I hate the attetion I get from older men. I'm suppose to be a "sexy" girl but none of the guys at my high want to talk to me or want me to be their girlfriend.
2006-11-16 08:36:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it all depends I have the same problem and the boys literally told me that they aren't looking for wife material which they claim is what I am. They're looking for the dumb females who is willing to give it up right after they have met. They told me that I'm the only damn good looking girl who takes her education seriously and has things going for herself. So really it's a good thing because they see you as a respectful young lady and not a $2 whoe.
2006-11-16 08:41:35 · answer #1 · answered by adgshanice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY ARE YOU SUPPOSED TO BE A SEXY GIRL..? YOUR NOT OLD ENOUGH TO BE SEXY, YOU CAN'T EVEN BUY CIGARETTES, NEVER THE LESS GET INTO A BAR? YOU NEED TO TONE DOWN YOUR WANT BE SEXINESS, THAT'S WHY THE DUDES YOUR AGE DON'T WANT TO APPROACH YOU THEY FEEL LIKE THEY DON'T HAVE NOTHING TO OFFER YOU. AS FOR THE OLDER DUDES WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO TO HAVE AND KEEP THEM IS SOMETHING YOUR PROBABLY NOT READY FOR AT ALL, AND IT'S MORE THAN JUST HAVING SEX WITH THEM STOP TRYING TO GROW UP SO FAST ALOT OF WOMEN WHO GET OUT THERE AND TRY AND BE ALL SEXY AND TRY AND GROW UP FAST END UP RAPED AND BEATEN IN A DUMPSTER SOMEWHERE IT'S SAD BUT TRUE. STOP TRYING TO SELL YOURSELF TO OLDER MEN BUY BEING SEXY YOU SOUND LIKE A FOOL. AND DON'T SAY YOUR NOT "TRYING" TO BE SEXY SWEETIE YOU ARE. YOU WON'T EVEN KNOW HOW TO HANDLE SOME OF THE SITUATIONS "SEXY" CAN GET YOU INTO. SOME MEN DON'T TAKE NO FOR AN ANSWER NO MATTER HOW YOU SAY IT OR HOW NICE THEY ARE AT FIRST. YOU HAVEN'T EVEN DEALT WITH ENOUGH MEN AND SITUATIONS TO KNOW HOW TO BE A GOOD JUDGE OF CHARACTER OF A MAN SLOW DOWN. HOT GIRL
2006-11-16 08:48:59 · answer #2 · answered by sky g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some older men are lecherous creeps. They like you because your young and innocent and non-threatening for starters.
You'll find somebody . . . in the meantime, have fun and relax. And tell the older guys they're need to stay in their own decade. :)
2006-11-16 08:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are trying to hard to impress them and they know that so they do not want you. Try dressing like a highschool girl instead of a grown women that might help too. GOOD LUCK
2006-11-16 08:39:28 · answer #4 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because at your age, guys want Porn stars. You are too natural for them. But don't rush up things. You'll grow up and they'll begin to notice you so much you'll be sick of it.
Time is the clue.
2006-11-16 08:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by M'lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just imagine how much better your life is going to be when you turn 18.
2006-11-16 08:38:07 · answer #6 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh do not worry about that ...just go on with your life ...there will come a time when that speacial someone will enter in your life......maybe if you stay away from these older men thaat would help
2006-11-16 08:43:13 · answer #7 · answered by blugeanie923 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe they want to give you some jewelry...a pearl necklace perhaps?
2006-11-16 08:38:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
older men = home, car, income, vacations, etc.
High School kid = movie, dinner.
which one is better?
2006-11-16 08:41:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't try to grow up too fast!
2006-11-16 08:37:51 · answer #10 · answered by Hank S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋