ok i love this girl and we have been going out for a while. but the prob. is.........that she has her dream job now. i was happy for her......she could do what she always wanted,but i never get to talk to her or see her because of her job. if i am luckly i get 20mins with her a day and half the time shes talking to me but shes thinking bout her job. i tryed talking to her bout it but shes not around to talk to. im not sure what to do.......i love this girl so much and im happy she has her dream job but.......i dont get to see her that much......what should i do?
2006-11-16 08:20:25 · 5 answers · asked by countryman 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How long is a while? If you have been seeing her for longer than 6-8 months, that's one thing. Understand that you may be important to her, but this issue is not about her, it's about you!
Why are you feeling this way, and I don't mean for you to explain the situation all over again? What inside of you is causing the anxiety, or jealousy, or emotions that you are going through?
Think of the couple that had been married for 60 years, and one dies. At least you have your love every day, so be thankful for that, at least.
2006-11-16 08:28:17 · answer #1 · answered by buddha bill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care about her, stick it out. Listen to her talk about work and ask questions. Remember her answers so you can more questions the next night. Because very shortly, she'll find out just why they have to pay people who do what she does. It'll become routine with her, and-- at times-- it'll even be a major pain in the butt for her. You will have earned many many brownie points for being there for her, and she'll remember it!
After all, I bet if you had landed *your* dream job, you'd expect her to listen to you, spend time alone while you're working and wait until the novelty wears off, right?
2006-11-16 17:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by JustZoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be supporting her, and hope that some day she'll realize that she should be taking attention to you too, and eventually get it fixed. So don't worry, do you part, and be clear from your end. And if she really loves you and if you really love her then she'll do the same for you.
2006-11-16 16:26:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about gettin YOUR dream job an get on wit your life
2006-11-16 16:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by due 21/12/09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is not making any effort in seeing you then you need to tell her. if she loves you, she will try.
2006-11-16 16:25:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋