My school is filled with kids desperately trying to have a girlfriend/boyfriend. Especially the popular girls. They switch boyfriends, get hooked up and everything just to stay cool. It's so retarted. What's the point?
2006-11-16 08:07:25 · 15 answers · asked by fruit salad 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There really isn't a point. I personally had my first boyfriend in the ninth grade and I still wasn't ready! You're just too young at that point. I hated being chained to one person. The girls that switch from one boyfriend to another are just looking for attention. They aren't secure enough in themselves so they find a guy that they think could make them feel better about themselves but it only leaves them emptier.
2006-11-16 08:14:45 · answer #1 · answered by boriquagirl_19 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The point is our kids go to school brainwashed and focused on the wrong sh*t.
Our society makes it glamorous and convenient for our children to date. You are suppose to go to school to learn.
When I lived in Korea I at first thought is was wierd that boys and girls went to seperate schools up until high school. By the time they started going to school with each other the girls still hung with girls and boys with boys. Thus, a very low child birth rate and they wore uniforms as well and nobody complained.
Why do our Amerikkkan schools keep turning out social outcasts that ultimitely want to kill their classmates and teachers? Discipline, standards, and consequences have been removed and look at what we have now.? Kids all want to be fashion plates, dating around, and play he say she say to the point that once we graduate and move into the work force at a fortune 500 company, we still act like we are still in junior high school. All we talk about is who is doing what and "I can't believe she wore that outfit." We are what we create!
2006-11-16 08:20:54 · answer #2 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aww i understand ur question im in 7th grade and soo many ppl are trying to get boyfriends. mostly the popular people have bfs and gfs but by the end of last year a lot were broken up. there really isnt a point i guess its just for popularity and to feel mature.
2006-11-16 08:13:00 · answer #3 · answered by Liquid♥Onyx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 01:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by mauzon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about status and who will make you look good or popular at that age. Stand on your own and realize you don't need someone to do that. Save dating and problems with dating until you are ready and mature to handle them.
2006-11-16 08:09:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is no point they are kids trying to act like grown ups seriously they should sit down and see what their parents go threw on a daily basis and think is that what i want already!! It may also be that they want to feel important and want everyone to notice them.
2006-11-16 08:10:43 · answer #6 · answered by Kas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ya like a boy, you... generally WANT TO BE WITH THEM! That's why they have boyfriends. They are pure fun and great to get other boys jealous with. What's with the "popular girls"? I mean honestly.. just because we can GET boys!
2006-11-16 08:12:26 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥♥♥ 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
there isn't a point!! its dumb they don't stay together pass teh next grade and find someone else 2 weeks later. Wait till your in high school, it gets much worse!!!
2006-11-16 08:09:38 · answer #8 · answered by stewiegrif27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I expect it's simply the fast times of today. Children arent simply children anymore.
2006-11-16 08:10:54 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people are just desperate but sometimes they realy do like the other person and sometimes thing might not work out.
2006-11-16 08:12:58 · answer #10 · answered by lacee loo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋