Hi =). So the thing is... I met this girl like 2 months ago. We've already go out on a date and the things between us was going really good. So this week it seems to me that she is getting a little bit distant from me at university, she doesn't even go online(msn) to talk to me like she use to do. Is this some kind of sign? Should I continue to send her messages? Or should I get a little distant for a while too? Tks ladies *
2006-11-16 07:57:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she probably got turned off by something you did or didnt do.
2006-11-16 07:59:39 · answer #1 · answered by joey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should back off just a little bit. Give her a little space. Let her miss you. She may be having a hectic week. It could just be the wrong time of the month.
Send her an email. Say... you seem to be having a busy week...let me know when you can talk. I would love to spend time with you again!
Leave it at that. Let her make the next move. Good luck!
2006-11-16 08:02:39 · answer #2 · answered by emotional blonde 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it be posible that she has a life other than her bf?(sarcasm) Seriously though, it's more likely as not she has a big assignment due or something. Just because you both don't spend every waking moment together doesn't mean things are falling apart. She's probably just really busy. Ask her if she needs help with whatever she's working on. Or invite her out to coffe so she can take a break. Buy her a CD she can listen to while she works. That could help you feel closer.
2006-11-16 08:02:00 · answer #3 · answered by ichigo_li2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-01 13:36:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be busy or preoccupied with something. Don't jump to conclusions that she's trying to break things up. I'd just continue as you've been doing. However, if she continues to be distant, you might ask her if anything is wrong. Sometimes it helps to clear the air.
2006-11-16 08:04:23 · answer #5 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should the same what shes doing....
theres nothing better showing her if ur like that...
than I'm like that!
she wants interest......so dont give it to her
dont even talk 2 her until she does...believe me
she'll come the next day saying have I done something??
and just be cool...
say u seemed like u werent interested anymore...
so I was like....its cool
show her its not a big deal!
2006-11-16 08:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jeez shes ur freakin girlfriend! just be like hey? how come ur never on MSN anymore? u need to communicate and if u cant ask a simple question to ur own gf than thats stupid, u might as well not even go out with her.
2006-11-16 08:02:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would still try to talk her here and there but tone it down a bit. She is probably having second thoughts but don't shut her down completely. Just slow it down a little bit. Ask her what's up if she doesn't answer then you've got your answer.
2006-11-16 08:01:07 · answer #8 · answered by stephanieplum4404 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just give her some space. She might just need it. Or she might be busy. Just talk to her about it. and remember, You can't just always be around her. So yeah, give her space and soon she'll go back to calling and stuff. Just not every night probably. Hope I helped!
2006-11-16 08:17:04 · answer #9 · answered by Kendall L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you distant yourself I would talk to her about it first. In that way you can find out if it was something you did or something that she is concerned about. If she tells you she needs space I would respectfully give it to her.
2006-11-16 08:11:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're best bet is to act like nothing is different, go on about your normal business, maybe since she knows she's got you she's now not interested. The thought of you not caring will get her right back into you.
2006-11-16 07:59:40 · answer #11 · answered by jess0866 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋