Family & Relationships - 16 November 2006

i need to know me and my boyfirend he is sleeping over, and no we arent having sex, he just wants to sleep with me what should i wear

2006-11-16 08:12:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 08:12:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been living with my boyfriend for over three years now and I'm really getting frustrated with him. All he does all day long is play video games. He lost his job over two months ago and just yesterday found another one all the while I was the only one paying any of the bills. In the entire time he wasn't working he barely did anything around the house in the way of cooking or cleaning. In fact, I DID MORE COOKING AND CLEANING THAN HE DID! Plus, I worked!
I feel like he wants a mother rather than a grilfriend. He is 25 years old with no driver's license. I have to drive him everywhere. He can't seem to do anything for himself.
I have lost all respect for him. I order him around like a child and I honestly feel really bad about it but I can't help it! If I don't scream, yell and bark orders he doesn't do anything! If I break up with him he has no where to go. I don't want him to be homeless but I don't think I want to live with him anymore...help!

2006-11-16 08:12:41 · 21 answers · asked by quest4lucidity 2 in Singles & Dating

My father became involved with a woman years after the death of my mother, kept it a secret from me, and then got engaged to her three months after my brother broke the news to me despite my father's best efforts; I haven't been happy.
Sixth months after I first met her, they were married. I met her parents for the first time the night before the wedding. The next time I went home from school (boarding) we had moved out of my childhood home and into a new house "better suited" for the eight of us. (Yes, I have a brother and a sister and my step-mom came with some baggage. Three to be exact.) By the time we moved in together, I had probably spent less than 24 hours with any member of my "new" family. Two years later, I am stilling uncomfortable in my "home." My dad shows me less attention than ever. My step-mom spends my dad's money like it's nothing: accupunture, massages, junk for her kids. Not to mention the fact that she's alread "inherited" our nicest vehicle. I feel pushed away.

2006-11-16 08:11:58 · 18 answers · asked by Richard S 1 in Family

Well see there is this guy that I know and yeah weve been out togehter a couple of tiems, he's never tried anything till one day we went to the movies. Well he expected sex, but I wasen't ready to give up to him. So no he dosne't have anything else to do with me. But what should I do about him. Because now he's telling everybody I'm scary.

2006-11-16 08:11:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

listen to each piano piece and let me know which one you like the best:

Love Song #1----> http://youtube.com/watch?v=QVB9DzFyTCI

Love Song #2----> http://youtube.com/watch?v=h5Rs5OCNeBk&mode=related&search=

Love Song #3-----> http://youtube.com/watch?v=cRcD8-0LZJw&mode=user&search=

2006-11-16 08:10:52 · 19 answers · asked by choosinghappiness 5 in Marriage & Divorce

to play thats intimate that a male and female can play

2006-11-16 08:10:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 08:10:29 · 15 answers · asked by bye bye!! 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 08:09:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-16 08:09:39 · 14 answers · asked by char 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm going on a trip next sunday with people I don't know,what do you say? I don't want to being too silly and ridiculous but nor too serious and boring

2006-11-16 08:09:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what should i do this is the first time me and this guy is meeting

2006-11-16 08:08:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

P.S. She ate a cockroach.

2006-11-16 08:08:35 · 19 answers · asked by RJ is asjkldfjgkasjfdskljfsdklfj 1 in Friends

or are you shy?

2006-11-16 08:07:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My school is filled with kids desperately trying to have a girlfriend/boyfriend. Especially the popular girls. They switch boyfriends, get hooked up and everything just to stay cool. It's so retarted. What's the point?

2006-11-16 08:07:25 · 15 answers · asked by fruit salad 6 in Singles & Dating

Ok so we have a lot of history together (2years worth) I love him but I have never told him that because we have never been a serious BF/GF couple. It started out as just sex, then we became really good friends then feelings developed (i think on both ends). There have been 2 periods of time (about 6mo each) where we were unable to see eachother. The timing was always wrong with us. When I wanted a relationship he wasn't ready wich is fine i was willing to wait. Now he is ready and so am I. The problem is that he is getting out in May and when he does he says he wants to move back home to Ohio. Thats where he is from. I can't handle him disappearing out of my life for a third time! I don't know if I would/could move with him. I am very close with my family and have a great job here. I know that sounds selfish when he has been away from his family for the last 6 years.I don't know what to do or what to say to him. I would never make him choose between me and his family. PLEASE HELP!

2006-11-16 08:07:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I STILL HAVE VERY STRONG FEELINGS FOR MY EX (BABYS FATHER) HOWEVER, HE IS IN A RELATIONSHIP RIGHT NOW WITH SOMEONE ELSE....ALTHOUGH ITS NOT SERIOUS ITS STILL IN PROGRESS..... I KNOW HE STILL CARES ABOUT ME, BECAUSE HE STILL TELLS ME HE LOVES ME...BUT I WANT TO BE WITH HIM AGAIN....SHOULD I LET HIM GO AND JUST LOVE HIM AS THE FATHER OF MY CHILD, OR SHOULD I LET HIM KNOW THAT I STILL CARE?

2006-11-16 08:05:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just broke up with my boyfriend becasue I dont think he likes me anymore. In the begining he treated me so good. I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with him. We had some issues with him being jealous and I though we were past it. Now he does not want to spend time with me, we only been out together once in two weeks and he does not call that much anymore. I feel lonely and unwanted so I called it quits. Was I wrong or did I give up to quick? We had only been together for 3 mos.

2006-11-16 08:05:08 · 21 answers · asked by Sparkle 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom has a very bad illness, and the doctores said with to mch strees she could die. shes not supose to have strees in her life but every thing is. this week end my mother and i have t go to a wedding, and as if shes not stress out enough my brother has to push her to the edge. i've try'd to talk to my brother but he will not listen. i want to do something anything to help lower her stress. what could i do to help keep my mom alive? oh and i have four brothers.

2006-11-16 08:04:58 · 9 answers · asked by summmer 1 in Friends

i need a cheer wit the words gwynn park and irreplaceable

2006-11-16 08:04:28 · 6 answers · asked by Ariana S 1 in Friends

I cannot get over the fact that I have made mistakes. I have always been the one to succeed. The role model for others. Now, I am a single mom who had a child out of wedlock. I love my child with all my heart, but I feel shame. This leads to so much anger for his father. He choose to move to another country and calls himself the "bio" father. Aghhh... I want to move forward with my life, but I am finding it so hard to let go. Any advise is welcomed?

2006-11-16 08:03:50 · 11 answers · asked by kittycat 1 in Family

Tonight since my husband is leaving tomorrow... This is my plans if you read my other questions i have asked you will understand.
I am renting a hotel suite and i will have candels around the tub and we are goin to go eat first at his favorite restruant and i am goin to blind fold him and take him to the hotel and dress in some sexy night clothes and tease him and you can figure out the rest from there...... SO is that a good idea or what????

2006-11-16 08:03:17 · 11 answers · asked by Kayla P 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He seems ready to but neither one of us wantto make the plans.

2006-11-16 08:02:40 · 24 answers · asked by devin102791 2 in Singles & Dating

okay. Their was a friend that i went on a date with. Even before the date occured, i would go over his room everynight and we would just either talk for hours or i would just chill with him. One night he was being flirtly. He would do things such as poke me in the stomach or make fun of me in a silly way. When i asked, he let me sit in his lap. We would cuddle for a while. These things have happened many nights. He seems so safe to be around. But after the date, everything has become neutral. I try and not go over his room as much as i did. And he seems so emotionaless sometimes. Maybe it is due to his work load because he did tell me he had alot of it for these last couple of days. so if any one can seriously answer my question, help me.

2006-11-16 08:02:32 · 9 answers · asked by shakespearestalker87 1 in Singles & Dating

I know he loves me, but he never says or shows it.

2006-11-16 08:02:31 · 19 answers · asked by Quenta 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-16 08:01:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I do not want to have sex anymore. I am disgusted by the thought of it. My passion is gone. This is quite recent (two months) as I spent my entire life up until this point craving sex and having sex frequently with my partner (1 man). Even kissing makes me uncomfortable. Touching makes me physically ill. I don't know what's wrong with me or what I've done to make this change. Please help me. It isn't that I don't want him anymore, I want to go back to sex. It's just that everytime I think of it I get sick. What could it be and how can I change it?

2006-11-16 08:01:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been married for almost two years, and have a baby on the way.

2006-11-16 08:00:58 · 19 answers · asked by missy87 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A few weeks ago, I found alot of alarming sites in my spouses email (dating sites) and then I found a password to a myspace account....I went into the messages section and found that my spouse had been chatting with girls with veru inappropriate pictures, even saying things like "great picture". A few weeks prior to that, I found all these dtaing profiles in his computer history. when I asked him about it, he said the profiles were his friends at work, that he didnt sign up for the dating sites and that other people have access to his 'entertainment company' myspace. I know he is lying and he admitted that he did something wrong but did not say what. He became very emotional about it but did not actually confess to specific things but kept saying he is sorry for hurting me. Now, I can't even trust him if I try, I always think he is doing something wrong, I question him alot and he refuses to talk about any of it.

How do I learn to trust him again? He won't talk about any of it!

2006-11-16 08:00:41 · 8 answers · asked by lostandconfusedincanada 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife wants to go out tonight with some friends from church but she says that that it isn't for children. I told her unless she found a babysitter she couldn't go. She called her sister and she can't tonight but said that she should ask me to do it. LOL..like kids are a man's responsibility... That is just ridiculous....besides I'm planning on watching the football game tonight anyway....I think my wife isn't to happy with me though for whatever reason, what should I do?

2006-11-16 07:59:43 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce