How long after a guy is married is it acceptable for him to get a mistress?
I mean I really like my wife but cmon now its been 3 weeks since we tied the knot and she is still crying that I go out with my girlfriend 4 nights a week.
I thought even though we were married we would still do our own thing.
Are all woman this tempramental or should I slap some sense into her?
2006-11-16 08:38:59 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
ur joking right?
2006-11-16 09:10:29 · answer #1 · answered by Lori J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets see your wife has every right to be sad because you have a gf! you are such a moron and what were you thinking when you said i do to your wife knowing that there would be someone else on the side? dont you read the Bible or have learned what is good and bad over the years? you seem so childish for your wife who i do not know why she first of all married you! i am not even done with you...you need to either break up with the gf or get a divorce sooner or later because that is what it will come down to! you set the example that it is okay for me to spend more time with some **** than you honey to your wife and sooner or later she will be fed up and maybe cheat on you too! have you ever thought about that, of course you have not since you are a guy and have a dick and think about sex all the time and never about the people who actually matter in your life! wake up and stop being so stupid and imature because sooner or later you will lose both your wife as well as your gf because she is good for only so long and then what happens to you, fool? you need to be the one who should be slapped some sense into since you are the biggest asshole, moron and idiot and you do not even realize that what you do is wrong! you think your wife needs to have common sense slapped into her, how about you try yourself first and then judge others! when you marry someone you make a committment with the words" for better or worse, til death do us part" and you are not fulfilling your vows! i am not married and i am a better gf than you are as a husband! you spend 4 nights with a bimbo vs your wife and you think that is right...wow, wake up and see all the damage you are doing to your marriage! your wife is hurt, your marriage is on the rocks and you are in la la land! break up with the bimbo you call your gf and actually make a committment and stick with it and try to repair your marriage!
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2006-11-16 09:00:58 · answer #2 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife is crying, because even if she doesn't say anything, she knows you have a girlfriend, and is very sad. Show her some respect - either get rid of the girlfriend and make a real go of you marriage, or be merciful and tell your wife it's over so she can get on with her life and find someone who deserves her.
2006-11-16 08:54:04 · answer #3 · answered by Kirsty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u kidding me? u expected her to marry u and let u go out with a gf?? why would u wanna be married, why drag a poor woman into your cheating lifestyle.....u shudnt have gotten married or u shud change how u act now. im prettty sure all women wud be pissed off at you..i mean really why did u get married u are one big stupid idiot....i wud cry too......u dont marry with the intention of getting a mistress...
2006-11-16 08:41:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What a terrible thing to say!! Why even get married if your vows meant nothing and if you knew you wouldn't be comitted to your wife. Might as well get a divorce and save your wife the extra heartache.
2006-11-16 11:55:56 · answer #5 · answered by VAWeddingSpecialist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you marry someone they should be the only one in your life. Go out with her 4 times a week. Not the other person.
2006-11-16 08:40:53 · answer #6 · answered by keeganbrads 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
WHAT!?!?!?!?! Wow I thought Eve was lucky to be spending the rest of eternity with Adam, but you my friend are one heck of a catch!!
A marriage is when 2 people who love, honor and respect each other want to commit by spending the rest of their lives together. If that's not what you wanted (obviously you didn't) than why did you marry her??
2006-11-16 08:46:33 · answer #7 · answered by luv 4 dogs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a g/f, then it's only fair that she has a b/f that takes her out 4 times a week. She'll stop crying if you tell her she can have a b/f.
2006-11-16 10:30:29 · answer #8 · answered by trouble1374 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your the type of bloke that gives us decent men a bad name, grow up, how would you lioke it if she had another man 4 nights aweek
2006-11-16 08:41:34 · answer #9 · answered by simonbeever2000 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I feel so so so sorry for your new wife! ARE YOU COMPLETELE OUT OF YOUR MIND?! You need the crap kicked out of you, and I wish your new wife would do it! Thats all I can say....it discusses me to see you ask a question like this!
2006-11-16 08:49:01 · answer #10 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why'd you even get married? if u gotta girl..that **** never works. it'll come back to bite you in the *** later though..legal battles over marriage are pretty ugly...now she'll get half of what u got...hope the girl is a good **** to be worth it!
2006-11-16 08:44:21 · answer #11 · answered by stefanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋