2006-11-16 07:42:45 · 43 answers · asked by mysticeyes792006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, but it takes time and a huge commitment on both sides to make it happen!
If the person who cheated is willing to rebuild the trust they destroyed and the one cheated on is willing to work on forgiveness, than it is possible. Difficult, but possible!
2006-11-16 07:45:58 · answer #1 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From Personal experience No. People can try to forgive and forget, but when he comes home an hour late from work you will always wonder. You will think about all the fun memories you had together and all of a sudden you will think about the other girl. People can change is what I hear, but from my experience once a cheater always a cheater. I guess I just would not want to be with someone I would question the trust we have because with out trust there is no true relationship. You know him more than anybody here... Just follow your gut.
2006-11-16 07:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by Rebel Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its awful hard and takes along time. I think a lot of the trust can be regained depending on the circumstances surrounding the cheating. Some people cheat simply becouse they are horndogs who arn't getting enough at home or arn't commited or just like a change. These types are likly to do it again. If the cheating occured becouse of problems in the relationship and emotional need then it wll depend on how the relationship improves and commitment on making things work by both people. Trust and relationships are difficult but if its a first offence and wasn't a relationship then I think its worth trying to build that trust again. Good luck
2006-11-16 07:48:22 · answer #3 · answered by buffybot67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I couldn't. I don't think one can ever fully regain trust from such an experience. I saw this documentary on adultery. The husband, who traveled plenty for his job, was the victim, in this case. The wife, feeling lonely, I suppose, due to the husband's absence, fell for some good looking stud of a coworker, and they had a fling. He apparently found out. But somehow he decided to stick it out w/ her after she apologized and broke it off with the adulterer... I think they were married with children so maybe that was a factor.. and plus the kid(s) were pretty young. He did point blank tell the interviewer of the documentary that he can't ever fully regain her trust and wonders, in the back of his mind, if she'll ever pull that again when he's away.
2006-11-16 07:49:57 · answer #4 · answered by StantheMan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can ever fully trust that person again. I tell you that from the standpoint of someone who was cheated on and did trust the person again only to have them cheat on me again. That will never happen to me again. If you plan to stay with someone who cheated on you that's ok, but dont be to surprised if they repeat thier behavior.
2006-11-16 07:46:42 · answer #5 · answered by hdb107 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He clearly means a lot to you, since you're here asking. Think you need to seriously sit down and have a chat about whats happened, and you need to tell him how your feeling. Maybe you can work this out together. Tell him what you need and want from him, and he should, if he loves you want to help and respond to your needs, after all he placed you in this situation. You need to give each other time. But on the other hand, as much as this has hurt you, and is wrong. A part of you has to accept he did something wrong, and leave the past in the past and try to move away from it, together. If you truely want to trust & go back to the way things were... you have to let go of what he did and move on.
2006-11-16 08:27:16 · answer #6 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"once a cheater always a cheater" that's not true Ive cheated in a past relationship before and I didn't do it again, and now I'm married and would not think of cheating. If my husband cheated on me Yes I would give him another chance, we would work through our problems and try to deal. Everyone always says once a cheater always a cheater because its a catchy phrase but in most cases its not always true.
2006-11-16 08:01:16 · answer #7 · answered by marine_wife001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you never have the same level of trust. I am sorry but that's just the way it is. You can forgive and move on with the relationship but you will always wonder if its happening again and again. Plus if you forgive a cheater then you lose some respect for youself so please have more respect for yourself and find someone who won't cheat on you.
2006-11-16 07:46:50 · answer #8 · answered by questioningly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not the same, I was cheated on and stayed with him and I don't trust him in the same way I did before, it's very hard.
2006-11-16 07:48:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anilop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very hard to trust that same person that broke the trust before.
2006-11-16 07:46:24 · answer #10 · answered by Damzel in distrust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋