I do not want to have sex anymore. I am disgusted by the thought of it. My passion is gone. This is quite recent (two months) as I spent my entire life up until this point craving sex and having sex frequently with my partner (1 man). Even kissing makes me uncomfortable. Touching makes me physically ill. I don't know what's wrong with me or what I've done to make this change. Please help me. It isn't that I don't want him anymore, I want to go back to sex. It's just that everytime I think of it I get sick. What could it be and how can I change it?
2006-11-16 08:01:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lots of people go through this at one time or another in their lives, so please do not feel as though you are all alone with these feelings. If it starts to present itself as a problem in your relationship or inside of you then I would suggest that you go and speak with either your family doctor and/or sexual counselor to see if you can get to the root of the problem. Good luck.
2006-11-16 08:06:24 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a generality, as people become older the drive for sex starts to diminish as the person becomes more mature. However you seem fairly young so maybe the answer is to spice things up a bit. You might just be bored with the "same old same old" and need a bit of a jump start. Try checking out a sex shop and see if there are some toys that could help you both get stimulated and spice things up in the bedroom.
2006-11-16 16:07:56 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I think you should see a doctor for a full physical exam including a pap smear, urine test, and an extensive blood test. You may also want to get a KAT scan of your head to insure no tumors are present. If there is nothing wrong physically, you may want to go to a psychiatrist or a hypnotist to see if there is a sub-conscious mental problem you're not aware of.
2006-11-16 16:14:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well could it be possible that your pregnant ? cause my sex drive is gone and lost and in the gutter i hate having sex i hate to be touched and i hate to be kissed and i am 5 months pregnant. Than again if your not pregnant you could be slightly going through a faze where you dont want it anymore its not that appealing. I had a faze not to long after i got married to my husband and he was my first, and we constantly had sex for awhile than i didnt want to be touched and than i got pregnant and really didnt want to be touched so it could either be you might be pregnant or you might being through a slight faze {i miss having lots and lots of good sex also} hope this helps good luck
2006-11-16 16:13:22 · answer #4 · answered by mommyandbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something has to have happened for you to be completely turned of, i think you want a different relationship with him, you were purely physical now you want more, see a movie together, eat out occasionally, have friends over, do other things together. Mix it up the feeling will come back.
2006-11-16 16:14:48 · answer #5 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be clinically depressed. Low serotonin levels VERY often are the culprit in low sex drives. Ask your doctor about your problem. He'll ask you several questions and may want to put you on a medicine to get you back on track. :)
Hope this helps.
Peace... :)
2006-11-16 16:16:51 · answer #6 · answered by staggvocals 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take professional help, might be some physical or mental change that may have changed ur response to sex
2006-11-16 16:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by vio_prince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
e-mail me set you on fire. But i will actually recommend you to see a sex therapist or therapist. A lot of times it is due to emotional stress and chemical imbalances. But more times than not it could be cause by sexual abuse in the past, if you were abused.
2006-11-16 16:11:08 · answer #8 · answered by what tha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you unhappy with yourself or have low self image. Infedelity in the past messing you up. Maybe you have really low seritonin levels, or your estrogen is deminished. I would suggest counceling, if you cant figure it out. it could defently be hormonal. Or you subconciously hate him
2006-11-16 16:10:46 · answer #9 · answered by Hussite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋