I havent had a steady boyfriend in who knows when and the only guy that is interested is never available. I feel like my life is going down the toliet and my friends apparently dont like me. So get new ones? yeah umm apparently people in general dont like me. Im not weird or anything i mean everyone says they are jelous...which is stupid right? why would people be mean to you and distant for that?I try to be nice obviously that isent working. so things are working out for everyone but me...thats how it feels anyway.
I pray my life will change....i just want a reassurance that there is a life after highschool
2006-11-16 08:18:29 · 16 answers · asked by And kayla was like 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
omg...im going through that RIGHT now.
2006-11-16 08:20:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me be honest, in todays world there is toomuch concentration around relationships and sex and and people apprently are expected to be like a colony of ants all doing the same thing. why should people be ruled by a "norm" which happens to be going round have casual relationships. People are not individuals anymore. Having a partner is good but not because ist fashonable or everyone else is doing it but becuase you want to settle down in a safe secure and stable relationship. which is what relationships should be about.
what I am trying to say here is that when the time is right it will happen.. dont ask me how, Things just fall into place if you just forget about any pre-requisits of a relationship and let it take a its own pace and carry on with life .....then oneday... bang .. you meet someone and it all seems to be on track.. have faith my lovely. there someone out there for all of us.. Guranteed..
2006-11-16 08:27:16 · answer #2 · answered by singing_saagar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep trying to get some help or somebody to be with you. Talk to somebody new. Find out what they like, what they think about you. It DOES help to know what people think about you. Don't give up because if you do you'll never know what is in the future for you. There are beter chances in life after high school but you have to work at them to get what you want. GOOD LUCK!
2006-11-16 08:25:01 · answer #3 · answered by devin102791 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought you might be a teenager/high school student before actually reading the last part of your comment, which confirmed my thought. I'm sure it's not that people don't like you except ofcourse if you're really repugnant; but you already made it clear that's not the problem. Many high school girls/boys feel that way especially when they are not popular in school. You're just one of this group of unpopular high school kids, and there's nothing wrong with that. So yes there's a life outside high school and after high school that is not only enjoyed by "popular" kids.
2006-11-16 08:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by scooby doo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is life after highschool..just keep your chin high and things will turn out for you. Let me tell you, there is so much more to life after highschool. The boyfriend situation, dont worry about that, work on keeping up the grades and get into college, and as for friends...you meet your best friends for life in college..the people that you will invite to your wedding.
2006-11-16 08:23:08 · answer #5 · answered by Amber K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound very down....when aslow as this it is easy to blow things out of proportion. How can friends be friends as in using the word if they don't like you. You don't say if you like them?
Why not back off a bitfor a while let them come to you and find other places to go and ways to meet people....as in a new hobby or a club and then just be yourself don't worry..........it will be fine. Try to be positive.......glass half ful and all that....I know not always easy but worth the effort.
2006-11-17 01:45:34 · answer #6 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear what you're saying. I went through a similar thing. Although it seems hard, don't let it get to you. I spent so much time thinking about how I could change or guessing what other people really thought about me, regardless of what they said to me. But at the end of the day, it's better that people like you for you and not what you think they want you to be.
Be true to yourself and life will get better!
2006-11-16 09:45:26 · answer #7 · answered by Sweetz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was facing something very similar..but you should just keep hope and make yourself more approachable.try to do things you really want 2 do..discover yourself then you will understand people better.,,you will also meet people you can relate with..just hold on you never know when the jackpot is on the way and for the guy..just be cool..if anything is meant 2 be it will be
2006-11-16 11:29:42 · answer #8 · answered by lady c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
likely no longer, till he seeks help for his anger. You 2 ought to paintings in this example in the previous he really hurts you. Statistically, those relationships worsen. you're worth extra !!! there are various loving men accessible which will be there for you in many circumstances without bodily hurting you. also, the further this is going on the further you'll initiate to resent him. this can likely (hopefully ) end your courting, besides, so at this element you're basically dropping some time staying in this courting.
2016-10-16 09:10:49 · answer #9 · answered by cywinski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry.
Life gets better when you get older. You are still very young, and your whole life is ahead of you.
Focus on your dreams and making them a reality. Friends will come naturally, and you will find your true love, when you least expect it.
2006-11-16 08:21:25 · answer #10 · answered by Jack C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand completely... I'm going through the exact same thing... I mean, the EXACT same thing... How wierd is that...
I'm pessimistic by nature though. I'm not to reasurred about my future, but perhaps there's hope for you.
2006-11-16 08:21:52 · answer #11 · answered by Pursue Happiness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋