Family & Relationships - 16 November 2006

He likes book stores, thank heaven, but is there anything else an aging aunty can do to make his visit enjoyable?

2006-11-16 07:59:41 · 14 answers · asked by Lleh 6 in Family

i know we all say not but in honesty arent looks part of the physical attraction you feel with someone...the personality can be the best in the universe but if the look isnt right for you then you're not going to hit it off...im not talking any particular type of look...just what appeals to you...WHAT DO YOU THINK???

2006-11-16 07:59:37 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres a guy that i like and he is 27 years old i am only 14 years old but i found out he likes me too. But the only bad thing is that i already got into a problem with my mom because of him!! what should i do. he always says hi to me im confused!!!!

2006-11-16 07:58:52 · 13 answers · asked by i love daddy yankee 1 in Singles & Dating

I(I’m a male) told my close female friend how I felt about her and she said we should remain friends.She said it wouldn't feel right going further.

She said she don't deserve my feelings---meaning??
Said she can’t imagine me not being in\part of her life---this mean anything???

We left on good terms,agreeing to remain friends always.After this happened I went quiet on her for over a week to clear my head!She txt me once asking why I went quiet and also txt my mate asking him. I got bck in touch on Monday and her reply mentioned nothing bout what I said(how I felt about her).

I txt her saying how impt the friendship is to me and apologised if I made her feel uncomfortable and hope that we’re cool.Why hasn’t she txt bck for over a day now??(we’re usually in touch everyday!)I say anything wrong?

Would she be feeling odd??Behave differently towards me??Anyone been in this situation themselves?If so,what happened?

Why has she suddenly gone quiet on me??

2006-11-16 07:58:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay, so sat night we have a school dance and i meet a guy,J, who has a gf already we start talking, and he starts flirting with me and then i ask him for a slow dance and he says yes.. then the rest of the night he dances with me.. and we do some sensual dance moves and stuff... and then on mon he comes and sits next to me in an class and talks to me .. even tues morn then tues afternoon he just stops talking to me at all he jsut says "hi" and "bye" now i think i should go up to him and tell him that i like him... but not sure.. should i just move on and say something ot him?

2006-11-16 07:58:25 · 6 answers · asked by ohhh lalalala 4 in Singles & Dating

Is it normal behaviour to call her "best friend" 3 or 4 times a day on the phone or constantly send him email?

2006-11-16 07:58:09 · 13 answers · asked by betrayed 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OKAY SO I MET A GUY ALMOST 3 WKS AGO AND WELL IT STARTED OK HE WOULD CALL ME HERE AND THERE THEN ONE DAY I SAW HIM AT A PARTY AND WE TALKED AND I FELT LIKE WE CLICKED HE ASKED ME ON A DATE WE WENT ON OUR DATE AND IT WAS SO MUCH FUN. HE IS SO FUNNY BUT ALSO VERY VERY SHY. ITS HARD FOR HIM TO COME UP TO A GIRL BUT WHEN I GOT TO KNOW HIM HE IS SO FUNNY AND HE IS SOMEONE I CAN SEE MYSELF WITH. AFTER OUR DATE HES CALLED ME HERE AND THERE AND HES ALSO GONE TO VISIT ME BUT WE ALWAYS SAY BYE WITH A HAND SHAKE.SO I DONT KNOW HOW TO TAKE IT DOES HE LIKE ME SHOULD I TRY TO HAVE MORE THAN A FRIENDSHIP. IT SO HARD TO TELL IVE BEEN OUT OF THE DATING THING FOR A WHILE AND LATELY IVE BEEN MEETING THOSE GUYS WHO JUST WANT ONE THING SO I DONT KNOW IF THIS ONE IS JUST TAKING IT SLOW OR IS REALLY JUST A FRIEND..HOW CAN I TELL? I AM REALLY INTERESTED IN HIM BUT BEFORE I GET ANY FURTHER I WOULD WANT TO KNOW BECAUSE I AM TIRED OF THE WHOLE DATING AND NOT WORKING DEAL...HELP!!

2006-11-16 07:57:38 · 16 answers · asked by *SIMPLY ME* 3 in Singles & Dating

Honestly, I'm 1 year and 8 months older than my boyfriend and I'm afraid he might fall with girls of his age.... Of course I don't want it to hapen that's why I'm asking you guys to give some advice on how to stay young in simple ways... thank you so much!

2006-11-16 07:57:22 · 10 answers · asked by ♥ fÄtimÄ ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi =). So the thing is... I met this girl like 2 months ago. We've already go out on a date and the things between us was going really good. So this week it seems to me that she is getting a little bit distant from me at university, she doesn't even go online(msn) to talk to me like she use to do. Is this some kind of sign? Should I continue to send her messages? Or should I get a little distant for a while too? Tks ladies *

2006-11-16 07:57:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If so Holla at me.

2006-11-16 07:56:46 · 1 answers · asked by This is just my opinion! 4 in Friends

I've been dating my boyfriend for about 3 and a half months. He asked me to be his girlfriend and he told me he loved me first. The only reason I'm not sure is because he has this ex, who he dated for 3 years, that he broke up with about a month before we started dating. I know they're very close (they talk a lot) even though he's about a 1000 miles away from her now. He says he's not in love with her anymore, but the other night (i'll admit he was drunk) after a party, he texted her "i luve you." He's going home for winter break, and he'll see her. He and I spend a lot of time together (we see each other everyday because we have class together). He's even coming home with me for Thanksgiving. Besides the ex factor, everything is great. I just feel intimidated by her, and I wonder if he can really love me while still maintaining a close friendship with her. What do you think?

2006-11-16 07:56:45 · 4 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3 in Singles & Dating

Another child. I've discussed before that we have a three year old and my husband, although he's said before he thinks we SHOULD have another child, still is not quite ready to take that leap. He's afraid he won't have the patience...he's afraid that it will be too hard financially, he's afraid that it will take all his free time away...

BUT - we both agree it would be good for our little boy.

Now, my question is - what are some subtle ways I can get him to give it deeper thought. I mean, I don't want him to concede just because he knows I want it so bad. How do I make him realize how great it can be without flat out saying it? How can I make him realize it on his own...little hints, if you will.

Guys, some help? What I really need is ways to make him evaluate his thinking without letting him know that I am asking him. Does that make sense? I just want to give him a subtle push to start thinking about what he really wants.

2006-11-16 07:56:20 · 5 answers · asked by Jax 4 in Marriage & Divorce

( Example ) Hello, Sorry to distub you, please dont laugh , My reason for writting you is beacuse, I pause on my thoughts while speaking,... so I feel better writting you first. I want you to know that , I like your style, and I want to know if I can meet you sometime ? I'm 21 and I havent asked u to write your name because, I want to hear u tell me it ,... (thats if we are able to meet each other some time soon.) In my mind I'm callin the female "Unknown Beauty "
thanks for reading & bye.

2006-11-16 07:55:53 · 7 answers · asked by lil_chaos85 1 in Singles & Dating

Not sure how its spelt but its a place in Scotland.
I am trying to find a friend I lost touch with when I left South Africa.I am sure she told me she was from there,
I have tried every other search so I would like to put a letter in the paper and perhaps there are relatives who will read it.

2006-11-16 07:55:38 · 3 answers · asked by dancingcar 3 in Friends

I live with sister and well I have a HORRIBLE part time job I work about 17 to 16 hours a week. She has no job right now. I make about enough to pay rent which is $350. I am working a bit more hours. But the problem is if we lose our apt I will have no place to go. Parents said I could not move back in with them. What do I do? Note: I am looking for a better job and sis is looking for one.

2006-11-16 07:55:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

huge breasts or a huge ***? long legs or short petite? blonde hair or brunette? blue eyes or brown eyes? a screamer or one who says nothing?

2006-11-16 07:54:57 · 18 answers · asked by manders359 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 07:54:51 · 28 answers · asked by blondy 2 in Singles & Dating

so i like this guy i'm good friends with. i don't want that to change im afraid if i tell him i like him things will change

2006-11-16 07:54:49 · 8 answers · asked by Lynn D 1 in Singles & Dating

At my work we have a contractor that comes in and cleans the trash, bathrooms, etc. They are all mentally challenged people (only normal one is the leader who watches’ them), anyway one of them, male, roundhouse kicked me in the chest because I threw away trash in a can he just emptied. Seriously this happened, I didn't hit back but everyone else at work said they would have.

2006-11-16 07:54:42 · 9 answers · asked by mickeys12 1 in Singles & Dating

It seems that every woman I know complains about the jerks they are dating but when they break up with them they find the same kind of person. They claim to want a good guy, but they virtually ignore every decent guy they know. Why is that?

2006-11-16 07:54:27 · 22 answers · asked by gibs_neil 2 in Singles & Dating

A guy I met earlier invited me to his office for a chat..we met 10 mins later down the corridor I said 'see you later'. He tilted his head downwards slightly, looked straight into my eyes and said 'see you later', with a freindly but determined look on his face.

What does this mean?

2006-11-16 07:53:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay, I haven't been in a relationship in a year. I was married for three years but, we split up. He was 24 when we met and I was 31. Now for some reason, that's all I seem to attract is young guys. Sometimes as young as 21. Not that thats a bad thing but, trying to find someone with in my age range that I'm attracted to is getting difficult. Are there any suggestions?

2006-11-16 07:53:17 · 18 answers · asked by Jody 829 2 in Singles & Dating

ok...ive known this guy since birth. One day at a party i held his hand and i noe im in love with him so much. Then the next day he got a gf. They say he still luvs me but i want him. To top tht off she forbid him 2 tlk 2 me. And Now im so upset. Pleez help me i need it so bad. P.S yesterday he was walkn down the hall and he kept eye contact the hole time and he told mii best frend that a hott gurl thts her friend likes him! Thats me! and he was smiling!!! PLeez HELP!!! Hints anything will do!

2006-11-16 07:52:32 · 12 answers · asked by Kendall L 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 07:52:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im quite shy and can always get to the point with guys where we are really close and make physical contact a lot but i never no wat to do or say when i think they mite like me and i want to tell them that i like them.....how can i tell them without making a big deal out of it?

2006-11-16 07:52:10 · 2 answers · asked by make_a_wish995 2 in Singles & Dating

ok...ive known this guy since birth. One day at a party i held his hand and i noe im in love with him so much. Then the next day he got a gf. They say he still luvs me but i want him. To top tht off she forbid him 2 tlk 2 me. And Now im so upset. Pleez help me i need it so bad. P.S yesterday he was walkn down the hall and he kept eye contact the hole time and he told mii best frend that a hott gurl thts her friend likes him! Thats me! and he was smiling!!! PLeez HELP!!! Hints anything will do!

2006-11-16 07:51:42 · 9 answers · asked by Kendall L 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy, who has nothing to be against me about, keeps intentionally bumping into me in the hallways. He`s not doing it really hard, but its still weird. He checks me out everyday and his best friend keeps looking at me. I don`t know why he`s acting weird, but I was wondering what your thoughts are.
Does he hate me, but is checking me out anyway?
Why does he keeps bumping into me all the time?
At first, I thought it was an accident, but he keeps doing it and he`s not a clutzy or spazzy guy. And since his best friend keeps looking at me, I`m sure he`s talking about me. I don`t know if he`s saying good, bad or perverted stuff though.
What do you think he`s saying?

Please try to answer all of the questions.

2006-11-16 07:51:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to have my pictures done before the wedding and no one I know has done it this way. My FI and I are going to be 30 and live together so we are not worried about "seeing" the bride thing.... we much rather get our moneys worth eating shrimp puffs and sipping champange at the receiption :) Plus our guest will be able to go straight to the ballroom with no wait or inbetween time!
How did it go- like how much time did you need before the wedding and then after the wedding for pictures.
Any suggestion would help!!
Thanks!

2006-11-16 07:50:58 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

She was away and I took it out for a drive in the country. She doesn't know I had a duplicate key made. I was drinking at a country bar and the roads were dark and I smacked it up.

My car is broken down.

How do I make it look like the car was stolen? Do I break the steering wheel? I'm gonna tell her the car must have been stolen.
This is a bummer because I was trying to get her to cosign me on a truck loan. Now her car will be scrapped.

2006-11-16 07:50:06 · 20 answers · asked by everyyoungwomansdream 1 in Singles & Dating

I was in the library today and this girl and her ex boyfriend were in there. He kept whispering my name, and she finally says leave him alone, he obviously doesn't like you. I heard she broke up witht he kid because he is a loony. He is never serious and is very immature? Is this a sign of a friendly girl that I could approach?

2006-11-16 07:48:51 · 10 answers · asked by dude12334 1 in Singles & Dating