What are some tip-offs that she is using me?
2006-11-16 07:38:43 · 26 answers · asked by One_Man_Show 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she only wants you around if she needs a favor, she never wants to be alone with you, she does not like intimacy, she makes up reasons to not go out, she considers everyone else's feeling before yours....These are pretty good giveaways...
2006-11-16 07:42:31 · answer #1 · answered by LENNON3804 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually you can tell if someone is taking advantage of you or using you right upfront some signs may be if she only calls when she needs something. Also she could always ask you for things or make up stories as to how she doesn't have money so you will give her some. She can treat you badly if she doesn't get the things she wants and be nice when she does. Go with your gut instict if you feel as though you're being used then do something about it. Dont stand around and let her take you for all your worth.
2006-11-17 15:01:27 · answer #2 · answered by ImOuThEreUdigg!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If when the only time she wants to hangout with you she calls you and only wants sex. Or she doesnt ever "feel" like talking on the phone. Spends more time doing other things than being with you. Talks to other guys all the time. Or if she has an ex-boyfriend that she wants to make jelous.
2006-11-16 15:41:18 · answer #3 · answered by oohigetitxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"How To Avoid Being Pimped"
and
"Ways of the player-hater"
http://itsjoocy.tripod.com/id65.html
"The Player's Lifestyle" for Aspiring Divas and Playas
2006-11-16 15:42:26 · answer #4 · answered by mo2dajizzo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She always says she left her money or she doesn't have it and tries to look for it for along time
when you call her and you are on the phone she always has to go on the other line
she never lets her friends talk to you because they know what is going on
She tries to hang around you more than your best friend does
2006-11-16 15:42:15 · answer #5 · answered by sweet pea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She only calls when she needs something...i.e. plans for the evening, a date somewhere (last minute), help with something. The best advice is that if you feel you are being used...then you are!
2006-11-16 15:40:52 · answer #6 · answered by ataman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like it you probably are. It would said what she does but anyway... If she asks you for money a lot either directly or by having you buy her stuff. If she is with you but more interested in your friends. That kind of stuff.
2006-11-16 16:09:00 · answer #7 · answered by Bert 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only wants you around for sex, a ride, money, wants to see you on pay day or when she is positive you have money, doesn't take you out in public, or meet her friends or family. Only calls when she wants something.
2006-11-16 15:41:39 · answer #8 · answered by nanny4hap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is usuing you if she treats you very good when its just the two of you, and very bad in front of everyone else especially her friends, and if she asks you to buy her things or if you have to pay for everything!!!
2006-11-16 15:43:31 · answer #9 · answered by sally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She treats you differently in front of other people--not like when you're alone. She demands things from you:money, objects, etc. She doesn't show respect for you.
2006-11-16 15:40:57 · answer #10 · answered by Maybalee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋