, she's always there and because I had a busy day, I kinda ignored her. She went home and she cried. I don't feel anything for her anymore, but she is so dependent of me that I will feel awful if I would dump her. I didn't want her to suffer, so I waited for her to dump me, but she won't. I don't think that we can be friends, when we were friends, she was a secret admirer, that's why she hung out with me. How should I dump her without making her suffer? And no "It's me", please, it wouldn't work on her.

2006-11-16 07:41:58 · 29 answers · asked by che_guevara_il_comandante 1 in Singles & Dating

be honest.
be open.
be serious.
be helpful.
be flirty.
be sexy.

2006-11-16 07:41:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are there any hot Americans out there who would consider marrying me so i can come and live out there? Preference goes to those with there own hair, their own teeth and their own casino in Vegas x

Thank you Sundae girl x

2006-11-16 07:41:13 · 7 answers · asked by voluptuous 3 in Singles & Dating

Whenever I read about about dating and the topic of women with kids come up, men usually say they don't want a women with kids, which is fine. Everyone has a right to their preference. It seems that men with children don't even want to date women with children.

People have this misconception that all single mothers are out looking for a man to raise their kids or she is just some slut that got knocked up, when many single mothers are products of marriages or long-term relationships that just didn't work.

Why do men see women with children as repulsive? Should women with children accept a life of singleness? Should women with children wait until their children are grown to date?

Why do men assume that women with kids are out to take something from them or want them to be instant dads? Many single moms just want to go out and date and have fun just like single women with no kids and don't want a man involved with their kids.

Any thoughts?

2006-11-16 07:40:47 · 27 answers · asked by saheli_dancer 2 in Singles & Dating

(by the way i am 14)
OKAY. so i have a friend who recently moved 3000 miles away from where i live.
I am very close to her and her family and her mother is a smoaker.
I love their whole family like my own and i realy don't want her mother to die of something like lung cancer. So when I read about this book (The Easy Way To Stop Smoaking) and how it helps you quit with no withdrawal symptoms at all! (I have read this in several places)

should i mail her mother the book??

Will her mother take offense if i do?

If so, should i tell her who sent it?

If not, why not??

2006-11-16 07:40:39 · 12 answers · asked by itsALICE! 3 in Family

My one and only has left for two years (on a mission for my church) I haven't heard from him for over 2 weeks now and the pain is so bad. Does anyone have any ideas of ways to deal with the pain?

2006-11-16 07:40:12 · 2 answers · asked by Daisfunk 2 in Singles & Dating

ok. i really like this guy but the only thing is is that he dips. but other than that he is really sweet to me and i really really like him and i wanna go out with him but i dunna what to do! help me please!

2006-11-16 07:39:45 · 17 answers · asked by YouGottaLoveMe09 1 in Singles & Dating

You go on a date with a white hot katie. Suddenly you sense an impending, slow, quite and long fart that you might ease out. But instead, when you relax it becomes a loud juicy funky explosion that clearly comes from your direction. What is the best euphamism to explain away your mistake?

a."Sorry, say 'god bless you' to my huge butt sneeze."

b. "Excuse me. Occassionally my sphinxter belches the alphabet."

c. "Did you hear that? I was blowing a huge colon bubble and it just popped."

d. "So what? Driving an SUV contributes to global warming more than the gas i just expelled from my unhealthy bowel."

e. "I'm a polite guy. I'll give you the choice of spraying febreeze or new car smell on the back of my jeans."

2006-11-16 07:39:33 · 9 answers · asked by judgemartiniz 5 in Singles & Dating

yeah...that's just about it...

2006-11-16 07:39:27 · 7 answers · asked by jimsbud 1 in Singles & Dating

What are some tip-offs that she is using me?

2006-11-16 07:38:43 · 26 answers · asked by One_Man_Show 2 in Singles & Dating

ok my friend kory has a major problem. she always calls me and then when i try to have a real conversation with her she bursts out laughing and says.."ahhahaha im sorry i just can't do this!"...and hangs up. then when i ask her about it the next day..she denies it ever happened!

2006-11-16 07:37:54 · 4 answers · asked by ibroughtsexyback 1 in Friends

My husband will only give me a hug out of bed.I've asked him to hold me in bed but it's like i'm dead to him.I've asked why but all he say's is it's not like that and makes me feel like i'm going crazy and don't know what to do.Even in bed,He does not do nothing,so i thought i'd help him and tell him what i like but he can't even do that.By the way we have been married for 9 years,we have 2 kids together and adopted 4.If you can help,Thank ya

2006-11-16 07:37:05 · 17 answers · asked by Dawn l 2 in Singles & Dating

Well my grandpa has been staying with us a couple days now and grandma came up to be with him. Well, I went in the nursery to change my baby's diapers, feed him and then play with him some. I have a stuffed baby Smurf that my husband gave to me that used to belong to his first wife that is so cute!!! After I fed the baby I picked it up and started pretending it was real and pretending that it was talking to my baby (I was doing the voices..teehee). I said stuff like "I love you so much" and "you are so precious" and things like that and the baby just was giggling. Well my grandmother came in and told me my behavior was very unbecoming of a young lady and after I left the room she took it and locked it in her car trunk. I pleaded with her to give it back but she won't because she says it is making me childish. To me it was just something I enjoyed doing with my baby and it made him laugh when I would wiggle the smurf. I also cuddle with him some nights when I'm sleeping.

2006-11-16 07:36:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm 18 and a senior in high school. I've been wanting to ask this girl out for some time now. She is really, really shy. She's the type who won't start a conversation but will talk when someone starts first. We don't really "know" each other, not even names, but we've talked once in the library. She leaves directly at lunch because she takes the bus home. I notice that from a distance she will glance at me and see what I'm doing, then she'll hurry to the bus. We don't have any classes together so its really hard to get in touch with her. My question is this, how do I start something with this really really shy girl? Should I try and get her email or something to get to know her first or should I flat out ask her out so we can get to know each other there? She's really shy so I don't want to come on too strong, but enough to make my point. If anybody has any ideas on how to start something worth while and any ideas on places to ask her out to, please post them.
SOMEONE PLEASE HELP!!!

2006-11-16 07:36:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what was the advice and who told it to you????

2006-11-16 07:35:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating