I don't want to divorce my husband because I'm committing a sin. Maybe he is the one who will going to divorce me; but I just want to leave him and go to another State and start my life and find my future. Maybe I will just stay single forever and work in another State. I just want to separate from my husband and I don't want him to know that I'm going to leave him one day before he come home from work and just make a letter stating all the hurts and being taken for granted. There are many many reasons to divorce him. Can I do steps on another State to separate from my husband like all the debts, loans. HIs money is all his and I'm not interested to get anything I just want to be free of debt, loans and everything that I didn't incurred to start my life and have a good future someday. Can I get an attorney when I'm in California to do all the things to separate my husband eventhough my husband is in Michigan. I don't want to get contact with my husband anymore when Im in California
2006-11-16 08:15:30 · 5 answers · asked by pinaysapinas2004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How much it will cost me to get an lawyer to do all the things separating from my husband and I want to be free of debt, loans that I didn't incurred like a written statement. Can I hire lawyer from there when I'm in CAlifornia eventhough my husband is in Michigan. Or do I have to go back to Michigan to do all the things. I don't want to see my husband anymore then and I don't want to come back in Michigan anymore. Can I do that when I'm in another State
2006-11-16 08:19:02 · update #1
Read her previous questions........sounds like a nutcase to me
2006-11-16 08:17:38 · answer #1 · answered by classy&sassy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately if you two were together when the debts were incurred, they are your debts too. The only way they would not be your debts is if you were legally separated at the time. If his debt is in good standing then hooray for you - that will also increase your purchasing power. If he has good credit you can use that to purchase a home get your credit cards and vehicle using his info - get your apartment, your job, your credit, your own vehicle, etc. however if you just walk out he can sue you for abandonment. Better have a good reason for separating - better file the papers in your state before you leave. Guess what he can seek palimony and take your things if you dissolve the marriage without justifiable cause.
As for the divorce you can file pro se in the civil court of you town, you'll only have to pay the filing fee - that is if you say you want nothing. If your divorce will be complicated you'll have to hire an attorney so expect on spending between $1500 and $5000.
By the way I read your previous letter and you don't sound like a nut. You sound like a woman who is fed up. I would be sick of a man taking care of grown azz children too. _ tell him first though give him an ultimatum .
Good luck
2006-11-16 16:35:54 · answer #2 · answered by Jazz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you the person that wanted to know about your husbands benefits and how they are going to his ex? And you have been married 2 yrs? Sounds like a bad situation all together. Wash your hands of this whole thing and start your new life already. Enough with the long stories. Now go live your debt-free, husband free, benefit-free life..just don't do it here in California.
2006-11-16 16:26:48 · answer #3 · answered by 2Bme 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
getting a divorce is considered a sin to some.. but did u know that the original sayings in the bible was :
"women, obey your husbands. men, HONOR your wives".
if one is not done, then the marriage is not working, is not "pleasing" to God. so, getting a divorce to a man who does not honor you may (or may not) be a "sin" because u WANT to honor and obey a husband who HONORS and does right by you.. u cannot fulfill ur duties to "serve" or "obey" a man who doesn't give you good reason to trust him. even tho we live in a modern world where women don't like the idea of "obeying" a man, u have to realize that the TRUST between a couple is so important to create a stable marriage. i have to be able to TRUST that my husband is willing and able to make Good decisions for me and our future family. and he has to be able to TRUST that i will be able to take care of, nurture, and grow my family in a strong, healthy way. u have to work together. if one person is broken, does not want to change, or commit, or be trustworthy, than the marriage VOWS are arleady broken. good luck
2006-11-16 16:24:00 · answer #4 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-20 15:10:26 · answer #5 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋