I'm a pretty cute girl and I put myself out there but no guys seem to notice or want to talk to me.What am I doing wrong?
2006-11-16 08:48:28 · 20 answers · asked by mint 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Fear of rejection.
2006-11-16 08:50:28 · answer #1 · answered by Hank S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing I know the feeling, we just have to look more approachable adn give guysa look that we are either interested or that ist ok to come talkto us. This is what I have learned from guys I have talked to and male frinds of mine. I have also been a little more friendly, well just smiled a little more when I am in the sort of environment where a guy would npossibly want to talk. I hope this helps. You probably arent doing too much wrong. Thank God for your beauty but dont let it get to your head. Good luck.
2006-11-16 08:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by Nickerbockers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some fella's believe that pretty girls are out of their reach and so are afraid of being rejected by them if they ask them out. Sometimes the pretty girls are extremely stuck up and so their vanity causes others to not be interested. But if nobody is approaching you, then you may have to make the first move and start conversations with them. This way it will put the fella's at ease and soon enough everyone will know how cool and easy you are to talk with and lots of guys will be putting the move on you.
2006-11-16 08:54:09 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some guys cant read girls (me being one of them). My wife tells me when a girl is checking me out and I still cant see it. Today a group of us went out for lunch and a female co-worked mentioned that a girl in the next booth was flirting with me. I never noticed.....You pretty much have to get naked for me to see that they are interested. And yes some guys are intimidated by pretty girls (again, me being one of them)....its amazing that I am even married!!!!! LOL.....
Just make the first move. And look for the guy who does not stand out in the crowd. Most of the time the "stand out in the crowd" dude is the self absorbed one and will just want you as a toy. And being pretty is not everything. Beauty and sexy is in the way you walk, talk, and your attitude. I would chose a girl that had these qualities before I would a "pretty" girl......
2006-11-16 09:04:28 · answer #4 · answered by aubreytaegan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Us pretty girls sometimes tend to scare guys off. I mean look at, were soooo pretty. Serious;y though, don't put yourself out there like you so hard pressed for attention, reason being-you'll come off exactly like that to guys, and here's a little secret, they run from crazy broads too!!
Just be you, and the right person will come into your life. Be grateful your not being dogged out left and right. Save your pretty self for a man/husband that will appreciate every bit of your prettiness!
God Bless.
2006-11-16 08:52:40 · answer #5 · answered by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are intimidated and scared of rejection. If you know a guy likes you or you are interested in someone why dont you make a move or give him a sign that its ok.
Some guys have the notion that pretty girls come with Drama too.
I have this problem too
2006-11-16 08:52:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not doing anything wrong... Something is just messed up with men's brains. We are like apples, and boys are like stupid little boys that pick apples from a tree. We are at the top, but they just go for picking the easier apples on the bottom of the tree. We are the better apples, they just don't want to risk reachng so high for a better reward. Do you get what I'm saying? They want us, they are just nervous. They go for the easier girls, not the best.
2006-11-16 08:53:50 · answer #7 · answered by Lou-Ba-Doo 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
there could be many reasons for this. if you live in southern cali, that could be one of them :-p naw, j/k
could be that a lotta guys feel intimidated by very attractive gallies. see, it's all about ''pimp juice'' i know, i know, but hear me out. see, pimp juice is anything to attact the opposite sex, could be money fame, or um...intellect. not that i got that from a SONG or anything :-p but when a guy has LESS pimp juice than a gallie, it can be intimidating. he may feel the need to over compensate for it and totally miss his opportunity totalk to you. or he might just turn tail and run.
maybe he thinks you're looking for someone who's more of a match for you. ppl will often look for someone who is equally attractive/talented/hard working, etc. as they are. they see you lookin' firecracker hott, they might just assume you're looking for a guy with similar qualities and that you don't even notice them.
2006-11-16 08:55:36 · answer #8 · answered by phtokhos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're doing nothing wrong, sweetie. Is just that they're not used to asking a pretty girl out, since they reject themselves before you can do. So they back off with resignation without even trying. Is stupid, but that's how it works. Then they realize how stupid they really were.
2006-11-16 08:51:02 · answer #9 · answered by M'lady 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If they are real pretty the guy might not think he has a chance so doesn't take the chance. Many times they are also intimidated by her beauty.
2006-11-16 08:52:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
they are probably intimidated by you. or (not saying that you are) if you are overly confident that puts some guys off and it may make you seem unapproachable.
2006-11-16 08:51:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋