Family & Relationships - 16 November 2006

Okay I have this friend she and another of my friends ALWAYS fight(verbally) and then they get mad at each other. And my friend ALWAYS complians about the other girl how she is always getting mad for stupid stuff. But all i say is "i dont care,really,,,just forget about it" i say that ebcause the next day or so they make up and are friends again. I mean for god's sake we are grade 9 shouldnt we act better then as if we are in middle school? So how can i stop her from complaiing because first she will say that she wont complaina nd then 10 minutes later she is STILL ragging on. And she is even mad at me becaus ei am 14 and i am going out with a 23 year old it's my choice. And i think at times she is jealous cuz i have b/fs and she has never had one. I had suggested matchmaker.com to her...

2006-11-16 08:23:39 · 13 answers · asked by Haley 2 in Friends

2006-11-16 08:23:38 · 26 answers · asked by *mxgirl115* 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is in the next room kissing a guy called Pierre.

Should I hit him with an onion?

2006-11-16 08:22:49 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend are starting over. He's agreed that he wants to open up to me and wants to try to get to know me again but I'm confused about how to pace it this time. How slow is too slow? How often should we talk? How often should we go out? I don't want to rush it because I know I want a relationship now, but don't want to scare him off by putting on too much pressure. How do you take it slow?

2006-11-16 08:22:39 · 12 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

is just that nowadays Im hereing on here that some guys don't know how to ask a woman out are men really scared in asking a woman

2006-11-16 08:22:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is that not f*cked up?!?! I had certain msg on there frm my boyfriend that i really wish she hadnt seen.

I have a right to be pissed off.....right?!?!

2006-11-16 08:22:16 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

A hello from paris for all readers

2006-11-16 08:22:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-11-16 08:22:03 · 20 answers · asked by Darren S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think that my girlfriend is cheating on me but im not sure.
i told her to call me last friday and she never did, and she said that her mom told her she couldnt. then yesterday i told her to call me and she never did. she said that she was really tired and fell asleep and she said she woke up around 3 or so and she told me she said "fk i forget to call tori" i dont really believe her much anymore. she doesnt like to be seen with me around school it seems like becasue i will sit next to her and she turns her back and talks to my other friend. this morning when i got to school i sat down and she looked at me and asked me whats wrong and i told her nothing. then she started to talk to my other friend and she turned and looked at me and again asked me what was wrong. i said "i came in like 5 minutes ago and i dont even get a hug" in a joking way then she looked at me and gave me a hug. and that was it.
is she cheating one me?

2006-11-16 08:21:45 · 12 answers · asked by RazaBlade Kanible 2 in Singles & Dating

if you say before, what happens when he?she can't satisfy you?. ex.micro penis/ vaginal constriction?

2006-11-16 08:21:21 · 17 answers · asked by relevent 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i love this girl and we have been going out for a while. but the prob. is.........that she has her dream job now. i was happy for her......she could do what she always wanted,but i never get to talk to her or see her because of her job. if i am luckly i get 20mins with her a day and half the time shes talking to me but shes thinking bout her job. i tryed talking to her bout it but shes not around to talk to. im not sure what to do.......i love this girl so much and im happy she has her dream job but.......i dont get to see her that much......what should i do?

2006-11-16 08:20:25 · 5 answers · asked by countryman 3 in Singles & Dating

Here's my story.
Is my fault that my parents fight all the time and they never talk to each other, cuz i always feel that its my fault. PLZ HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-16 08:20:20 · 11 answers · asked by XxNeaNeaxX 2 in Family

2006-11-16 08:20:12 · 14 answers · asked by kayla~N~Chris4ever 1 in Singles & Dating

At the beginging of the year no one messed with me. Now I have people being rude to me. i am nice and i don't like to be rude or mean to people. Right now there is this girl telling me that she hates me (she does it to other people too, I just ignore her and next time he does it i am going to be like okay and i dont care.) anywas today i was tired and everytime someone talked lous it was probably 100 times louder than they really were. and this girl was 2 desk away from me and i looked at her about 3 or 4 times(just a glance and i did not make faces at her or anything) and then she was like look at this girl looking at me and started talkign about me. ehy are people getting this way after i am nice to them or if i just look at them?

2006-11-16 08:19:42 · 7 answers · asked by lala l 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend of nearly five months has just broken up with me. The thing is he is the only person i have ever truly cared about. Ever since we split i cant stop crying, im crying writing this. What makes it harder is the fact he loves me and i know it, we havent knew each other long but in the time we have we have grew closer than is humanly possible.

The reason he split is because my ex partner was abusive and violent and he managed to get my new partners num. He sent him messages and rang him for a couple of days.

He says he is feeling it just as much as me and that he wont get over me for a long time(even been crying as much as me). He just thinks we will be happier in the long run as my idiot of an ex would start crap again and make us hate each other.

The fact is he doesnt realise how much i will miss and need him in my life.

I would appreciate anyones views and comments on this, please??

2006-11-16 08:18:47 · 15 answers · asked by donna_davidson777 1 in Friends

My girlfriend and I have been together for two whole weeks, and I think I should get her something special to commemorate the occasion. I was thinking maybe I should plop down $10K for a nice engagement ring and propose. I know she's my soulmate because the ghost of Jim Morrison visited me in a dream and told me so. He also asked me for a joint, but that's not important. So what should I do for this monumental occasion?

2006-11-16 08:18:41 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a kid in my grade is reely cute and i like him but yesterday my friend who likes him 2 asked him out and she new i reely liked him. wut do i do????????

2006-11-16 08:18:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I havent had a steady boyfriend in who knows when and the only guy that is interested is never available. I feel like my life is going down the toliet and my friends apparently dont like me. So get new ones? yeah umm apparently people in general dont like me. Im not weird or anything i mean everyone says they are jelous...which is stupid right? why would people be mean to you and distant for that?I try to be nice obviously that isent working. so things are working out for everyone but me...thats how it feels anyway.
I pray my life will change....i just want a reassurance that there is a life after highschool

2006-11-16 08:18:29 · 16 answers · asked by And kayla was like 1 in Friends

Ok so we have a lot of history together (2years worth) I love him but I have never told him that because we have never been a serious BF/GF couple. It started out as just sex, then we became really good friends then feelings developed (i think on both ends). There have been 2 periods of time (about 6mo each) where we were unable to see eachother. The timing was always wrong with us. When I wanted a relationship he wasn't ready wich is fine i was willing to wait. Now he is ready and so am I. The problem is that he is getting out in May and when he does he says he wants to move back home to Ohio. Thats where he is from. I can't handle him disappearing out of my life for a third time! I don't know if I would/could move with him. I am very close with my family and have a great job here. I know that sounds selfish when he has been away from his family for the last 6 years.I don't know what to do or what to say to him. I would never make him choose between me and his family. PLEASE HELP!

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We were off and no for 2 years. No fights no blow outs we just couldn't see eachother at times due to his work and we decided mutually that when we were separated like that we would be allowed to keep our options open. we never maintained a long distance relationship. But we also never found anything better than eachother.

2006-11-16 08:17:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm a girl and some of my really good guy friends make fun of me and my best friend(a girl) for playing soccer. one of the guys "bob" is going out with my best friend and she exploded on him one day for talking bad about soccer. now "bob" is playing kiss up to her but hasnt apologized once to me and i've been friends with him longer than they have known each other. is this bullshit or am i just crazy?

2006-11-16 08:17:34 · 5 answers · asked by Steven 2 in Friends

Since me and my gal split,kind of seeking solice in the liquid.Ive had 17 cans of lager,one botlle of sake,and half of vodka.Just to dull the **** it all brings up.And it wont work,i carnt get slaughtered.I think its the Poison in me i try to block out.You see the poisen is in the wound,and wound will not heal.
Have my body had enough of it or have i become immune?

2006-11-16 08:17:03 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-16 08:16:53 · 5 answers · asked by Awesome Amazing Alex 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't want to divorce my husband because I'm committing a sin. Maybe he is the one who will going to divorce me; but I just want to leave him and go to another State and start my life and find my future. Maybe I will just stay single forever and work in another State. I just want to separate from my husband and I don't want him to know that I'm going to leave him one day before he come home from work and just make a letter stating all the hurts and being taken for granted. There are many many reasons to divorce him. Can I do steps on another State to separate from my husband like all the debts, loans. HIs money is all his and I'm not interested to get anything I just want to be free of debt, loans and everything that I didn't incurred to start my life and have a good future someday. Can I get an attorney when I'm in California to do all the things to separate my husband eventhough my husband is in Michigan. I don't want to get contact with my husband anymore when Im in California

2006-11-16 08:15:30 · 5 answers · asked by pinaysapinas2004 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the difference between a male and a man?

2006-11-16 08:15:18 · 12 answers · asked by Moglai 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-16 08:15:15 · 24 answers · asked by Addison 1 in Singles & Dating

A girl and a boy talk on the internet only. boy has a girlfriend. Boy and girl are chatting on internet about having sex with eachother. is it cheating?

2006-11-16 08:15:14 · 24 answers · asked by miss_dippy 2 in Singles & Dating

Lets say you are in love with a person of a different religion, caste and creed....would you have the strength to stand up for your love against society's all odds? or would you let that person go?...Honest answers only please...Dont say you would'nt fall in love with the person in the first place

2006-11-16 08:14:38 · 23 answers · asked by billu_bhai 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend has a son from a previous relationship who is going to be three in January. They were never married and never went through court to determine child support payments. His ex-girlfriend has general custody of the child, so my boyfriend pays her a significant amount of money every single week. I think it's a ridiculous amount for a toddler, and I was wondering if there are people on here paying or receiving child support, and what you think a fair amount is for a child of his age. My boyfriend works hard but he is not filthy rich and this amount is equaling more than half of his paychecks at times. Please let me know your opinions and experience on this topic!

2006-11-16 08:14:30 · 14 answers · asked by lizwatson109 4 in Family

There is this guy that always bugs people and now he is bugging me...what should i do??And he does not like me!!

2006-11-16 08:13:49 · 20 answers · asked by Emily 1 in Friends

Okay, theres this guy that likes me and asked me out, but he just broke up with his girlfriend like 3 days ago, shes kinda my friend, but not like my best friend. I like him, I just dont want to get her mad. What should I do??? Please help!

2006-11-16 08:13:42 · 20 answers · asked by calllieee 1 in Singles & Dating