Family & Relationships - 16 November 2006

For me, it forever changed the way I felt about love and it forever changed the way I thought about myself (and yes, I know there are a few of you who actually have parents that are still together).

2006-11-16 08:53:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Guys, if you really love a woman, you will want to see her as often as possible, right? Right now I am in an LDR, and though we only live 3.5 hours apart, I rarely see him. He visited me in September, then wanted me to come to him in October, which I did. It was a disastrous trip; I was involved in a minor accident on the way up and more car trouble on the way back. He won't be able to see me til Xmas break. To my mind, that's a long time. I know we're college students who don't have much time, but I would think that if he really cared about seeing me, he'd come visit me over the next available weekend instead of waiting so long. I just feel that his long delay is a poor repayment to me after all the trouble I experienced and the effort I put into visiting him. He says he loves me and we talk on the phone every night, but I'm just not seeing it. Should I conclude that he doesn't love me? Are my concerns legitimate, and should I break up with him?

2006-11-16 08:53:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is this normal..

2006-11-16 08:52:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy I work with is very flirty with me, we talk a lot, and today he gave me a quick massage (hard to explain why that happened). So... I think he might like me, but I also see him talking to this other girl a lot and he hasn't asked me out or anything so I'm confused. Help, please!

2006-11-16 08:52:23 · 7 answers · asked by Nikki D 1 in Singles & Dating

How does it feel to have ***?

2006-11-16 08:52:06 · 17 answers · asked by D. Fizzle 1 in Singles & Dating

he has never been in a relationship for longer then 2 months and we are coming up to 2 years. he told me that we would still do things together hang out and he wants me to go to family things with him and his family, but he needs time to make sure. i told him that i wasnt playing these games and i wouldnt wait for him. and he said he doesnt want to lose me what do i do.

2006-11-16 08:51:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive lived with my mom and step dad for about 11 years now, and for a very long time had many problems with my step-dad. A couple years ago there was a big fight between us and since then he dosnt really step up in parenting me anymore, its just my mom. I do love my mom very much but just being the way i am is against what she thinks, and i understand it. She knows i smoke pot, and do other things she dosnt aprove of, but niether of them ever say anything about it because they are scared im goin to have some big break down from some stress's im having in life. I found out not to long ago they were going to see a marraige councelor which im not sure what it is, but it dosnt sound all to great. As much as my mom may think i just dont care, i really do respect her and the room she has given me to figure things out. But my step dad isnt the same way, he wants to stop me from doin things and use punishments in ways and that causes them to fight all the time, im just looking for some advice.

2006-11-16 08:50:41 · 7 answers · asked by tourniquet 1 in Family

2006-11-16 08:50:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We're going pretty inexpensive at my wedding and so not hiring a professional photographer. I'm going to hand my pretty decent camera off to a friend or family member to get shots (I'm in the "prosumer" range myself but can't really photograph my own wedding :) ), but I'd like to whip up a list of shots to get, i.e. vows, walks down the aisle, closeup of rings being slid onto hands, etc. I'm afraid if I don't specify at least a little it will be several of the same shot. The people I'm considering will be find with such a list, so if you're a professional photographer (especially wedding) or have experience from a wedding, lemme know what shots I'll want but might not be thinking of.

P.S. We're putting disposable cameras on the tables at the reception, so I think we'll have a good amount of group shots from that.

2006-11-16 08:50:11 · 11 answers · asked by SandyCheeks 2 in Weddings

I'm a pretty cute girl and I put myself out there but no guys seem to notice or want to talk to me.What am I doing wrong?

2006-11-16 08:48:28 · 20 answers · asked by mint 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know all guys do this,it's just in their nature. But i wish my boyfriend would'nt make it so obvious,i'd rather him wait until i'm not in the room or my backs turned or something. I dont like when he does this but i dont want him to think i'm jealous or possessive because his last girlfriends were like that. Should i give him a taste of his own medicine and look at other guys?

2006-11-16 08:47:00 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 08:46:01 · 11 answers · asked by paul_wilkie2002 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is a man that used to LOVE to have sex whenever, wherever and with whoever any day of the week and sometimes more than once in a day. Now there is no desire and any and all attempts to initiate are rejected. He claims that he just has so much stress that he can't even think about it.

2006-11-16 08:44:53 · 10 answers · asked by chattycath 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a sibling of three. My mother is such a pathological liar, it is so not even funny. She recently made the decision to move, and is dependant of me helping with expenses. I called a family meeting, and we came up with figures. I agreed to $200. Well the figure has now changed according to her to $500 for various reasons. I have always helped her monaterily and am ready to cut her off. I have came to the conclusion that I will give her the $200 and then change my number and cut all ties. I am that fustrated already. Any suggestions?? Not to mention she talks about me to my other siblings saying I go overboard when it comes to personal expenses for me and my daughter. What gives..

2006-11-16 08:43:20 · 16 answers · asked by Curious Person 2 in Family

help me think of things please

2006-11-16 08:43:04 · 7 answers · asked by reddakYO 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a sophmore female civil engineering major at a dominant engineering school. In highschool, I had plently of girlfriends, but here in college there aren't many girl's in my classes, so all my friends are guys. I love my friends here to death, but sometimes I would rather just hang out with my girlfriends from back home. I feel like I'm just having trouble relating to the other girl's I see here on campus... most of them lake severe common sense or any respect for themselves. Does anyone have suggestions on how I can meet the same kind of girl's that I had in High school at college too?

2006-11-16 08:41:53 · 4 answers · asked by tbmass 2 in Friends

i kissed a fella in my class in college on a nite out, he seemed to think we wer goin to get married. how can people have such strong feelings

2006-11-16 08:40:15 · 23 answers · asked by helen 2 in Singles & Dating

the dude that i've been messin with had a girl from the beginning but i fell for him and he fell for me but doesn't want to leave her . he wants both of us. i try to leave him alone he still calls. how can i get him out of my head?//??

2006-11-16 08:40:11 · 19 answers · asked by imjustagurl0914 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This guy I like already has a gf.

2006-11-16 08:39:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy .. but i'm afraid he might be a player .. how do i know for sure ? btw we have alot incomen and he's really funny , i love spending time with him , but he's to sweet and cute to be real !! HELP ME PLZZzZzzZzZ!!!

2006-11-16 08:39:47 · 6 answers · asked by Dumbass 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really want to know. I know that I fall short on that note. don't these stupid males know that some day these same women will lose their looks. I have been put down because of the way I look. at 42 I am still alone. does it make you feel like a stud. I really want to know.

2006-11-16 08:39:06 · 2 answers · asked by madamesmokesalot 3 in Singles & Dating

How long after a guy is married is it acceptable for him to get a mistress?

I mean I really like my wife but cmon now its been 3 weeks since we tied the knot and she is still crying that I go out with my girlfriend 4 nights a week.

I thought even though we were married we would still do our own thing.

Are all woman this tempramental or should I slap some sense into her?

2006-11-16 08:38:59 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i smoke but im on the varsity wrestling team and it doesnt seem to affect me , but everyone thats my friend as a girl says i should quit. i was curious, what is it specificallu do u think says about my personality to girls about my bad habit?

2006-11-16 08:38:47 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it, men are so eager to send out pictures of their members?? lol

2006-11-16 08:38:13 · 15 answers · asked by Kelly Madison 3 in Singles & Dating

I think my hubby has OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder). Everyday we have to do all of the laundry, and all of the dishes have to be done. He can't sit still, he always has to be doing something. Every weekend he cleans our house to the T. Our house can be spotless and he says that "We have a lot to do." I know it sounds great to some women, that your husband do all the work, but it gets really annoying. He can't even sit down and watch a 30 minute sitcom on television. Should I be worried? Is there anyone who can tell me what to do to get him to relax?

2006-11-16 08:38:00 · 14 answers · asked by Loola 3 in Marriage & Divorce

with touching me? We have been together for four months and she's still shy about touching my body. I can see she really like to look at me, cuddle with me, and be around me.

However she rarely touch me on stomach or chest. I've felt her check out my stomach somewhat often when I'm sleeping. She often would slip into the shower with me and take forever when rubs and rinse soap off me especially at my stomach. Also whenever I place her hands on my chest or stomach, she would rubs but she often blush at this.

She basically act like a virgin naked couple being around eachother for first time whenever I'm shirtless. I don't understand why she's so shy about this. I knows I at least look decent since I do tri athlon and I shower twice a day almost everyday. So I can't figure this one out and would like her to feel more comfort about doing it.

2006-11-16 08:37:48 · 4 answers · asked by cikaticc 1 in Singles & Dating

At the beginging of the year no one messed with me. Now I have people being rude to me. i am nice and i don't like to be rude or mean to people. Right now there is this girl telling me that she hates me (she does it to other people too, I just ignore her and next time he does it i am going to be like okay and i dont care.) anywas today i was tired and everytime someone talked lous it was probably 100 times louder than they really were. and this girl was 2 desk away from me and i looked at her about 3 or 4 times(just a glance and i did not make faces at her or anything) and then she was like look at this girl looking at me and started talkign about me. ehy are people getting this way after i am nice to them or if i just look at them?

2006-11-16 08:37:14 · 1 answers · asked by lala l 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

It's not like they're doing anything mindblowing but they're still blowing my mind.

2006-11-16 08:37:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hate the attetion I get from older men. I'm suppose to be a "sexy" girl but none of the guys at my high want to talk to me or want me to be their girlfriend.

2006-11-16 08:36:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A while back i had a crush on a girl,my ex girlfriend gound out and made an internet account pretending to be me and started stalking her,and somebody else spread a rumor that i was saying she was my girlfriend,which wasnt true,however this girl doesnt believe me...and hates my guts...what do i do?

2006-11-16 08:35:56 · 2 answers · asked by Dangel 1 in Other - Family & Relationships