he has never been in a relationship for longer then 2 months and we are coming up to 2 years. he told me that we would still do things together hang out and he wants me to go to family things with him and his family, but he needs time to make sure. i told him that i wasnt playing these games and i wouldnt wait for him. and he said he doesnt want to lose me what do i do.
2006-11-16 08:51:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, in a relationship the thing u need when he/she is blue is support. I know you really love your bf and he loves u as well but u need to let him know that if he really needs a little time for himself just to clear things up then go ahead. let him. More over it is that if you feel that you really love him you should understand him where he is coming from and think of his perspective. Why is he doing this? What is he afraid of? What needs to be done? You have to let him know that you love him and theres no need to be afraid that hes going to lose you because you will always be on his side and support him whatever happens because you love him. In a relationship, you have 5 main things to be concern about and that is: Trust, Faith, Love, Understanding, and support. Focus on these things and your relationship should be pretty good ;) well good luck. This is Doc Chan, and u can leave me a message in my email: alan.chan29@gmail.com
2006-11-16 09:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by Doctor Chan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Requests for time apart are never good. He may really like you, but it sounds like he is scared of commitment. Having never been in a longterm relationship, he may be unsure or scared of how to continue. Give him a little time and have a serious talk with him. Let him know in very definite terms that you love him, that you are interested in a serious relationship and want to know what he thinks. Find out his feelings, be gentle, as he may be scared of commitment. If he refuses to give you any definite answers, then it may be time to move on.
2006-11-16 11:38:33 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for him. for a month or two. just hang out with him, go on a few dates with other guys but nothing serious. if in two months he hasnt asked you back out, tell him your going to start actually dating again. then if he asks you out have fun. but if he says i dont want to lose you but i think we should take a little more time apart, then he is just playing games with you. if he doesnt want to lose you he wont stay apart for more than two months. if he says that dump him then and there. good luck
-Colin
2006-11-16 08:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by Colin Night 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When someone needs time apart, it is never a good thing. So i suggest u break it off. Or he possibly wants to date you and other girls.
2006-11-16 09:03:21 · answer #4 · answered by kiki0204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wanting time apart is never a good sign. Break it off with him and get on with your life.......
2006-11-16 08:55:18 · answer #5 · answered by P-Nut 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a player so be care full my friend. if he loves you what time does he need?maybe if he cant make up his mind you sure can yours. catch my drift?
2006-11-16 08:58:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to see you and possibly other girls.
2006-11-16 08:55:24 · answer #7 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋