OKAY SO I MET A GUY ALMOST 3 WKS AGO AND WELL IT STARTED OK HE WOULD CALL ME HERE AND THERE THEN ONE DAY I SAW HIM AT A PARTY AND WE TALKED AND I FELT LIKE WE CLICKED HE ASKED ME ON A DATE WE WENT ON OUR DATE AND IT WAS SO MUCH FUN. HE IS SO FUNNY BUT ALSO VERY VERY SHY. ITS HARD FOR HIM TO COME UP TO A GIRL BUT WHEN I GOT TO KNOW HIM HE IS SO FUNNY AND HE IS SOMEONE I CAN SEE MYSELF WITH. AFTER OUR DATE HES CALLED ME HERE AND THERE AND HES ALSO GONE TO VISIT ME BUT WE ALWAYS SAY BYE WITH A HAND SHAKE.SO I DONT KNOW HOW TO TAKE IT DOES HE LIKE ME SHOULD I TRY TO HAVE MORE THAN A FRIENDSHIP. IT SO HARD TO TELL IVE BEEN OUT OF THE DATING THING FOR A WHILE AND LATELY IVE BEEN MEETING THOSE GUYS WHO JUST WANT ONE THING SO I DONT KNOW IF THIS ONE IS JUST TAKING IT SLOW OR IS REALLY JUST A FRIEND..HOW CAN I TELL? I AM REALLY INTERESTED IN HIM BUT BEFORE I GET ANY FURTHER I WOULD WANT TO KNOW BECAUSE I AM TIRED OF THE WHOLE DATING AND NOT WORKING DEAL...HELP!!
2006-11-16 07:57:38 · 16 answers · asked by *SIMPLY ME* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think he likes u and taking it slowely because you said that he has been calling you here and their and he's funny around u a GIRL so he feels comfortable and not shy around you he has fun when he is around u ! so wait for him
2006-11-16 08:02:25 · answer #1 · answered by helper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh i totally feel ya on the whole guys wanting one thing deal. If your guy is shy then he is too shy to kiss you. I am kinda dealig with the same thing right now. I have been out with this guy 3 times and we leave with a hug. He also may be trying to feel you out as well. Maybe just tease him a bit about always giving you a hand shake! Then say hey lets step it up with a hug this time. Say it jokingly and go from there. Or just plain out ask him.. good luck
2006-11-16 08:01:39 · answer #2 · answered by sweetchesta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like this, you said it yourself that this guy is shy, so what if it's a hand shake right now, maybe he doesn't want to push things.. if he wasn't interested, why would he bother going on a date, or visiting you? Talk to him, see where he see's this going before you lay yourself on the line.
2006-11-16 08:04:38 · answer #3 · answered by CHELLE E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had this happen before...the guy was just shy and didnt like to make the first move (we talked about it)....to help him get over it maybe start off with a hug when you say hello or goodbye then maybe a kiss on the cheek as well....that will show him you are interested....see how he reacts...or you can just tell him what you feel and go from there
2006-11-16 08:01:14 · answer #4 · answered by Get_R_Done_n_Dallas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look him in the eyes when u tlk to him, see how he looks at u, notice his body language. also pay attention to his tone of voice and expression, when he first sees you does he get a big smile. u might not want to ask him cause for some shy ppl it might be scary, and u might wanna try to ease into it, cause if u wait to long hes prolly gonna get more nervous cause he thinks u only like him as a friend if nothing happens at all and everything
2006-11-16 08:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by jeriko joavna de'amor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, not to disapoint you, but just because you to are like sister and brother (really close) doesn't mean he likes you, dont get to attached because what if you do, and it turns out he just wants you as a friend? You'd be hurt right, ouch, so be careful and ask him before u do something that will ruin your relationship as friends
2006-11-16 08:02:28 · answer #6 · answered by H03S K33P MY NAM3 0F Y0 M0UTH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you can really see yourself with this guy and you truly know what you want from him, you should just straight out tell him and ASK him where he thinks both of you stand together. It's an unpredictable situition and the only way to figure it out is to ask.
Best of luck!
2006-11-16 09:06:39 · answer #7 · answered by pangfvlx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you see him, embrace him warmly and give him a kiss. After that just smile and look him in the eye. That should break through any shyness he may be holding on to.
2006-11-16 08:00:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should sit down and talk to him. And if he is really mature he will tell you what he feels. So I think you should be the bigger person and tell him what you feel first and if he can't take it mabey he isnt right for you.
2006-11-16 08:03:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there :D. I think u should give some signs to him that u want to be kissed. That guy sure like you. Good Luck ;D
2006-11-16 08:00:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋