He seems ready to but neither one of us wantto make the plans.
2006-11-16 08:02:40 · 24 answers · asked by devin102791 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If neither of you are ready to make plans for the moment that should be very special for both of you, maybe, neither of you are as ready as you think...this is a big step, even if one or both of you have done it already, this step opens up new things for couples and could put you closer together, or break you up. Definitely think about it before doing something that you will regret.
2006-11-16 08:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by CHELLE E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you shouldn't "plan" sex, just be ready for it. If that makes any sense at all. He should always have condoms with him just in case, but if two are both really feeling the moment, and when you do you will know what I am talking about, then you could do something about it then. From past experience, I know that if you "plan" it, then it is more like a job or something you HAVE to do and it is not as good.
2006-11-16 16:06:27 · answer #2 · answered by Cillosis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If neither of you want to make the plans, then you're not ready for sex. Wait a year or two until you're both more mature.
2006-11-16 16:05:46 · answer #3 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sex isnt about plans it just happens. In the heat of the moment, both of you will realize you are ready. when sex is planned it never works out very well.
2006-11-16 16:05:12 · answer #4 · answered by Kas 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Guys are always ready. You have more than a chance. But you'll have to make the first move.
2006-11-16 16:05:27 · answer #5 · answered by sxyalmond 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you guys are like but don't plan it, just let it be spur of the moment but make sure you both are ready.
2006-11-16 16:04:50 · answer #6 · answered by ichigo_li2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems ready? that "seems" to imply a lack of communication to me....talk to him before and really think it through and if it's what you both want.
2006-11-16 16:05:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Devin, sometimes we have to take matters into our own hands and make things happen. Catch my drift?
2006-11-16 16:08:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your parents. If they say it is OK, then you are old enough.
If you can't pass this simple test, then you are doing something wrong that will likely have consequences.
2006-11-16 16:06:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Puleeze, he's a guy! All you have to do is let him know you are interested and you will have to beat him off with a stick!
2006-11-16 16:04:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋