2006-11-16 07:54:51 · 28 answers · asked by blondy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You really need to further your education. I can tell you coming from someone who got married when i was young and in love I neglected furthering my education. I found that when you get older the things that you want when your young is not at all what you want when you get older. So then not only do you have regrets about who you married but you will definetly have regrets about your education. I am not telling you not to marry him but atleast hold off and get your education.
2006-11-16 08:13:42 · answer #1 · answered by horsecrazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to college.
You are still very young.
While you think you love the guy with all your heart, people mature and they change. There is a direct relationship between divorce rates and the age when married. The younger you get married, the more likely you will end up divorced. It is a statistical fact.
Go to college. Graduate. Get your career going. If you two are still together and still in love, then begin to consider marriage.
2006-11-16 07:59:23 · answer #2 · answered by Jack C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please, coming from an older woman, I am begging you. Go to college. In no way do I mean this to be condescending, but once you are out of high school life is completely different. And I mean night and day different. There are alot of realities, joy, trials, and successes that you have not seen yet. I believe that you will regret it if you don't give yourself some time to experience life after high school. And I KNOW you will regret it if you let anything interrupt your education. Not only because you won't reach your full potential, but God forbid something happens to the relationship and you have to make it on your own without an education.
2006-11-16 08:01:15 · answer #3 · answered by irie.girl_2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to college. Don't get married right after school. It's not really worth it. Finish school first before getting married. It's the right choice. Trust me! There's better guys out tehre for you. Just wait until you finish college. ok? There's probably anpther guy that'll melt your heart. College guys are cute, anyways. lol... well, You need to have a lot of benefits to enter the "real world" You nee money to get married. You need ajob to have money. You need education to have a job. Put on the marriage thing aside for a while. EDUCATION FIRST!!
2006-11-16 08:00:33 · answer #4 · answered by [[♥]] 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to college. I got married far too young at 22. If you love each other you can get married after you graduate.
2006-11-16 07:58:25 · answer #5 · answered by Denise G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to choose between the two, I'd say go to college. Throughout your life, you go through several levels of maturity. In this day and age, people in general are not mature enough to handle everything that comes with marriage until they're in their mid-20s. High school sweetheart marriages usually end within 5 years. It's extremely rare to see one last.
2006-11-16 08:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by togashiyokuni2001 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to college. You dont need to get married right out of highschool. Very rarely do those marriages end up well anyway. Get out and live a bit before you make that decision.
2006-11-16 07:59:34 · answer #7 · answered by Steveo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to college first. You have plenty of time left in your life to get married and have a family (if that's what you want). If your love is strong and you are meant to be together, the wedding can wait.
2006-11-16 07:57:33 · answer #8 · answered by tipper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to college!! You're going to change your mind a million times in the next few years about everything from hair color to majors to what you want in your life. You won't know what you want to be for a few years. I'd not get married until you find yourself (a few years down the road) and get a solid education. I know that's not a fun answer but you will save yourself unnecessary heartache and be able to establish your career first.
2006-11-16 07:58:25 · answer #9 · answered by Ahphooey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to college and keep dating the guy. Don't get married right after high school because you haven't experimented or had your fun yet
2006-11-16 07:57:14 · answer #10 · answered by joey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋