2006-11-16 08:20:12 · 14 answers · asked by kayla~N~Chris4ever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my ex is the BIGGEST ASSHOLE!!! and everytime I spend time with my ex he tries to get in my pants!! he dont really care for me but i still love him
2006-11-16 08:24:45 · update #1
I still love my new b/f though
2006-11-16 08:27:24 · update #2
In my observations, it happens to the people who can't love their current boy friend.
2006-11-16 08:35:22 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kayla, don't you have enough love to go around for more than one person? Your ex is your ex for a reason, I'm sure. But you can still love him as long as you want.
I can love a person, but it doesn't necessarily mean that I want to be with that person. You can do that too if you want.
Now if you want to BE with your ex, but you have lesser feelings for your new b/f, then that may be a problem. It may mean that you aren't being honest with yourself, or your new b/f & you went into a relationship with him too soon after the breakup with the ex.
If that is the case, then you might want to give yourself more time to sort out your true feelings. Take a break from relationships altogether. Have some "Me time". Date if you wish, but go S L O W, & don't rush into a new relationship with someone else until you are satisfied with the relationship you have with yourself.
OK?
2006-11-16 16:35:28 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THe only thing I can say is that it will take time & maybe your new boyfriend isn't the right guy 4 u since u r still thinking about your ex I hope everything goes well & good luck
2006-11-16 16:31:04 · answer #3 · answered by lost in translation. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest in your relationship. If your heart still belongs to your ex then you need to be honest with your current boyfriend and not string him along. That isn't right or fair to him. If your ex won't take you back, I wouldn't go begging back to your current boyfriend. That would make you look like you were desperate and again wouldn't be fair to him.
If you care nothing for your new boyfriend and aren't wanted to commit to only him, then I would tell him that right now. You don't want to get further in the relationship and regret it later.
2006-11-16 16:26:22 · answer #4 · answered by hanevkidz2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though love doesn't die easy, you owe it to yourself and the guy you have now the respect of being over your ex.
In the future, DON'T DATE SOMEONE NEW UNTIL YOU ARE FOR CERTAIN THE EX IS OUT OF YOUR SYSTEM. Remember, he is an ex for a reason.
2006-11-16 16:24:30 · answer #5 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't love your ex, you moved on!!..you have the memories that you and him share and you miss them moments. And when you have to move on, you and your new b/f ....and if you care for him...you will find that in any relationship...the times spent together will only bring the past to experience..Just like gambling...If you LOSE brush it off as entertainment!!
2006-11-16 16:36:40 · answer #6 · answered by littlehawk337 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a while. Distance yourself from your ex, maybe even take a break with your new bf, he might be just a rebound. If you astill have strong feelings for your ex, then talk to him
2006-11-16 16:29:23 · answer #7 · answered by boriquagirl_19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each love is different. Just because you break up with someone, that doesn't change what you were attracted to. Also, being with someone else doesn't change what you were attracted to either.
Just take it one day at a time and enjoy your new bf
2006-11-16 16:22:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all...give it time. The best way to get over an old boyfriend is to get a new one ....good luck
2006-11-16 16:27:52 · answer #9 · answered by bbygrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should talk to him and become friends with him!! cuz ignoring them and not being friends causes u to care more about them cuz u dont see them as much!!
2006-11-16 16:22:48 · answer #10 · answered by Sammi Lynn 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋