Are men scared to approach a women?

Question

is just that nowadays Im hereing on here that some guys don't know how to ask a woman out are men really scared in asking a woman

Answer 1

hell yeah

i really wish i wasnt so afriad of rejection and looking like a first class prat in her eyes becuase at the end of the day im trying to please/impress her lol

Answer 2

I can only answer for my self, I feel we are scared to be let down so its easier to not ask and get hurt. On another note there's that many nasty people about that if you try to make an approach they land you one. I wish there was some were to go and meet some one and feel comfortable other than a bup or club as I feel that when some one drinks you don't really see the true person. I have been a widower for nearly three years after being married for nearly thirty years ( 2 weeks off )

Answer 3

Most men are pathologically afraid of hurting women. This extends to unwanted advances. The average guy would be mortified if he approached you and this bothered you, or worse, made you afraid for some reason.

Solution. Back channel communication. Understand the body language that encourages men and use it.

Example. You see some guy you are highly attracted to, checking you out, on the sly. He LIKES you but he's worried you will be offended/scared/feel bad if he comes up to you and you don't feel the same way. What do you do? Well, you noticed his que that he is interested in you. So, catch his eye and smile. If you are very aggressive, you can beckon him over there. Since he no longer has to worry about if his intentions are unwelcome, it frees him up to come on over and do his thing.

Answer 4

Men don't really have the confidence to woo beautiful women. Not to brag, but I had the same problem too. I have a best friend who was not so attractive, and she got tons of bf experiences since high school while I scored 0. Years later, some of my guy friends confessed to me that they were very much attracted by my appearence, but didn't think they have what it takes to be with me. I didn't even have a bf until I was 21, when I met a guy online. We were friends for a period of time, before he confessed that he had been in love with me since day 1. 3 years later, we got married. When people asked how we met, we told them we met while chatting online, and they were like, 'that thing works?? You could've got any guys you wanted! ' I wish! If I had known that they liked me, I wouldn't have hesitated myself in the first place.

Answer 5

Confident men don't hesitate to ask. Insecure men do. It's all about how we feel about ourselves. I'm completely happy with who I am and if I see someone that I'm interested in I won't hesitate to approach her. I usually will strike up a conversation and after a few minutes I can usually determine if she's available or not by the way she responds and her body language. If she smiles and returns the favor with positive responses, which is rare, then I will invite or offer my number and leave it up to her to contact me. That way she makes the choice to intiate any future fun time. I don't make this offer to everyone because I guess I'm too picky, but I'm not looking for just anyone. I'm confident that it will happen, whether it be today or in the near future.....

Answer 6

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Answer 7

Some men are some men aren't. Usually boys are less likely to approach a girl as opposed to a guy doing it to a lady. Men learn from age and experience how to approach girls. Girls on the other hand, make games of it regardless of what age they are.

Answer 8

Afraid- or not- if you look at the "stalking" laws in the state of Colorado- there is no objective standard for a hypothetical "legal" approach; subjectively any woman/girl who is approached by a man/boy could quantify to law enforcement how she emotively reacted in regard to it (the approach) wherein it was a negative experience. The law- just like sexual harassment laws do not follow an "objective" standard, it follows a "reasonable woman" subjective standard that the law recognizes as decidedly illegal.

Answer 9

Generally, no. But it is getting tougher to identify when a female is "old enough"...even when asked they may end up lying.

What worries me most is asking someone out that doesn't know the difference between "hereing" and "hearing". I want someone with a little more pride and a little more smarts....maybe thats why I'm single now.

Answer 10

Well, I would consider myself one of those guys, but there are a lot of people I know that are really confident and 'just do it' too. It sounds weird, but some guys make the first move, and others expect the women to do it for them!

Answer 11

You are correct in this thinking, we are scary, i had to approach my current partner in the end as i ran out of patience, his excuse for not making the first move was, "i didnt think you'd be interested in me!" Dumbo in other words he was scared!